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centropede
November 2nd, 2013, 05:55 PM
Im pretty sure im bi or its just puberty that makes me think so.

I am just wondering, i see gay/bi-boys 15 years old already lost virginity and stuff. How do they find another gay/bi boy? How do they know it? In my city or somewhere else i dont know any gay or bi boy.
How do you all find them? How do you know?

Elysium
November 2nd, 2013, 06:37 PM
The people you see talking about it online may very well be lying, firstly, and secondly, they represent a small minority. There's no way to hunt people out; it just happens by chance or by luck. Truth is, the majority is probably as confused as you are.

kylem1229
November 2nd, 2013, 07:35 PM
Agree with the above...its the internet. Dont believe ANYTHING said over the internet. They probably just have alot of Bi friends that go to their school or live in the area.

NikosamA98
November 2nd, 2013, 08:24 PM
I'm still virgin but I experimented with a boy who became a pseudo friend with benefits (because we didn't had sex like in the back...we just experimented) and I didn't look for him. Things just happened. I began to meet other people at school and I met him (he was in a grade below) and we started to talk. He asked for my sexuality and I answered"curious" (at that time I was on the VT forums without user so I started to use the word "curious" :B) and we went to the school bathroom to compare, one thing led to another and we started to experiment. Now that we broke up for 4th time (stop doing sexual stuff) I have no one to experiment with and my gaydar is not trustworthy so I really dont know how but its not that hard to,find other gay boys since I live in a huge city

Alex_3869
November 3rd, 2013, 11:18 AM
I think it just happens by luck or chance. like said above. If you live in a big city, it is easier, but if you are in a small town, it may be hard. And if you are not completely sure, it may not be the time to go out looking for someone to date

Living For Love
November 3rd, 2013, 12:07 PM
I also wonder the same. Things people say in the Internet might not be 100% true. Here in the city I live I only know one person who's openly gay, but I guess there might be a lot of people out there who would like to experiment but don't have the courage to ask. It's hard to actually find out other guys/girls as curious as we are, but first you need to have some friendships, start by there, meet new people, interact more, etc...

McAK101
November 3rd, 2013, 12:12 PM
As said above, it's a VERY strong possibility that they are lying, and if they aren't, then they represent a minority. It just happens by luck that you'll find someone at such a young age that is bi / gay. The majority is just as confused as you are.

deregisterme
November 3rd, 2013, 04:17 PM
You're still only 15. You have still got plenty of time to find yourself.