Truth or dare

[Sammie69Cox]

So awhile back I was playing truth or dare with some friends and a cousin and I got dared to give him a hand job which I did and didn't really have a problem with, but what should I do if next time I get dared to do more? I also have a bf and have been thinking about telling him what I did, but I'm scared he will leave me.

[emilysut]

I love playing truth or dare, naughty dares turn me on. But only do what you are comfortable with. If you're not comfortable, dont do it.

[Sammie69Cox]

I love playing truth or dare, naughty dares turn me on. But only do what you are comfortable with. If you're not comfortable, dont do it.

Well that's just the thing I'm not sure if I do or not I mean... ever since then I have been wondering what if and yeah I have only ever gave a guy a hand job

[Taryn98]

if you have a boyfriend you shouldn't be doing anything with anyone else

secondly you shouldn't be doing anything with someone you are directly related to, it's both illegal and morally objectionable

[Amber Bi]

I love playing truth or dare, naughty dares turn me on. But only do what you are comfortable with. If you're not comfortable, dont do it.

I totally agree...naughty dares turn me on like crazy

[Katiya]

With your cousin is kinda weird tbh. And I wouldn't do anything with anyone else if you have bf. That's just kinda wrong, both parts. Srry

[Sammie69Cox]

if you have a boyfriend you shouldn't be doing anything with anyone else

secondly you shouldn't be doing anything with someone you are directly related to, it's both illegal and morally objectionable

I know because I should treat him better hes been good to me....

I can see where you are coming from I guess though everyone has different morals

With your cousin is kinda weird tbh. And I wouldn't do anything with anyone else if you have bf. That's just kinda wrong, both parts. Srry

Seems basically everyone feels like that maybe I should....

I totally agree...naughty dares turn me on like crazy

Exactly at least I'm not the only one to admit it I mean I'm really innocent I have only gave a guy a hand job aka my cousin well I have done stuff with girls but that is a different story just naughty dares just seem to set me off


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[Mob Boss]

I have a checklist:
1) Not play sexualized Truth or Dare. How old are you? I stopped playing that when I was 8, and it was innocent things.
2) Not give your cousin a hand job. Actually, just don't touch your cousin in general. Incest isn't just immoral, but the US has enforced laws against incest, consensual or not. Not only is it nearly universally taboo, but engaging in sexual relations with a close relative that could lead to pregnancy often results in undesirable recessive genes becoming expressed and genetic defects and disease are more readily perpetuated. Your child would look like a mutant.
3) I'm not sure if your boyfriend will leave you for cheating or for cheating with your cousin. It's gonna be a tough decision for him.

Honest, if this happened (which I'm starting to think not), think before you do things. Boyfriend or not, dared or not, touching your cousin inappropriately is just wrong. Plain and simple. Don't ask what to do "next time", you should have learned from this time.

[Sandra Main]

Not a good thing to do whenn you have a bf.
If you really care for him you would stop.
That to me sounds like cheating on him.

[emily-candace]

I have never done that and would NEVER do it with my cousin. If your cousin ask you to have sex with him then would you? I find that totally wrong.

[ninja789]

dont do it if its with your cousin

[Sammie69Cox]

I have never done that and would NEVER do it with my cousin. If your cousin ask you to have sex with him then would you? I find that totally wrong.

Of course not I'm still a virgin and plan on staying one for along time

[JessDaly]

No problem with truth or dare, but not with your cousins or any family member.

[emily-candace]

Good for you Sammy. Now I think you have a good head on your shoulders.

[veryawkward]

do things that are comfortable with you and what you think will not harm anybody.

[Zsofia]

I agree if it's a game, and everyone knows it's a game than enjoy it and have fun. If you feel guilty, you stepped over the barrier. Should not do that.

Also, it's important to talk with your bf how he thinks about this kind of stuff. I mean if you give a hand job to an other guy (no matter if it's your cousin) it can be handled as cheating. Not because of the act, but because it's a secret etc. You should know him more, talk with him, ask his ideas about the freedom of fun and sexuality.

[Alexx99]

I had a similar experience at a new years party last year. I was dared to get naked and give a guy a bj. I did it and even though it was a big turn on I definitely regretted it since the guy was someone I barely knew from school.

You should only do what you're comfortable with and if you have a boyfriend probably not do it at all.

[anyone50]

if you have a boyfriend you shouldn't be doing anything with anyone else

secondly you shouldn't be doing anything with someone you are directly related to, it's both illegal and morally objectionable

I agree especially with the part about having a bf unless he there with you and is ok with everything that's going on. I suspect he wouldn't approve of your actions so my advice is not to get involved playing truth or dare again

[enriqueroxx]

You should be careful while playing truth or dare as things generally get out of hand.....and having sexual relationships with family members is not only weird, but is also a criminal offence in most countries....

[jessicaann]

Truth or dare is best I think when its all girls. Just seems less chance of getting out of control and having regrets later. Can be a good way to see if there is sexual interest in s girl-girl friendship without too much pressure . Skip your cousin

[lilmisslucylee]

I love Truth or Dare, huge turn on for me. ;)

[Shailene]

Sounds like a bad idea, especially when you have a bf and the guy was your cousin

[hoboliz]

At the very least, you have to establish boundaries with your boyfriend. What is and isn't OK. And apparently with your cousin. I dunno.
And don't feel guilty. If it's something you genuinely feel bad about, don't do it again. If you're just worried what other people will say, remember that it isn't their business anyway.

[Swimmie]

A little weird... I would make sure it never happens again... Just think about your bf...

[NotShortButFunsized]

your boyfriend should obviously be your first priority with this stuff, its cheating even if its just a game.
IF he was actively involved and part of the game, thats a different thing.
but since he wasnt there and doesnt know about it, if he found out he has pretty good reason not to trust you to stay faithful in other situations either

either way, you shouldnt do anything that could lead to pregnancy with your cousin at all, especially when you have a boyfriend

[CheekyLinda]

You should avoid doing things like that if you're already in a steady relationship, even if the idea sounds hot. Unless you have special relationship terms with your steady partner

[hoboliz]

Unless you have special relationship terms with your steady partner

I'm glad someone finally acknowledged that this is possible! :wub:

[everlong]

You should never have to go out of your comfort zone like that.

[CutieHoney]

I love to play that too^^
Even if I had a BF I would not mind since it's just a game.
As long as I don't have to have actual sex with someone I'm fine with it^^
Even though I don't mind having sex in front of others, I prefer having it with someone I want to have sex with - not because someone tells me to ö.ö

[San1998]

The girls are right with just do wich you are comftable with. With the part of your cousin I disagree. I have a thing running with my cousin and where I live it is not illegal at all. It is just illegal with parent, grandparents or siblings. I love to play truth or dare and I would do nearly everthing but not everything even if I am in a realationship.

[laurakoller0815]

the game is cool as long as the limits are clear. cheating on bf/gf isnt cool

[Croconaw]

I love the game

[Cece14]

I wouldnt do it with a bf, whats a hand job?

[mDavis97]

To me, during truth or dare, all outside bf's are out of the question. I'd do a lot that i normally wouldn't. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with though.

[Emmaxxoo]

Dont do anymore its wrong on all levels!