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diddykong53
November 2nd, 2013, 08:19 PM
My parents obviously hate me and I'll tell you why. Through my whole childhood they've been really strict and raising me and not letting me do anything. But now I'm 16, and they hate me I know it. I got my liscence but whenever I want to go somewhere they have to make a big deal out of it, its like just let me go buy a coffee or something why do we have to plan out the whole event, and my dad won't let me drive anyone anywhere, but I thought that me getting my license proved that I can drive but I guess he doesn't believe I could do it. And I like this girl and Shes only 13 but I can't tell my parents that because they wouldn't even let me talk to her or be around her, and its terrible because Shes the first girl who actually liked me back and she makes me so happy. Anyway, they hate me also be cause I listen to metal allot, and they think I'm weird because I wear black, but I wear black because Thats how I feel on the inside. I just wish they'd accept me for who I am. They always wanted me to be the perfect Christian boy, but guess what I'm not OK?!? They make me mad. So now I'm starting to stay in my room allot and never talk to them because if it try talking to them then there will just be an argument. I hate being around them. I started cutting a while ago but I don't do allot, but I think they know about it and hate because I'm not normal, all I want to do is die. I've been looking at website about how much Tylenol you have to take to die, but I'm to scared. I typed this because someone online said to type it like it was a question on a forum, and they said to show it to your parents but I can't. I so sick of them. What should I do? If stuff keeps happening I feel like there's no point to life anymore. But I'm afraid to die. ?
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I feel like if I talk to my parents they will never change. I can't make them let me date they never will, my dad won't let me drive anyone until I'm on my own. I feel like I should get back at them and take revenge
Katiya
November 2nd, 2013, 08:32 PM
I've had similar problems with my parents. I can warn you don't of on Tylenol. Its hell and you won't die, someone will find you and youll die a slow death of liver failure in the hospital. They WILL let you die but they make you pay for it all the way. So save your self that pit of greif and don't do that.
Sounds like you have a very stressful life. Try to get a social worker to speak to you and your parents. That helped a lot for me on a few issues similar to yours. My parents decided to let me drive and do things BC then I was out of their hair, they hated me being home buy wouldn't let me leave so the worker did convince them yo let me leave.
Living For Love
November 3rd, 2013, 12:22 PM
My parents are a bit like that, too. I've learned to ignore them and focus only on what's important in my life. You need to set your own goals and objectives, and focus on them only. Not talking too much to them also helps, it avoids a lot of arguing and needless discussions. Please don't do anything rash, you'll be independent and free someday, think about all your future projects and your future life, and how amazing it can be. Don't let your parents take you down, they just don't understand you, and it's not your fault.
LolWall
November 3rd, 2013, 03:07 PM
I just want to let you know... They have absolutely NO valid reason to treat you this way. Get help from a social worker and be ready to justify your claims. The main important thing to consider here is whether something is justified or not. Justified claims can be used against non-justified claims and you can win that way.
Miserabilia
November 3rd, 2013, 03:10 PM
Wait you want to kill yourself because your parents are controlling?
Trust me, it will feel much better when you keep living, grow up and make something of your life without there help, and say "HAH look where I got without you" If you kill yourself you won't have any chance of that
deregisterme
November 3rd, 2013, 05:05 PM
Please listen to the advice so far. Your life is worth living. Speak to a councillor. Just avoid too many situations with them. If you're not that close to them, one day you will get a place of your own.
YOUR BROTHER
November 3rd, 2013, 05:13 PM
Well in my life I'm surprised I'm still alive I just think life is a gift and you shouldn't waste it sooo don't do anything u might regret
jff16190
November 5th, 2013, 05:39 AM
Hey man, I read it all, I'm here to talk to okay? Maybe if ur closeby we can meet up and I could comfort you
Texas warrior
November 8th, 2013, 01:24 AM
You have two years left that is all, after that you will be free. Just keep that in mind.
diddykong53
November 8th, 2013, 09:23 PM
Sounds like you have a very stressful life. Try to get a social worker to speak to you and your parents. That helped a lot for me on a few issues similar to yours. My parents decided to let me drive and do things BC then I was out of their hair, they hated me being home buy wouldn't let me leave so the worker did convince them yo let me leave.
Well I kind of wish my parents were like yours but my parents act like they love me and don't want me out of their hair. I wish they did want me gone. I don't think they truly love me though, they just pretend they do so they can say that they're "good" parents.
tundravortex
November 8th, 2013, 09:37 PM
Well I kind of wish my parents were like yours but my parents act like they love me and don't want me out of their hair. I wish they did want me gone. I don't think they truly love me though, they just pretend they do so they can say that they're "good" parents.
that's when you confront them in front of the social worker and if you do it right and make them feel pressure than keep putting the pressure on them until they pop...if they can pressure you into killing yourself than you can pressure them,just because your not what they want doesn't mean your not human...gotta fight back dude that's all i gotta say
JoobinTwist
November 8th, 2013, 09:41 PM
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