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Gabriellah
October 30th, 2013, 09:22 AM
Hai again. Sorry for the new post but Im feeling really blue. So if you check it out my other threads, theyre about prom and how i was gna ask this girl out. Well, i only had the balls because she stopped liking this other guy. So now, she talked to me about it and said she hoped the guy she "stopped" liking would ask her to prom.

I feel discouraged now. I feel like even if i make all this effort when i ask, whats the point? Its not like she wants my company to prom or anything. Ugh. I just wanna give up asking her. Whats the use?

Living For Love
October 30th, 2013, 10:10 AM
But you know that he will mever ask her to the prom, right? So why don't you go ahead and take your chances? She either likes that guy a lot or she's a bit stubborn, but nothings stops you from still asking her.

kylem1229
October 30th, 2013, 04:24 PM
So you already asked her and she said that the person she stopped dating, is the one that would ask her? I know you really dont want to do this, but try and comfort her. Maybe talk to the guy she stopped liking, and tell him that she wants to go to prom with him. I know you want the chance, but to strengthen your friendship with her, that would be the good thing to do.

Or if you dont want to go the nice way, you can always say that he doesnt like you (which might be a lie) and ask if she wants to go with you.,

Joey.
October 31st, 2013, 03:59 PM
I get what your saying,
you don't wanna be the second choice..
But, who knows, maybe she is talking about you?
Maybe bring up to her and say,
"Well I have no one to go with,
i'm thinking of not going..."
Maybe instead, she will say
"Well how about me and you go?"
It's always worth trying,

I hope everything works out for you,
Best of luck :)

Cece14
October 31st, 2013, 04:02 PM
I agree with Joey

ksdnfkfr
November 2nd, 2013, 06:47 AM
She hasn't quite gotten over this guy.
But that doesn't mean you can't win her over.
Look at it as a challenge you want to succeed at.