annoying friend

[Miserabilia]

OKay so I have a crush on this girl and I think she might like me back, but she always has this friend girl who keeps teasin me/her that we should get married etc, asking me If I love her (but in an annoying way you know lol),

but I can't tell her to stop, unless I tell my crush I like her or not in that way, which would be awkward and very.. un-romantic.

[Derryck]

Why can't you tell her to stop?

[Living For Love]

She might think her friendship with the girl you like might get affected if you two start dating and having a relationship, and that's understandable. Ask you crush discreetly if the other girl has anything against you. You need to make sure you keep contact with both of them so that the other girl won't start thinking she is getting dumped by her friend or something.

[Miserabilia]

Why can't you tell her to stop?

I know her type, she's not mean or anything but if I tell her to stop I'll have to tell if I like my crush or not and I want to tell, but that just doesn't seem like the right way to tell

[Derryck]

I know her type, she's not mean or anything but if I tell her to stop I'll have to tell if I like my crush or not and I want to tell, but that just doesn't seem like the right way to tell

You think your crush will defend her?

[Miserabilia]

You think your crush will defend her?

no not really, but it's like this:

annoying friend keeps saying I like my crush (ofcourse I do like her) but my crush doesn't know that, so I can't deny it,
so when I try to stop her it's a little suspicious, and she will be more convinced I like my crush (and ofcourse I do) but I just wish the friend never interfered you know?

[Derryck]

no not really, but it's like this:

annoying friend keeps saying I like my crush (ofcourse I do like her) but my crush doesn't know that, so I can't deny it,
so when I try to stop her it's a little suspicious, and she will be more convinced I like my crush (and ofcourse I do) but I just wish the friend never interfered you know?

Have you tried talking to your crush about it?

[Miserabilia]

Have you tried talking to your crush about it?

yeah just kind of jokingly

[Derryck]

yeah just kind of jokingly

If it's bothering you that much, be more serious.

[Joey.]

If you have feelings for her,
let her know, it's better than being teased about
it every waking moment.
If you don't want to go that route,
then just let the friend know that
it isn't cool, and your getting aggravated about it..
You don't have to tell the friend anything.
it's your business not hers.

Goodluck :)

[Cece14]

Tell her!!

[ksdnfkfr]

You need to take having a crush a step further.
Perhaps that is what the friend is trying to get you to do.

[Melodic]

I will be optimistic with this and maybe the girl likes you, which is why the friend is teasing her. My friends used to do the same thing to me when I liked someone. Sadly, I hang out with all guys so there was pretty good percent chance they were also friends with the guy.

[Miserabilia]

I will be optimistic with this and maybe the girl likes you, which is why the friend is teasing her. My friends used to do the same thing to me when I liked someone. Sadly, I hang out with all guys so there was pretty good percent chance they were also friends with the guy.

huh I hadn't looked at it that way. interesting :yeah:

[luq_]

I'd say the crush that I'm in love with her(preferrably while we're alone).
If it goes well, and she likes you too, tell the annoying girl, "YEAH. You jealous? And who says we will get married? What are you, 10? You gotta be really lonely..." But, I'm the type of guy who will be really nice to you if you're nice to him, but if you hurt him, he WILL hurt you more.
If the girl you got a crush on says no, then just tell the annoying one "Yeah, I love her. But she doesn't like me back. So no, we aren't gonna get married." And walk away, put your head down and disregard whatever else she says.

I suppose there is some better solution, but again, I'm kinda vegneful...

EDIT: you could have a serious conversation with that annoying girl. Explain her what's going on. Ask her to stop it, and use my original answer if it doesn't work. Eventually, if she likes you and wants to be your friend, she will apologize.