Oral Sex

[Scotty]

I'm 15 and my girlfriend asked for oral sex whenever we were out last night. I told her I'd sleep on it and now I need to know.
Should I? Or should I not..?:confused:

[The Batman]

do it if your ready

[Maverick]

How long have you known her? Do you feel like you can trust her? Do you feel any doubt or uncertainty?

Its something you have to think about and if you aren't 100% confident going in its not going to work out the way you want it. If you don't feel comfortable with it then tell her you aren't ready to take it to this step yet.

[Gavin]

at 15 i don't think that you to are ready for sex imo,have you both talked about the consequences of what might happen if she gets pregnant.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Gavin, this is oral sex we're talking about, the chances of pregnancy are slim. She'd have to perform on him first, kiss him and transfer a small amount of semen to his mouth before he does the same for her. Small chance. (Although, Scotty, condoms and such are still a good idea, for preventing disease)

Scotty, I know my post is a little late and you may have already talked to your girlfriend by now, but bottom line: Close your eyes and imagine she's there asking you to do this with her. Does it make you nervous in a, "Wow I've never done this before I hope I don't screw up," way, or is it more of a, "Shit, I can't do this, what do I tell her, oh my god," kind of nervousness? If it's the latter, don't do it. If you have any doubts, or if you think this would complicate things (this is a big step, be sure you won't regret it), don't do it. You'll have plenty of time later in life to do these kinds of things, so unless you're absolutely 100% sure you want to do this now, don't. Your girlfriend will understand. After-all, she wouldn't want you to pressure her into things she doesn't want to do, either.

[ScotsGirl]

Scotty, I think that the fact that you have posted on here asking us if you should or shouldnt do it tells you that you probably arent ready.
Or at least, there are some things you need to think about before you do go ahead.

First times are things that you remember for a long time, whether you want to or not. Its nice when theyre good memories. :)

xxx

[byee]

Gavin, this is oral sex we're talking about, the chances of pregnancy are slim. She'd have to perform on him first, kiss him and transfer a small amount of semen to his mouth before he does the same for her. Small chance. (Although, Scotty, condoms and such are still a good idea, for preventing disease)


Scotty, I know my post is a little late and you may have already talked to your girlfriend by now, but bottom line: Close your eyes and imagine she's there asking you to do this with her. Does it make you nervous in a, "Wow I've never done this before I hope I don't screw up," way, or is it more of a, "Shit, I can't do this, what do I tell her, oh my god," kind of nervousness? If it's the latter, don't do it. If you have any doubts, or if you think this would complicate things (this is a big step, be sure you won't regret it), don't do it. You'll have plenty of time later in life to do these kinds of things, so unless you're absolutely 100% sure you want to do this now, don't. Your girlfriend will understand. After-all, she wouldn't want you to pressure her into things she doesn't want to do, either.

Scotty, I think that the fact that you have posted on here asking us if you should or shouldnt do it tells you that you probably arent ready.
Or at least, there are some things you need to think about before you do go ahead.

First times are things that you remember for a long time, whether you want to or not. Its nice when theyre good memories. :)

xxx
First, you can NOT get pregnant from oral sex, including transferring semen in your mouth.

With regard to the second part, I agree with Scottygirl. For the most part, anytime you need to come online to ask a bunch of complete strangers if you should do ANYTHING, especially something as intimate as oral sex, the chances are you already know the answer. You're uncomfortable with it, and you're looking for some validation/support for that. Would you come on to ask if you should cash that check from The Irish Sweepstakes for 5 million of your local currency? Of course not!

It's OK to say no, even with something we think we're supposed to always want and be ready for. As you're experiencing, it doesn't really work that way, it's not like Hollywood. Listen to yourself, doing something like this that you are not completely ready for can be really unpleasant. You'll have other opportunities!

[Whisper]

I'm 15 and my girlfriend asked for oral sex whenever we were out last night. I told her I'd sleep on it and now I need to know.
Should I? Or should I not..?:confused:

Your hesitant enough to sleep on it and come to us
which means your not ready
theres NOTHING wrong with that

Based off this post
I'd say no

[sabin22]

First, you can NOT get pregnant from oral sex, including transferring semen in your mouth.

With regard to the second part, I agree with Scottygirl. For the most part, anytime you need to come online to ask a bunch of complete strangers if you should do ANYTHING, especially something as intimate as oral sex, the chances are you already know the answer. You're uncomfortable with it, and you're looking for some validation/support for that. Would you come on to ask if you should cask that check from The Irish Sweepstakes for 5 million of your local currency? Of course not!

It's OK to say no, even with something we think we're supposed to always want and be ready for. As you're experiencing, it doesn't really work that way, it's not like Hollywood. Listen to yourself, doing something like this that you are not completely ready for can be really unpleasant. You'll have other opportunities!

wow he knows his stuff, but scotty its all up 2 u

[Mannequin]

1. your a devout christian
2. your a gay.

lol, but reallyyyy duh.

[SunsetBeach]

How long have you known her? Do you feel like you can trust her? Do you feel any doubt or uncertainty?

Its something you have to think about and if you aren't 100% confident going in its not going to work out the way you want it. If you don't feel comfortable with it then tell her you aren't ready to take it to this step yet.
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