Me & my Cousin story

[jacktvv]

Hello my name is jeff

[Lost in the Echo]

Even if what he is doing is intentional, it would be kind of messed up for you to engage in anything sexual with him. The age gap is pretty big. He's probably just going through a phase of curiosity. It will pass. But I recommend not doing anything sexual with him. You will regret it later in life.

[jacktvv]

Yeah, i dont really do anything to him, but yeah its really weird because once it was his birth-day so i gave him his gift bag. The he insisted me to go into his room to play video games or a movie. He hugged me and i hugged him back but i hear that he told me near my ear " uuhh, fuck me" but in a sexual way i was really shocked but did not reply.

[Lost in the Echo]

Yeah, i dont really do anything to him, but yeah its really weird because once it was his birth-day so i gave him his gift bag. The he insisted me to go into his room to play video games or a movie. He hugged me and i hugged him back but i hear that he told me near my ear " uuhh, fuck me" but in a sexual way i was really shocked but did not reply.

I'd suggest either ignoring him, or telling him to stop. But like I said, he's probably just going through a phase.

[jacktvv]

Yeah, i think i will just start to ignore him and i agree with you he is just probably going through that phase. :) i hope

[LunarScorpio]

What Bo has said is probably the best course of action.

Just ignore it, and it will hopefully pass

[pmpsj96]

Just ignore him but don't ingage!

[Stryker125]

I wouldn't ignore him completely, as that might hurt his feelings or he may take that the wrong way. Just talk to him and let him know that it's not a good idea for you to do that kind of stuff with him, and ask him to stop. There isn't really anything wrong with him having those urges or being curious and all worked up hormonally, but seeing as you're related and there's a bit of an age gap there should be boundaries.

[deregisterme]

Yeah, i think i will just start to ignore him and i agree with you he is just probably going through that phase. :) i hope

It does sound like a phase. If it continues, you may have to sit him down and have a chat with him. It's OK to be curious, but let him know if he's trying to take it too far.

[Berad]

No no no no.

Tell him to stop touching you, and don't continue any sort of sexual contact/talking, in any way or form. No exceptions.

[Michael_6]

No the age gap is way too big tell him to stop

[len.ang18]

I'm 17 and have a boy cousin who's 5 years younger then me (same as you). About 2 years ago we were sitting on the sofa and he was playing games on my laptop. At one point he reached over and touched my penis through my sweatpants. I shifted in my seat and he said he just wanted to feel. He's now 12 and and hasn't done done anything like it since. I think he just went through a phase as others suggested. He's probably curious about you since your older and bigger then him.

[McAK101]

Tell him that he needs to stop touching you and the sexual acts. As said above, it's a phase and it will pass.

[ksdnfkfr]

If he ever says something like that again
just say something like "ew gross".
And if he puts his hand on your crotch just say
"don't touch me there". And say it in a nice
casual way. Sometimes younger kids get randy
and they just need to be directed away from it.

[nklarke]

I agree with the last comments. You shouldn't ignore what he's doing.

You are the very older cousin so you've to take control of the situation, not him.
Sit down with him and talk about it. Tell him that if he has some feelings is ok, is normal at his age, and moreover if he's gay it isn't something wrong but you both are cousins so he would have to look for a guy of the same age.

Also, tell him that he's free to ask you any question he wants to ask that you want to be his cousin-friend , no more, no less.

[Living For Love]

My 12 year-old cousin also does that sometimes. He would just try to touch me and my brother "down there", it was really uncomfortable, but I haven't said anything to him yet. He's just going through a phase, and I love to see the way he's growing up so fast. I guess that, when he gets a bit older, he will definitely have his experiments, but not with me, hopefuly, that would be really awkard.

Try to ignore him some of his actions, but if you think he's going too far, and making you feel unconfortable, you should speak to him about it.

[Wyatt 13]

Stop that weird stuff, totally wrong dude He is 11.

[hockeyfan]

Even if what he is doing is intentional, it would be kind of messed up for you to engage in anything sexual with him. The age gap is pretty big. He's probably just going through a phase of curiosity. It will pass. But I recommend not doing anything sexual with him. You will regret it later in life.

I agree.... Large age difference

[AbyssalLight7]

The age gap is kinda big (It would be illegal where I live to go to far) and if he's family, you should probably stop him.

[Beltway]

I have a cousin like that he is 12. He humps me and does lots of weird things. One time i had a sleepover and he wanted to sleep with me so i let him. I sleep barefoot and i noticed he slowly took off his socks. He started rubbing his feet with mine. got a boner but didn't respond. Never said anything about it the next morning,and he didn't mention it either. I try to give him the cold shoulder and it works. He doesn't do weird things anymore. Just ignore him and he will eventually stop.

[Throwaway24]

Talk to him about it. Dont do anything u will regret but do talk to him about it

[denisss]

bad idea mate. just let it go

[Luke91]

He is just going through a phrase. He has discovered that rubbing his penis against something feels good. What young boy hasn't done the same thing? Don't make him feel bad about what he is doing. When he is trying to touch you, he is just exploring in his own way and he means no harm.

[Thomas01]

Yeah, it's probably a phase, don't do anything rash. But also make sure to tell him you can talk about things so that he doesn't feel you are ignoring him. Also make sure he knows not to try and attempt this with someone else. Like don't push him too far away that he starts trying to do something with another person

[cameraboy]

if it bother u ask him to stop or something. i understand but if u want to talk more about email me

[loki2000]

yeah..just tell him that you dont want him toutcing you like that but you still want to hang out with him..so he dont feel like you dont like him

[Pittsburgh]

I agree, I wouldnt let it go on any longer

[Cassius]

Has no one brought up the point that that would be incest?!?!?!?!?

[deltadart]

How does he accidentally touch your penis?

[Were]

my cousin used to do that to me but i just talked to him and told him it was bad and he stopped