Family talks bad about you behind your back?

[Katiya]

I was just curious how many other people have heard their parents talking bad about them behind your back?

It happens to me all the time, I come home but I get to the door and I hear "She's an unempethitic bitch! I don't know why u won't let me throw her on the street. She's just a whiner and a bitcher. Worthless child." And Ihear my parents going back and forth about how uuseless I am and in a fucking failure that's good for nothing ext... Ext... " and I also hear them talk about my choice to see a counselor "We can't let her see a counselor, she's bitch on us and well go to jail. We have to stop that bitch from going. I don't care what it takes, she'llbitch us out behind our backs"

I over heard it all and iI came in and said "so I guess those things you say to me aren't just BCyyour angry. You really do believe that about me" Of course my dad started another fight and punishes me for eavesdropping even tho I can't help that I have ears and happens to walk in on it in and they don't see me standing there.

My dad calls me worthless and unempithetic bitch several times a day but I never knew he really thought that about me. He screamed me into a corner tonight BC when I was in Emergency ICU with a brain injury and broken bones after a car accident I "admited that I didn't think about my parents at all and I'm a selfish cunt" which I did admit it because I was unconscious, I couldn't think about them, I was seriously hurt, I know my mom and dad are alive and I know I'm in ICU A&E, my first thought when I woke up was of course where the hell am I and why can't I see anything am I blind for life?

But no I'm awful for thinking of myself when I was on my deathbed. What the hell?


Does anyone else have this problem? PS I hope this is the right forum.

[Amazerful]

Yeah, I've heard my parents talk behind my back that they think everything I say is a lie and that should drop me off at the mental hospital because I'm "emotionally unstable" the only reason they keep me around is for bragging rights because of my accomplishments with school and robotics

[conniption]

My parents adore me, so I've never had this problem.

[Jay_Swagg_LOL]

My family refuses to accept me as a human being and sometimes overrates me because I make all As. So whenever I do something even a little wrong I get yelled at and beat on...but whenever life gets me down 'I just think to myself that God gave me this life for a reason and someone has to live, I might as well.

[CharlieHorse]

I bet my family talks behind my back about me all the time. They think they know me and what to do with me, but they are oh so wrong.

[Hollywood]

Not my mother, but I know the rest of my family talks shit about me on a regular basis. My aunt somehow found out I was an atheist and spewed shit to everyone about it. My family is the kind who will talk shit about you behind your back but never say it to your face.

[Alex_3869]

My extended family is very gossipy. Especially when I don't do something that their republican asses approve of. When I defend myself from my father for example. When I talk back to him because he verbally abused me in front of my grandmother and aunts and uncles. My grandma is pretty big gossip alone. However, I know they all love me, they just do not completely respect me the way I would like to be respected in the family... But I guess that is the way it is in a conservative family.

[Katiya]

My parents adore me, so I've never had this problem.

Wow! That's great! I wish mine did for me! Your really lucky!

[ksdnfkfr]

I have heard my parents talking about
me, but has been in a more clinical type
of way about my neurological problems.
But my cousin says that the extended
family says bad/ignorant/stupid stuff about me.

[HUSTLEMAN]

Holy Gods, that's horrible, I really hope you find a way to solve it. Anyway, my family all like to talk about my flaws and constantly joke about them.

[sqishy]

I was just curious how many other people have heard their parents talking bad about them behind your back?

It happens to me all the time, I come home but I get to the door and I hear "She's an unempethitic bitch! I don't know why u won't let me throw her on the street. She's just a whiner and a bitcher. Worthless child." And Ihear my parents going back and forth about how uuseless I am and in a fucking failure that's good for nothing ext... Ext... " and I also hear them talk about my choice to see a counselor "We can't let her see a counselor, she's bitch on us and well go to jail. We have to stop that bitch from going. I don't care what it takes, she'llbitch us out behind our backs"

I over heard it all and iI came in and said "so I guess those things you say to me aren't just BCyyour angry. You really do believe that about me" Of course my dad started another fight and punishes me for eavesdropping even tho I can't help that I have ears and happens to walk in on it in and they don't see me standing there.

My dad calls me worthless and unempithetic bitch several times a day but I never knew he really thought that about me. He screamed me into a corner tonight BC when I was in Emergency ICU with a brain injury and broken bones after a car accident I "admited that I didn't think about my parents at all and I'm a selfish cunt" which I did admit it because I was unconscious, I couldn't think about them, I was seriously hurt, I know my mom and dad are alive and I know I'm in ICU A&E, my first thought when I woke up was of course where the hell am I and why can't I see anything am I blind for life?

But no I'm awful for thinking of myself when I was on my deathbed. What the hell?


Does anyone else have this problem? PS I hope this is the right forum.

My dad has uncommonly talked about me not doing something that I was told to do (me having a justified reason to not have that thing done yet) when I was overhearing him.
Talk to you family about this. Be assertive and say that if they are to say something about you, you have the right to hear it.

[Katiya]

My dad has uncommonly talked about me not doing something that I was told to do (me having a justified reason to not have that thing done yet) when I was overhearing him.
Talk to you family about this. Be assertive and say that if they are to say something about you, you have the right to hear it.

I did and it just started a fight. I guess I don't really care what they say. I just wonder if this happens to others.

[skittles_was_here]

almost every day...

[Stronk Serb]

If they do, that shows their cowardice to not tell it to my face.

[Melodic]

My parents is no problem for me. My side family is a different story.

[Mynick]

Pretty much every week. Sometimes even to the face lol

[Tarannosaurus]

Yup I've heard my parents talking about me and they've bitched about me to my friend's parents in front of my friend (who were luckily all on my side). Yeah whenever I've confronted them I got given out to and told to mind my own business/ that they only told the truth.

[Desuetude]

Yeah, since my parents are divorced the only thing they communicate about is my sister and I. When they don't want us to know what they're saying they speak in Punjabi because they're fucktards but I've seem texts about me that are pretty shit. When I was younger my mum used to talk worse about me but now it's more my dad because I 'get in his way'.

[Mob Boss]

Yeaaaaaaaaaaaah. Back when my family wasn't textbook dysfunctional and my parents were still together, I'd overhear them talking about me. My mom is extremely, extremely judgemental. She used to be a stage mom to me from the time I was 8 till I was 17. For softball, I'd have practices, lessons, conditioning constantly. I played travel, school and fall ball. I had various pitching coaches and 3 team coaches. It's not directly related, but I think the way she taught me to be is a factor in my eating problems. She'd tell me she hated me because she liked my hair or body or anything she could "compliment" me on, which was actually tearing me down. My parents have said things about me being anti-social, my mom's said she couldn't stand being around that bitch (i.e. Me) on multiple occasions. My dad has said nasty things too, especially about my eating. But, I dunno... I still love them regardless.

[Danny Phantom]

My mother thinks I'm disrespectful sometimes, but she always tells me this to my face. My stepdad talks bad about me to everyone, calling me a problem, a faggot, a bitch, a lot of things. We have the worst relationship ever.

[Loner_97]

I also hear my parents do that. I mean things like she doesn't have the capacity. She is ruining everything etc etc.
and you know what? they will continue this. All you can do is ignore and prove them wrong. You know? be strong. don't give in. Show them that you are way above small bickering and talking behind back and one fine day they will admit they were wrong.

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

I've got a great relationship with my parents, so I'm pretty sure they've never talked about me like that behind my back.

[DumpOnTrump]

Mine do too. They say "he just bitches and bitches when he has a problem". When I asked them why they were doing it, they claimed that they weren't. They need to stop lying.

[Atlantis]

Mine do too. They say "he just bitches and bitches when he has a problem". When I asked them why they were doing it, they claimed that they weren't. They need to stop lying.


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