Having trouble?!

[vixon]

k heres the deal.... me n my bf have done everything n ever since he started fingering me i cant orgasm i mean i think i have like 2 out of like 20 he did it.... i mean i get to the point were i am gonna but i just dont .... wats wrong?!

[vixon]

I need help guys please!!!!!!

[TheWizard]

Why don't you tell him how you like it.

[Kiros]

It might just be you're use to the stimulation. Try and go for a few extra days without doing it. Then when you two do it again, tell him to speed up or to do it harder.

That should help.

[DouggyO.o]

yea...mabey u should talk to him bout it...and decide what u like and tell him to do that

[Ezz]

yeah~

just tell him what you want him to do

[vixon]

but i mean i do like it i just dont know why i cant have an orgasm.. is he not doing it right? i mean i feels like he is..

[ScotsGirl]

It sounds like you need to relax.

It sounds as if you are focusing on this alot, which means that you arent relaxed when you are with him, which in turn leads to you not orgasmning....its almost like a viscious cycle.
The more you focus on the fact that you think you should orgasm, the less likely it is that you will have one. Youre putting too much pressure on yourself and on your bf. You just need to relax, clear your mind...dont focus on what you think you should be doing, focus on what he is actually doing :wink:
If you dont think he is doing what you want him to, then guide him in the direction you want. If i were you i wouldnt say to him directly that he isnt doing it right(male egos :wink: lol) maybe just tell him you "love it when he does [insert what you like here]"
It might be an idea to investigate for yourself what feels good for you if you dont already do so. That way, you can communicate with him what you like the most :D

Well, I hope everything works out as you want it to :D Remember, just relax and have fun! :D

xxx

[vixon]

thanks that helps i get to se him this weekend yay lets see if it works :-)

[Sexything001]

ok, i'm not an expert when it comes to guy on gurl, being that i'm lez, but when me and my gf started out, she was always fingering me. after a while i got used to it and stopped having orgasms. so what i did is have her use my vibrator. i don't think that it will work for you, but try to see if he wants to take it to the next level, if you know what i mean. that or just get a vibrator and do yourself. and let me know if any of this helps.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

does he do it good enough?

[Kev*]

where can teens get vibrators without there parents knowing?

[CrAzY-TBonE]

i get my toys at spencers in the mall ;)

ah i love lesbians lol

[DouggyO.o]

u have a spensers? i have one here too...where are u from

[serial-thrilla]

there are spencers everywhere its a huge chain store. we have them here.

[DouggyO.o]

ooo. lol i thought that was a maine thing lol

[*-tick tock-*]

lol spencers is a trip...

they have this orgasm button thingy..LOL crazy :shock:

try laying off the fingering?? dont focus on WHen your gonna orgasm.just relax and let it come.. i hear if u like..think about it..it wont happen or its less likely
hope i helped

[vixon]

God! He came over yesterday and I did wait u guys said RELAXED omg it was the best ever i didnt hink about but i was moaning loud as hell (is what he told me) and damn was it frigin great lol! Thanks u guys!

BTW - Spencers is everyhere lol I used to live in the north and they had it there now i live here and they have it here too yay!

[ScotsGirl]

hehe :D im really glad you had such a great time vixon :D ...and i hope it continues :D

xxx

[rockgibson15]

is it true that you can get vibrators and stuff at spensers even if your under 16?

[Maverick]

Plz don't bump old threads.