My parents are not helping me with the girls I like, they make it worse.

[clueless_one]

My parents don't seem to help me with the girls I like. They say things like if they don't say hi they don't like you, when they just talk and don't say hi. Or if they look at me both from a distance and fairly close, it doesn't mean anything. Or if the girl I like looks at me from a distance talks to her friends who then look at me, then talk to the girl I like and start laughing/giggling with a few staring/looking at me when giggling. Or when the friends of the girl I like look/stare at me. They don't know that the girls now are different than before. They are just pushing me away from doing anything about getting a girlfriend.

Please help... :(

[PinkFloyd]

Dude, be your own person. Don't let them tell you that you aren't liked because it's not true.

You should prove them wrong by going and talking to one of them. :)

[clueless_one]

Dude, be your own person. Don't let them tell you that you aren't liked because it's not true.

You should prove them wrong by going and talking to one of them. :)

What happens if you are shy due to being isolated by others all together because your likes are different to them and they don't accept you.

[PinkFloyd]

What happens if you are shy due to being isolated by others all together because your likes are different to them and they don't accept you.

So your parents don't accept you because your likes/interests are different than theirs?

[clueless_one]

So your parents don't accept you because your likes/interests are different than theirs?

no my friends isolate me because of my likes.

[Joey.]

Don't ask them for advice, if their advice isn't valid.
Times has changed since then,
Relationships are more difficult.
If you think a girl may have some interest in you,
then try to make a move :)

[PinkFloyd]

no my friends isolate me because of my likes.

Ah. Sorry, I didn't understand at first.

Anyways, that's not cool. I'd strongly suggest finding new friends. I mean what kind of friend beats on another friend for his/her likes? Now obviously, I haven't ever met any of your friends, but it sounds like they aren't good ones.

[clueless_one]

Ah. Sorry, I didn't understand at first.

Anyways, that's not cool. I'd strongly suggest finding new friends. I mean what kind of friend beats on another friend for his/her likes? Now obviously, I haven't ever met any of your friends, but it sounds like they aren't good ones.

Then everyone where I live won't accept my likes (especially the sport I like). :(

[PinkFloyd]

Then everyone where I live won't accept my likes (especially the sport I like). :(

Wow, man.. That's too bad. I'm sorry. Where I live, everyone's pretty accepting except for the homophobia problem we have.

[clueless_one]

Wow, man.. That's too bad. I'm sorry. Where I live, everyone's pretty accepting except for the homophobia problem we have.

Maybe it will help if I show the signs she has shown...


Last year, this girl made comments about my skin colour by asking what makeup I put on. After, the rest of the girls at the table continued making the comments including this girl.

This year, she had moved from the table I was at to another clear table with the girls in the class. It seems that the day/lesson before she moved she had stretched her legs in my direction and I stretched mine towards her. Our feet touched each other and we didn’t move it. (Maybe she at that point felt something towards me and got really nervous and shy. From this point the communication between this girl and me stopped but conversations with the girl I felt was interested in me had started, who is friends with the new girl I like)

Every lesson this new girl looked in my direction. I sit in front of the white board and also where the teacher stands, so she could be looking at the teacher and copying notes down but not looking at me or she purposely took that spot to glance at me while doing her work. Though, I still do catch her looking at me and look back at the teacher when I catch her (not all the time).

The group of friends of the girl I like (including the girl who I felt was interested in me) went to the same selected venue for the excursion (where a friend of the girl I like/the girl I think likes me offered me cake).
On the way to the venue after the girl I felt was interested in me spoke to me a little, this girl spoke to me (small talk) and asked if I like her hat as she adjusted it. I told her it looked better the way it was, she recalled my question saying you found it better as it was and adjusted it back.
At the venue, I walked around and saw this new girl, the girl I felt was interested in me and her friends. I am definitely sure that this new girl (thinking about it now) jumped in front of the full group shouting my name and pointing at me (if my memory is clear she was leaning towards me when doing this). Her friend asked me to take a photo of the group, I did and in the photo this new girl was leaning towards the person taking the photo (me).

I spoke to this new girl a little about something the day after the excursion. When I spoke to her, she did seem a little nervous and shy when talking to me.

This new girl is the main girl I have seen staring/looking at me from a distance from the group which the girl I like is in. Though, the girl I felt was interested in me has also looked at me from a distance.

In one school lecture I looked in the direction of this new girl who was looking at me. I then noticed her talk to her friends, when I looked back I noticed her friends looking at me (not with the girl I felt was interested in me). Her friends looked away and spoke to this new girl. Then all of them started laughing/giggling.

She also likes the sport I like and another thing (from what I know)…
When she sat at my desk, this girl spoke about the sport to me. (which is how I know she likes the sport.
I over heard her say something about liking the other thing (though I am not exactly sure who said it, pretty sure it was her)

I've seen her out of the blue at the church I go to. She had her arms folded (most likely meaning I hate being here :P) but she looked directly at me and I looked directly at her. This happened without any emotion.

Body Language

After the new girl moved from my table, her shoulders weren’t facing my direction. Only on rare occasions I noticed it happen. But she did seem to be more relaxed during these lessons.

She seemed to rest her head on her hand in class. In doing so she showed the inside of her wrist towards me. [I read somewhere that this is a flirting sign] When she does this, she has no emotion on her face and is sometimes not looking at me (doing her work or looking at the board or writing notes). Same as when she looks at me, I sometimes catch her looking at me with her head on her hand while looking at a video or when she finishes writing her notes. When I catch her she acts like she didn’t do anything (again no emotion)

She hasn’t smiled at me. Only at the venue of the excursion she seemed to smile at me a little.

