Turn straight

[liam2013]

Is there any way of turning straight I'm gay and I hate it every time I fancy a cute boy and also when I have feelings for a very cute boy Why can I turn straight I don't even have feeling for girls at all. How can I start liking girls

[Shannon.]

You can't.

If you like boys, you like boys. You're gonna have to accept that fact, and the sooner, the better. You can't change your sexual orientation on a whim.

[Abyssal Echo]

you can't change it. you are just going to have to accept it.

[Stryker125]

That's not how it works, dude.

[Laquifa]

Embrace it. It's not a bad thing hun :)

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Sexuality is a fact of life. I don't mean this harshly but get over it. That's just the way it is.
Also, TPAM really hit it right on. Embrace it, nothing is really bad about it. Just be you, in conclusion.

[chargersfan]

You can't just start liking girls over night. So your gonna have to live with who you are.

[Derryck]

It's amazing what catholic school teachers would be saying right now.

[Elysium]

You can lie to yourself and everyone around you and pretend to be attracted to girls so you appear straight to everyone else, but that's the closest you can come. And that would make you very miserable, not to mention hurt the people who love you.

Be truthful to yourself and learn to accept and live with who you are. That's the biggest favor you can do for yourself.

[nklarke]

I don't know.

There are studies that say that you decide what you're and that you can change and other studies say that you were born like that and that's it, period.

You can try, nothing to lose.

[Katiya]

You can try but there's no guarantee

[Alex_3869]

I don't like when I see these kind of threads. This is one of those things that make up who you are, and you shouldn't change who you are to please other people. You were born to be who you are and forcing your self to try to change is not only going to make you miserable, it will do the same to others close to you. I will give you an example. I HATE cheese. But if you don't likethe cheese you won't be accepted into... idk... something. So I have to FORCE myself to eat the cheese and like it. Will that happen? NO. I won't start to like cheese. Stop trying to hide who you are.

[liam2013]

Some of my friends are a bit homophobic to me because I act gay a bit and my voice is a bit girly but they don't know I'm gay tho. I'm too scared for them to find out

[steellord321]

It's not true that "no harm in trying." That's just false hope BS. If you don't want to be rejected that's understandable. But think about this aside from that. You like guys, big deal! You must know at some level you're never gonna like girls in the same way. Just enjoy your gay feelings and you'll be a lot happier.

[McAK101]

There's no way that you can change it. That's not how it works. You're just going to have to embrace it.

[ksdnfkfr]

If your friends do not accept you for who you
are then they are not real friends. I am not
saying you should come out, but you should
also not have to be afraid of genuine friends
finding out. Or so I would hope.

[NeuroTiger]

"Where there is a will, there is a way" goes the saying.
It's very difficult to change your mindset so drastically.
Try to read stuffs about how to treat a girlfriend or a wife...maybe it could help you to find how beautiful being in a relationship with the opposite gender is.
The ultimate decision is basically yours.

[PinkFloyd]

You can't change it. That's just impossible. However, it is a small possibility that you aren't gay and it's just your hormones. My friend who is now 19 thought he was gay up until about half a year ago around the time he was going to turn 19.

My advice is to learn to accept yourself because it's totally fine to be different.

All the best,
-Rob

[deregisterme]

You are what you are. It's not that easy to change. However, there's nothing wrong with the way you are

[sqishy]

You can't change it. You need to find a way to accept and live with your sexuality. Sexualities can change with age, but not much and only really during puberty. Find a way to approach your sexuality positively. Be with your feelings, don't deny it.
Quoting from someone, worse than hiding it from others is hiding it from yourself.

It's hard, I know, but we are here to help you do it.

[JustinCB]

Unfortunately, (like everybody else has already said), there's no way to turn yourself straight. You were born that way, and the only thing you can do now is accept it. You'll find somebody. You just have to give it time.

I don't know how old you are, but another thing you could give a try is experimenting with a few girls. Just see where it goes, and how you react to it. Maybe it'll surprise you.

I've gone all my life thinking I'm bisexual, but I've just recently noticed that I'm more attracted to guys than I am to girls. So now that I'm in college, I plan to experiment later on down the road to figure myself out.

[Lovelife090994]

It's your life, you can be whatever you see fit. You are probably going to be lying to yourself but you can act straight if want but you may not like it.
Sexuality is not like cement, a person who thinks herself straight may fall in love with a girl, or a gay man may find the love of his life is a woman. Just worry less about your sexuality for now, just focus on life. No reason to worry.

[jcs5943]

I understand how you feel, you can try to change but all you will do is lose who you are, so don't try except who you and be the best person you can be

[teen.jpg]

You shouldn't want to change.

[From Chris]

Is there any way of turning straight I'm gay and I hate it every time I fancy a cute boy and also when I have feelings for a very cute boy Why can I turn straight I don't even have feeling for girls at all. How can I start liking girls

Hi Liam, as a fellow gay person, i just want you to know that trying to change who you are because you don't like it is not fair to yourself and won't work. You shouldn't have to hate being gay for any reason because it's simply you! :) People should accept you for who you are and their opinions shouldn't matter because in the end you are you and nothing is going to change that. I think you may want to turn straight for the convenience of it maybe? Maybe you are worried or ashamed about what people will think of you being gay and that you want to be the "Normal sexuality" instead. I understand! However you can't change who you are, and if you like guys, then you like them! You should be proud of it. :)

-From Chris

[liam2013]

Hi Liam, as a fellow gay person, i just want you to know that trying to change who you are because you don't like it is not fair to yourself and won't work. You shouldn't have to hate being gay for any reason because it's simply you! :) People should accept you for who you are and their opinions shouldn't matter because in the end you are you and nothing is going to change that. I think you may want to turn straight for the convenience of it maybe? Maybe you are worried or ashamed about what people will think of you being gay and that you want to be the "Normal sexuality" instead. I understand! However you can't change who you are, and if you like guys, then you like them! You should be proud of it. :)

-From Chris
Thanks Chris that's helped me a lot :)

[From Chris]

Thanks Chris that's helped me a lot :)

Glad to help! :yes: