Nees some help getting out of the blues....

[FroMan641]

So, ugh, over the summer I had this "girlfriend"... Well she never wanted to be in a relation ship. She said it wasn't me it was just how she is. We made out a lot we (according to her) "acted" like we were together which basicly was a punch in the stomache. So I expected to be happy with someone when I turned out to be a little secret. Well that's how I feel about it. It was hard to do stuff around our friends. But anyway I could get over that yeah, but what really gets me down is now she is officially dating one of my good friends. Everything I wanted and she said she wasn't looking for she has with him. Even worse all of my friends talk about it now, the never knew what happen between me and her. But even worse my ex and her new bf are on the swim team with me. Sorta in a way BC of me. Neither of them would have joined if it weren't for me. I just feel like crap now. She was the first and only I've been remotely close to having a relation ship. So I just have a very low self of steam right now I feel like that weird kid everyone likes but won't ever like like any advice to get me out of this slum? Thanks if you read this I apreaciate it.

[Derryck]

I would ask them if they could please stop talking about it because you obviously still like her and that it's making you upset. If they're true friends, they would respect that. Good luck.

[FroMan641]

Thanks for the help I'll let them know next timebit comes up

[Living For Love]

She moved on with her life, and you should do the same. Don't let it upset you, she doesn't seem a very good person to me, letting you down and then dating one of your friends. Try to forget her and move on.

[NeuroTiger]

Be strong and move on...it's the barriers life has put. So jump them!
It was certainly not nice for her to do that but she has made a decision. Make yours.

[Cece14]

I would just move on

[Joey.]

So sorry this has happen to you!
It sucks to think about thinking the girl you was
going to get in a relationship shoots you down,
but.. Think of it this way..
Maybe it wasn't ment to be?
Maybe this is actually something you lucked out on.
It may not seem that way right now since
your down in the dumps.. But you will find another girl
you will fall head over heels over, happens all the time..
just try to stay positive (as hard as it may be)
You may just find someone who is 1000x better than she is
and your gonna be happy she didn't go out with you..

Keep your chin up, and stay positive! :)
Goodluck..

[highschool]

i know this won't help that much, but some smart person once said, " The only way your feelings can be hurt, is if you allow them to"

[Apophis]

Hmm by the sounds of this it sounds like she was just using you to get to the other guy she's with now. I'd just talk to them and let them know how you feel, tell them it's making you feel depressed and that you wish they wouldn't talk about themselves in front of you. But in my opinion I'd say go out and meet some new girls, just become friends with them. You'll be able to get your mind off her! Just don't lead the girls on though but try to go out and meet some new girls and become friends with them! Just see how things go with them and you might find the right girl for you! The more you just sit and wait for this girl to come back the more your just gonna get depressed, you don't want to wait forever for a girl who clearly just wasn't the type for you.