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ILoveTheHungerGames
November 1st, 2013, 05:22 PM
Hey guys, I need some advice. I feel like my boyfriend is moving too fast. I feel like he's trying to pressure me into having sex, I know i'm nowhere near ready, and I don't know how to tell him that I want him to slow down. Can i have a little advice?

Miri
November 1st, 2013, 05:33 PM
If you don't feel comfortable, then definitely don't do it. If he isn't okay with that, that's just too bad for him. It's your body, and he can't force you to do something you don't want to do. If he really cares about you though, which he should if you two were to have sex, he'll understand why it's important to wait until you're ready.

ILoveTheHungerGames
November 1st, 2013, 06:57 PM
Ty miranda

highschool
November 1st, 2013, 10:12 PM
if he starts to get too intense during a make out session or something like that, just be like "hey, can we cool it down a bit, i'm not ready for that" and then he'll reply from there

WeAreOneRepublic
November 1st, 2013, 10:54 PM
Be straight out, tell him to slow down a bit, I had to get told that and I completely understand her.

Living For Love
November 2nd, 2013, 04:04 AM
You only need to tell him you're not ready, and he must understand that he can't force you do anything that you're not confortable with.

Cece14
November 2nd, 2013, 11:42 AM
Tell him to stop when he trys to make a move....

deregisterme
November 2nd, 2013, 02:51 PM
Rule number 1 if he wants to go all the way and you don't then don't. Him forcing that on you would be totally wrong. You should let him know how you feel. If he loves you enough, he will slow down

sqishy
November 3rd, 2013, 03:04 PM
Rule number 1 if he wants to go all the way and you don't then don't. Him forcing that on you would be totally wrong. You should let him know how you feel. If he loves you enough, he will slow down

If you can still get access to this, this is good advice.