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Swagging god
October 28th, 2013, 05:07 PM
I'm 19 and for the last few months I've been calling myself Bi-Curious since I gave and received anal from a guy. I'm wondering at what point does Bi-Curious crossover into Bi-Sexual.

centropede
October 28th, 2013, 05:15 PM
I think you are bisexual...

Amazerful
October 28th, 2013, 05:23 PM
I'm pretty sure you are bisexual at this point

Throwaway24
October 28th, 2013, 05:26 PM
At the point where u know for sure. I was bi curios for about 2 years until i was sure i really liked boys to. There isn't really a limit or a time where u have to pick. I would experiment some more and just see what u like.

Alex_3869
October 28th, 2013, 10:04 PM
Well, only you can determine that for sure. But if you have given and received anal from a dude... i think your floating more towards bi than towards curious. As for the crossing point. I don't think that an official "crossing point" exists, you determine your crossing point. Some people may have an earlier one and some people will have a later one. Either way, just be happy and be who you are!

Elysium
October 28th, 2013, 10:07 PM
Once you're certain and confident.

salty
October 29th, 2013, 06:35 AM
Curious means you are wondering what it would be like. Seems like you already know

Bellissimo
October 29th, 2013, 07:36 AM
I guess you're not curious anymore lol

sqishy
October 29th, 2013, 08:01 AM
I think this is bisexual, bicuriosity means you haven't had any sort of 'proof' to make you bisexual but you are questioning it.

ULeon
October 29th, 2013, 06:04 PM
you aren't curious any more, you know what its like..no its up to you to decide whether you like it or not.

Joey.
October 29th, 2013, 06:36 PM
Just because you experimented,
Does not mean your bisexual.
If you feel like you are, then thats different.
If your still questioning it, then don't put a label on yourself yet..
If you are having actual feelings for this guy,
then maybe you are, maybe you aren't..
No one can decide that you are or not
other than you!
You'll know when you are definite,
and when you figure this out,
You will feel 100% better!

Goodluck :)

Seth Green
October 29th, 2013, 07:50 PM
As many others have said, there isn't one. Well actually maybe when you have fallen in love with both, I don't know. Really yeah, you kinda have to find our for you're self...

marko08
March 4th, 2014, 04:39 AM
I'm 19 and for the last few months I've been calling myself Bi-Curious since I gave and received anal from a guy. I'm wondering at what point does Bi-Curious crossover into Bi-Sexual.

did you like it! iˇm bisexual and never had anal:yes:

Swagging god
March 4th, 2014, 09:03 AM
did you like it! iˇm bisexual and never had anal:yes:

Thanks for the responses, thusfar. I don't have anything more than " bro feelings" for this guy. It was painful but after a few pumps felt amazing.

Zachary G
March 4th, 2014, 02:20 PM
i guess i would ask you if you enjoyed it and would you do it again? if the answer to that is yes, then you have officially crossed over into bisexuality.

SciMassKid
March 4th, 2014, 10:18 PM
It depends if you enjoyed it.

Babs
March 5th, 2014, 01:00 AM
the point at which you are bisexual is when you have sexual and romantic feelings for both boys and girls and when you're open to a relationship with both genders. it doesn't have to be equally. you can have a preference for one or the other, the attraction mainly has to be there and the desire and openess for the relationship. at least that's how I am.

ColinB
March 5th, 2014, 09:35 AM
I think if you liked it....would do it again....then your prolly bi. I dont think you have to want a relationship to be bi....like if you only "date" girls but fool around with boys....your still bi to me.

Landbuscus97
April 6th, 2014, 06:48 PM
That's hard to say, sexual wise I guess so but not romantically, which makes me wanna say curious, but you yourself are the best judge of that

Karkat
April 6th, 2014, 07:15 PM
Thanks for the responses, thusfar. I don't have anything more than " bro feelings" for this guy. It was painful but after a few pumps felt amazing.

Were you using enough lube?

It makes a world of difference.

Swagging god
April 6th, 2014, 07:21 PM
Were you using enough lube?

It makes a world of difference.

We used a lubricated condom but not very much of the bottled kind, I buy now. It being our first time having sex with a guy we assumed that foreplay and a lubricated condom were sufficient. I am wiser now, lol.

Karkat
April 6th, 2014, 07:48 PM
We used a lubricated condom but not very much of the bottled kind, I buy now. It being our first time having sex with a guy we assumed that foreplay and a lubricated condom were sufficient. I am wiser now, lol.

Haha, yeah, at least you know now. XD

Swagging god
April 6th, 2014, 08:10 PM
Haha, yeah, at least you know now. XD

Right, it's a dance u learn as u go