Question

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

Ok, a little back story, I met a boy in my class back in sophomore year (I'm a senior now) and he was a freshman. He was the first and only boy that I thought was cute... Some of his actions toward me made me think he was either gay or bi. We were best friends up until this year, he hasn't said anything to me or me to him. I've come to realize that I really like him and this is were my question comes in...

I can't get myself to talk to him, for some reason I don't think he's gay or bi anymore. I asked my friend and she thinks his bi... Should I tell him my feelings toward him or do you think she should tell him my feelings toward him?

Before anyone asks abou age I'll just gve it, I'm 18 and he's 16

[Living For Love]

If you don't feel comfortable, and would think it would afect your friendship, tell your girl friends to tell him your feelings towards him, maybe that's the best thing to do.

[Joey.]

I wouldn't have her go up to him
and tell him about your feelings,
but maybe have her ask him if he is bi (not that he would confess to it)
or maybe you even ask him.

Does he know you are bi/gay?
If so then maybe talk to him about this guy you like (Him)
and describe him instead.

Goodluck! :)

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

No he doesn't know, only a 3 people know that I'm bi and that I like him... The problem about that Joey is that I haven been able to talk to him since the start if schoolgir some reason, it's like I'm too nervous to say anything... The only reason I'm thinking I having her tell him is because he sees him every day in class an she talks to him and can pick up on things as se figured out I liked the kid before I even told her

[ULeon]

well first try to talk to him as just friends. then if you see that things are still go-ing how you think. Don't have other people tell him about your feelings. they can maybe ask what they think of you but they shouldn't talk about your feelings. you should. This happend to me with a girl not to long ago. i learned that its better to talk the person you like face to face, because like this you can read their body language.