Signs my friends have given me that tell me she likes me

My friend was in my class and asked which girl I had asked out. I told her who I asked out and she said that the girl I asked out has a boyfriend. I then said that I like someone else. She asked me who it was and I said I wasn’t telling her. The girl I like and the girl who I feel who was interested in me was in the same room and I looked in the direction of the girl I like. Then my friend asked me if I like the girl who I like NOW and she said it in an excited happy way. I said no, but from now I thought that maybe it was this girl who likes me and the girl I felt was interested in me is only looking interested in me to pass information to her friend (the girl who I like NOW). My friend asked me if it was the girl I felt was interested in me, I said yes and without seeming excited she said that the girl I felt is interested in me is a nice girl. I then explained how I asked a girl who knows the girl who I felt was interested in me to find out who she likes she said she likes someone else and is going out with him. My friend just said she is a nice girl.

[PinkFloyd]

Maybe it will help if I show the signs she has shown...


Last year, this girl made comments about my skin colour by asking what makeup I put on. After, the rest of the girls at the table continued making the comments including this girl.

This year, she had moved from the table I was at to another clear table with the girls in the class. It seems that the day/lesson before she moved she had stretched her legs in my direction and I stretched mine towards her. Our feet touched each other and we didn’t move it. (Maybe she at that point felt something towards me and got really nervous and shy. From this point the communication between this girl and me stopped but conversations with the girl I felt was interested in me had started, who is friends with the new girl I like)

Every lesson this new girl looked in my direction. I sit in front of the white board and also where the teacher stands, so she could be looking at the teacher and copying notes down but not looking at me or she purposely took that spot to glance at me while doing her work. Though, I still do catch her looking at me and look back at the teacher when I catch her (not all the time).

The group of friends of the girl I like (including the girl who I felt was interested in me) went to the same selected venue for the excursion (where a friend of the girl I like/the girl I think likes me offered me cake).
On the way to the venue after the girl I felt was interested in me spoke to me a little, this girl spoke to me (small talk) and asked if I like her hat as she adjusted it. I told her it looked better the way it was, she recalled my question saying you found it better as it was and adjusted it back.
At the venue, I walked around and saw this new girl, the girl I felt was interested in me and her friends. I am definitely sure that this new girl (thinking about it now) jumped in front of the full group shouting my name and pointing at me (if my memory is clear she was leaning towards me when doing this). Her friend asked me to take a photo of the group, I did and in the photo this new girl was leaning towards the person taking the photo (me).

I spoke to this new girl a little about something the day after the excursion. When I spoke to her, she did seem a little nervous and shy when talking to me.

This new girl is the main girl I have seen staring/looking at me from a distance from the group which the girl I like is in. Though, the girl I felt was interested in me has also looked at me from a distance.

In one school lecture I looked in the direction of this new girl who was looking at me. I then noticed her talk to her friends, when I looked back I noticed her friends looking at me (not with the girl I felt was interested in me). Her friends looked away and spoke to this new girl. Then all of them started laughing/giggling.

She also likes the sport I like and another thing (from what I know)…
When she sat at my desk, this girl spoke about the sport to me. (which is how I know she likes the sport.
I over heard her say something about liking the other thing (though I am not exactly sure who said it, pretty sure it was her)

I've seen her out of the blue at the church I go to. She had her arms folded (most likely meaning I hate being here :P) but she looked directly at me and I looked directly at her. This happened without any emotion.

Body Language

After the new girl moved from my table, her shoulders weren’t facing my direction. Only on rare occasions I noticed it happen. But she did seem to be more relaxed during these lessons.

She seemed to rest her head on her hand in class. In doing so she showed the inside of her wrist towards me. [I read somewhere that this is a flirting sign] When she does this, she has no emotion on her face and is sometimes not looking at me (doing her work or looking at the board or writing notes). Same as when she looks at me, I sometimes catch her looking at me with her head on her hand while looking at a video or when she finishes writing her notes. When I catch her she acts like she didn’t do anything (again no emotion)

She hasn’t smiled at me. Only at the venue of the excursion she seemed to smile at me a little.

Signs my friends have given me that tell me she likes me

My friend was in my class and asked which girl I had asked out. I told her who I asked out and she said that the girl I asked out has a boyfriend. I then said that I like someone else. She asked me who it was and I said I wasn’t telling her. The girl I like and the girl who I feel who was interested in me was in the same room and I looked in the direction of the girl I like. Then my friend asked me if I like the girl who I like NOW and she said it in an excited happy way. I said no, but from now I thought that maybe it was this girl who likes me and the girl I felt was interested in me is only looking interested in me to pass information to her friend (the girl who I like NOW). My friend asked me if it was the girl I felt was interested in me, I said yes and without seeming excited she said that the girl I felt is interested in me is a nice girl. I then explained how I asked a girl who knows the girl who I felt was interested in me to find out who she likes she said she likes someone else and is going out with him. My friend just said she is a nice girl.

If I were you, I'd wait a little while like a month and ask her out.

[clueless_one]

If I were you, I'd wait a little while like a month and ask her out.

A month has passed since all this happened. Are you trying to say the new girl I like now likes me back?

I have exams which end late and was thinking on asking one of these girls to drop me home due to the gate witch I go through being closed. Is this a good idea? Should I ask the girl who I like now to drop me home.

[teen.jpg]

Don't be as shy. Try to be outgoing. Yeah its difficult but being shy hasn't worked out so well, has it.

[PinkFloyd]

A month has passed since all this happened. Are you trying to say the new girl I like now likes me back?

I have exams which end late and was thinking on asking one of these girls to drop me home due to the gate witch I go through being closed. Is this a good idea? Should I ask the girl who I like now to drop me home.

I think you should go for it. Go for the new girl.

[clueless_one]

I think you should go for it. Go for the new girl.

The girl who I like now?