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Cece14
November 2nd, 2013, 11:45 AM
Okay, so Im a natural flirt and a bubbly person, but, when it comes to talking to a guy I actually like.... I get a straight face and talk mono tone and all, so...... How do I flirt while talking to the guy I like

Melodic
November 2nd, 2013, 04:22 PM
Just be you and let the conversation come naturally.

centropede
November 2nd, 2013, 05:46 PM
We are not monsters , dont be scared :'(

Fallen_Eagle
November 2nd, 2013, 06:26 PM
We are not monsters , dont be scared :'(

Says the guy who eats people that piss him off:eek:
I kid, I kid.
We can be very nervous and awkward too:whoops: Just try to chill for a bit OP, and Sunshine puts it, let the conversation flow. And that means you should try to make sure it keeps flowing too! I can't think of anything worse than an awkward silence when it comes to flirting with people:rolleyes:

Elysium
November 2nd, 2013, 06:33 PM
Try to forget you like him for the time being. Don't focus on forgetting either because that's not helping, either. Focus on other things. Remember (and freak out about it) later.

highschool
November 2nd, 2013, 10:52 PM
haha i'm just like you! i'm a natural flirt around almost everyone, but when I have a crush on someone I get super nervous. You just gotta forget that you like him and treat him like everyone else you talk to. I know it's easier said than done, but in time you'll get better(:

ashdyn
November 3rd, 2013, 01:50 AM
Sounds like it's just nerves...happens to everyone ESPECIALLY if you like em. What everyone else said. Just relax and let the real you out. You said you're naturally flirty and bubbly so I doubt it's hard to like you. Plus chances are since you're already out there and social he already knows who you are and knows how you act.

I had some trouble transitioning my outgoing personality from group settings to one on one like during dates cause I would get really nervous. But really...it's not a job interview. Be goofy. Laugh. Blush. Don't be afraid to do something potentially embarrassing. In the end that's one of those things that will stick as a memory in his mind. I can't tell you how many dates I've been on that I can't remember half the shit the girl says cause she's so worried about not accidentally doing something embarrassing. Maybe it's just me but the ones I always remember are the ones that stand out from the rest. So don't be nervous about being you :D

chezhans
November 6th, 2013, 11:47 PM
Okay, so Im a natural flirt and a bubbly person, but, when it comes to talking to a guy I actually like.... I get a straight face and talk mono tone and all, so...... How do I flirt while talking to the guy I like

I wonder if this will work out with a girl...Because I am actually EXACTLY like you but I haven't had a girlfriend...yet :)