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schoolgirlz
November 3rd, 2013, 01:46 PM
I lost my virginity when I was 15 at a party in a closet. Was I to young or was that a crazy age? We are still together from since last year. He was a virgin too. We are also still sexually active. Should I continue to have sex with him?
:confused: :what: :cool: Im 16 now

Amazerful
November 3rd, 2013, 01:48 PM
Well if you are comfortable with it then its fine

kylem1229
November 3rd, 2013, 01:50 PM
If you both have feelings for each other, and plan to stay that way, you can continue. Just continue using protection so nothing bad happens and ruins your lives.

Alex_3869
November 3rd, 2013, 02:00 PM
I don't think it is wrong unless you are uncomfortable with it, or you do not use protection. These are both very important. If you aren't comfortable with it, it could end really badly and you probably will end up losing a friend. Using protection is important for obvious reasons. i do think that there is an age where it is just plain no right to lose your virginity. 12-13 around there. I still feel like i am too young, but not as much anymore... Lets just say if the crcumstances were right, then I don't think 14 is too young.

deregisterme
November 3rd, 2013, 04:13 PM
If you are both happy together...

schoolgirlz
November 3rd, 2013, 04:26 PM
Thanks you really helped

elmoc
November 4th, 2013, 11:06 AM
In my opinion, if you are committed to each other, feel that you love each other, AND use a condom, then you are mature enough to have sex. The condom, not just 'protection' is so important, because even HPV doesn't always show up until you are an older adult. I believe that neither sex should have sex without a condom until they are married. There are possibly viral STDs that doctors haven't even discovered yet.

I have a older brother that is a doctor, and I trust him completely. He told me that he has a 50 year old patient that got HPV (back when the birth control pill had just come out, & people thought they didn't need condoms anymore) before doctors even knew it existed. The HPV has caused cancer problems in his testicles, prostate, & other parts of his body. He said that 50 might seem old to me, but this man still likes sex as much as anyone, & his sex life with his wife (married for 31 years) is basically over. My brother told me that there are thousands of men just like him. Back then, syphillis & gonnerhea were the only STDs they knew about, not even HIV! Not anymore.

And it could have been avoided with just one little condom

Harley Quinn
November 4th, 2013, 11:09 AM
Teen Sexuality :arrow: P101

Duke96
November 4th, 2013, 11:23 AM
Whether it is "wrong" or "bad", etc. is really up to you. Sometimes you just know when you're not ready, but you sound comfortable.

EneasR
November 4th, 2013, 12:36 PM
Im still a virgin but its your decision

TeeGee
November 4th, 2013, 12:44 PM
I haven't yet but I would and I don't think I am too young either. I just hope i'd be able to say no if we didnt have protection and she was close to her period.

Luminous
November 4th, 2013, 01:54 PM
You sound fine.

I'm a virgin.

Swagging god
November 4th, 2013, 02:28 PM
I lost mine at 14 and I felt ready, because we were both committed and ready to take that step in our relationship. As long as you felt that you and your partner had a connection it's ok in my opinion.

drmindfreak
November 4th, 2013, 02:30 PM
im 13 and virgin. 15 seems ok

highschool
November 4th, 2013, 04:12 PM
the closet part doesn't seem like the best idea. But if you think you're okay with that, and he agrees, then you're fine.

Azalez070
November 4th, 2013, 05:30 PM
I lost my virginity when I was 15 at a party in a closet. Was I to young or was that a crazy age? We are still together from since last year. He was a virgin too. We are also still sexually active. Should I continue to have sex with him?
:confused: :what: :cool: Im 16 now

Well i don't think is bad. If you enjoyed, it's great, if you are still together is great too. What worries me is that you are not doing it protected, then you might get pregnant to young...

Elysium
November 4th, 2013, 05:52 PM
If you're comfortable, confident, and safe, I don't see anything wrong with it.

Jason98
November 4th, 2013, 07:27 PM
There is no right or wrong age, to lose your virginity.
Its when it feels right for you

martogogo
November 5th, 2013, 12:53 PM
still a virgin

McAK101
November 5th, 2013, 12:58 PM
There's nothing wrong with it as long as both of you are comfortable with it. Personally, I am 16 and still a virgin (don't mind it either).

Staci
November 6th, 2013, 02:35 PM
I lost my virginity when I was 15 at a party in a closet. Was I to young or was that a crazy age? We are still together from since last year. He was a virgin too. We are also still sexually active. Should I continue to have sex with him?
:confused: :what: :cool: Im 16 now

Not sure a closet would've been my first choice - lol. Since you're still together, continuing to have sex with him seems like the normal thing to do.

Pittsburgh
November 6th, 2013, 07:42 PM
yes, continue

Jeff1857
July 15th, 2017, 10:49 AM
Still a virgin. :(

SamMystic
July 15th, 2017, 11:06 AM
Too*

Living For Love
July 15th, 2017, 02:50 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: