Too soon?

[MysticalBurrito]

My boyfriend and I have almost been dating for a year is it too soon to tell him that I love him? A month or so ago I gave him a note that said that, but he said that it could mean my feelings weren't as strong as I thought they were. The problem is that I'm extremely shy and he is the opposite. I really do feel like I do care that much about him... o.o Are there any cute ways I could tell him in person?

[tundravortex]

well in my experience doing cute moves are the worst thing to do but when your ready just say you love him dont have to be right now but just do it when your ready

[Mob Boss]

A year doesn't seem too soon if you feel these feelings are genuine. I think you'll just come to the realization that you really desire to tell your partner how intensely you feel for him or her. I don't think there is a specific time, rather you'll just know. The note idea was cute, in my opinion. :p I think how you say it is really important. If you're taking him on a date to tell him, build up tension with an "I have something to tell you" sort of curiosity amplifier. It seems he wants you to take a direct approach to say it. Express your feelings genuinely. I realize you said you are shy, but I think this is the time to be courageous and explain your feelings. He didn't seem repelled by you saying it in a letter, so I honestly don't see a reason to be fearful of rejection or anything. I don't know, take him somewhere special (where you first met, somewhere really beautiful and memorable, or even a common place you two just really enjoy). I think a park bench surrounded be fall trees or something would be really cute, in my opinion. Anyway, good luck.

[Joey.]

A year doesn't seem like your rushing it,
People say it earlier than that!
If your feelings a sincere and if you think he feels the same
I don't think there is any harm..

Write him a love note leave it somewhere where he will find it
maybe ask him how he feels about you,
and where your relationship is going..
make sure you guys are both ready to move to that level.

[LouBerry]

There is no too soon, or too late. It's when it feels right to you. If you aren't comfortably with saying it, then don't. If you are, it'll come naturally.

[Shannon.]

You can't really say things like that after a set period of time. Don't focus on how much time you've spent together, that doesn't matter. Focus on your feelings - if you actually do love him, say it. If you don't, then don't, no one's pressuring you into doing anything you'd regret later on.

[highschool]

it's not too soon if you're ready. If you feel like you really do love him, then tell him. Chances are he problems loves you too( especially after a year of dating)

[MysticalBurrito]

He is one that speaks his mind and would have told me by now if he loves me. Sometimes I get those moments where I get this overwhelming desire to hug him and say it, but I wimp out. Even he notices that I'm thinking about something hardcore. :kitty: My problem may be that I want him happy and fear rejection so much. Time to grow some balls and tell him soon. thanks guys

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Timing is based on how YOU and HIM feel towards each other. And also, saying it in whatever way doesn't change its meaning so just say it however you feel comfortable doing so.

[Theekshana]

i guess you should say it if you feel like it.

[Melodic]

Say it if you feel like you love him. If you don't, then don't say it.