His ex girlfriend threatened to kill me, should I leave?

[angelofmines]

I been living and dating this guy for a year now. I been dealing with his ex drama our whole relationship. He refuse to stop it. They argue everyday. She threatened to kill me and she already drive by the house looking for me. One of the times she called I said " ima shoot your house up", then I started laughing and said I'm just playing. the way she text make it seem like they have unfinished business between them. Today she came over and tried to stab me and once again he protected her. I didn't know she heard me over the phone. I also said I was gonna hit her when I seen her. It seems as though I'm a problem here because it seems as though I came in on an ongoing situation. He told me she was just a f*ck to him. He said he been trying to get rid of her for 4 years now. he refuse to change his number and he unblocked her number even though they still communicated. He noticed a change in her because she is so angry and become violent. so he said he thinking about going back to work on things because he missed her and the chapter wasn't closed. Should I stay or leave?

[conniption]

I think you should leave as soon as possible. It's obvious he's not done with her and he's stringing you along. You're potentially putting yourself in danger for this guy who is defending the girl that threatened to hurt you. He's not ready to move on and neither is she.

[Joey.]

By the way it sounds,
he still has feelings for him
(Lord be with him, she sounds crazy)
And if he's protecting her, and not you..
what does that tell you?
He's refusing to let it go so it's obvious he's not over her.
Maybe he is using you just to make her angry.

Your best bet is to leave sooner than later
before things get to out of hand. (or more than it already has)
Your not only putting yourself in physical danger,
but emotional too.

Goodluck and stay safe! :)

[Derryck]

I been living and dating this guy for a year now. I been dealing with his ex drama our whole relationship. He refuse to stop it. They argue everyday. She threatened to kill me and she already drive by the house looking for me. One of the times she called I said " ima shoot your house up", then I started laughing and said I'm just playing. the way she text make it seem like they have unfinished business between them. Today she came over and tried to stab me and once again he protected her. I didn't know she heard me over the phone. I also said I was gonna hit her when I seen her. It seems as though I'm a problem here because it seems as though I came in on an ongoing situation. He told me she was just a f*ck to him. He said he been trying to get rid of her for 4 years now. he refuse to change his number and he unblocked her number even though they still communicated. He noticed a change in her because she is so angry and become violent. so he said he thinking about going back to work on things because he missed her and the chapter wasn't closed. Should I stay or leave?

No words can describe how bad I feel for you right now. I would be crying if my house wasn't full of people :cry:. If you ever want to talk about this do not hesitate to vm me.

[kylem1229]

Definitley leave...otherwise it just makes tensions tighten, and get more physical threats involved.

[Cece14]

leave

[highschool]

Leave now while you still can

[Apophis]

You say she's threatened to kill you and shoot your house up! You should phone the cops on her, I'm not trying to be mean but that's death threats and death threats aren't right! you need to let the cops know so they can look into the matter and hopefully get her the help she needs!

But sadly I think you should leave for now, let him follow you! if he truly loves you and does care about you, he'll come and find you and his ex will be gone if the police do get her the help she needs. I understand it's a tough time for her but she needs to accept the fact that you two are dating but in my opinion it's not worth risking your life over a guy.. But as I said call the police and let them know about her!

Hope my advice helps

[Stronk Serb]

Lol, call the cops on her, and talk with your boyfriend about ending everything with her. I can't believe he is still on her side.

[Cygnus]

Call the cops on her, do not hesitate, and if she touches you, you damage her, cause that is personal defense.

[Paige Elizabeth]

I wouldn't leave. I'm going to assume you're at least 18 because you said you two live together? She's obviously immature. Tell the police immediately. Even if she's not serious, be on the safe side. She may be in serious need of help and no one knows it.

[conniption]

I wouldn't leave. I'm going to assume you're at least 18 because you said you two live together? She's obviously immature. Tell the police immediately. Even if she's not serious, be on the safe side. She may be in serious need of help and no one knows it.

Why should she stay?

She's in a potentially dangerous situation and her boyfriend is defending the person that's threatening her. I'd say her boyfriend needs help too.

[Shannon.]

Leave him. If he's taking his girlfriend's side in this, it's obvious he's still not over her. So, you're basically putting yourself in a dangerous situation for nothing.

[McAK101]

Yes, leave now. You do not want this to escalate any further.

[Abyssal Echo]

If I was you I'd leave.