Kissing?

[Joey.]

This is sorta embarrassing for me to admit..
(but I guess this place is good too admit things?)
I've never kissed anyone (frenchly)
Back before I was positive I was gay,
I dated this girl for about 1month or so.
We never kissed, so i sorta missed my window.
Now that I am gay, I don't plan on dating any girls soon. :P
With me not being out, It's abit harder to even try to experience it.

Not only that, but i'm abit self-conscious about it.
It's quite embarrassing, that when I do have a relationship
I'll be unexperienced.

So my question is:

What age did you have your first kiss?
How do you exactly do a french kiss?

[kylem1229]

What age did you have your first kiss? never
How do you exactly do a french kiss? something to do with tongues...not quite sure how to write it

[Joey.]

What age did you have your first kiss? never
How do you exactly do a french kiss? something to do with tongues...not quite sure how to write it

Thats exactly my thoughts..
Tongues, but what do you do with them :P

[Living For Love]

Thats exactly my thoughts..
Tongues, but what do you do with them :P

A french kiss basically consists on putting you tongue inside the other person's mouth, while moving not only the tongue itself but also the lips. I've never french-kissed anyone, but I think that's how you do it.

I also regret a bit not having kissed my ex-best friend when I experimented with him, but when you get a boyfriend, don't worry too much about learning how to kiss him, I think it's just something that we learn naturally, with the pratice.

[Abyssal Echo]

What age did you have your first kiss? 13
How do you exactly do a french kiss? thats kinda hard to explain :/ be a lot easier to show ya.

[sqishy]

What age did you have your first kiss? Not yet, >17

How do you exactly do a french kiss? With tongues idk

[Joey.]

A french kiss basically consists on putting you tongue inside the other person's mouth, while moving not only the tongue itself but also the lips. I've never french-kissed anyone, but I think that's how you do it.

I also regret a bit not having kissed my ex-best friend when I experimented with him, but when you get a boyfriend, don't worry too much about learning how to kiss him, I think it's just something that we learn naturally, with the pratice.

Sounds like some work!
but the concept of doing that with out your mouth
being open super wide..
kinda makes me feel at ease that i'm not the only one :)

[Joey.]

What age did you have your first kiss? 13
How do you exactly do a french kiss? thats kinda hard to explain :/ be a lot easier to show ya.
Seems like more of a experience thing,
Can't be explained more of a experiment.

[Dannibabi]

I've never been kissed.

[Joey.]

I've never been kissed.

I've had a regular (peck) Kiss.
But nothing more :)

[Dannibabi]

I've had a regular (peck) Kiss.
But nothing more :)

I've had nothing at all.

[highschool]

nothing to be embarrassed about, at all. Tons of people don't have their first kisses in high school.

What age did you have your first kiss?13
How do you exactly do a french kiss?you use a lot of tongue. it's hard to explain, but when it happens to you, just go with the flow, you'll be fine!(:

[Joey.]

nothing to be embarrassed about, at all. Tons of people don't have their first kisses in high school.

What age did you have your first kiss?13
How do you exactly do a french kiss?you use a lot of tongue. it's hard to explain, but when it happens to you, just go with the flow, you'll be fine!(:

I appreciate the response! :)

[numbness]

Its hard to explain and everyone kisses differently its easy if your doing off you just go with it

[WeAreOneRepublic]

First kiss: 15
French kissing?: Well, tilt head as you would normally going for a kiss, slowly after a few kisses open your mouth when kissing. If partner reciprocates then go to the next sentence, otherwise just leave it at normal kissing for now. Once mouth is open enough for tongue to go out just do a little test, say dart your tongue(not too quick) but just touch their tongue with yours lightly. If they respond with their own tongue then you are set. It's all about them and whether they are ready. Just test the waters first and then keep the ball rolling

[ksdnfkfr]

I was almost 13 and it started out with us just
sticking out our tongues and touching them together.
Totally two boys clumsy experimenting.
Kissing takes practice and there a lot of
fumbles that happen before you get it right.
We had been together starting out as just friends
a long time before that happened.

[Theekshana]

First kiss: 11
French kissing? well when your mouths meet, i guess the tongues know what to do. first time feels a bit weird, but then it just gets better :) don't over think it. I had no idea what i was doing when i first did most stuff.. you just learn along the way.

[ashdyn]

I don't really remember my first time frenching but I think I was in the 8th grade lol

Don't be self conscious about it and just go for it when the time is right and the opportunity is there. I bet if you tell the person you're with that you've never had a first kiss they'll even make it really really special. I know if a girl told me that I'd want her to remember her first kiss was amazing and that it came from me lol :p

How to do it? Let your lips meet...linger, then slowly slip your tongue out. The other person should get the idea. Seeing as you'll be with another guy you can just follow their lead from there.

Tips from a straight guy: I totally love it when a girl sucks my tongue and swirls hers around it, but don't be too aggressive lol subtlety is key. Don't open your mouth too wide. Run your fingers through the back of his hair...spine tingling goose bumps :D

[Joey.]

First kiss: 15
French kissing?: Well, tilt head as you would normally going for a kiss, slowly after a few kisses open your mouth when kissing. If partner reciprocates then go to the next sentence, otherwise just leave it at normal kissing for now. Once mouth is open enough for tongue to go out just do a little test, say dart your tongue(not too quick) but just touch their tongue with yours lightly. If they respond with their own tongue then you are set. It's all about them and whether they are ready. Just test the waters first and then keep the ball rolling


Nice explanation! You really nailed it to the tee.
Thanks for the advice :)

I don't really remember my first time frenching but I think I was in the 8th grade lol

Don't be self conscious about it and just go for it when the time is right and the opportunity is there. I bet if you tell the person you're with that you've never had a first kiss they'll even make it really really special. I know if a girl told me that I'd want her to remember her first kiss was amazing and that it came from me lol :p

How to do it? Let your lips meet...linger, then slowly slip your tongue out. The other person should get the idea. Seeing as you'll be with another guy you can just follow their lead from there.

Tips from a straight guy: I totally love it when a girl sucks my tongue and swirls hers around it, but don't be too aggressive lol subtlety is key. Don't open your mouth too wide. Run your fingers through the back of his hair...spine tingling goose bumps :D

As of now,
I'm single, but seeing as it may take some time to
find a boyfriend (Not even out yet).. this may be a while :P

Thanks for the tip, I will defiantly keep that in mind!

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Thank you all for the help, tips,
and your own experiences.
I appreciate it! :)

[Cece14]

Never kissed but with french kissing, u start out slow then get into it

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Nice explanation! You really nailed it to the tee.
Thanks for the advice :)

All good mate ;D

[Connor.]

I've had a normal kiss with my ex girlfriend about 4 years ago, but I have never done a french kiss, nor do I know how to.

[Luminous]

I'm in a similar position, I'm gay, not out, and never kissed.

[drmindfreak]

What age did you have your first kiss? 13
How do you exactly do a french kiss? idk, smoothly

tbh i think it's so overrated, kinda hype... but it's not big deal at all. Just like a normal kiss but wet

[schoolgirlz]

My first kiss was I think I was 6 at afterschool. My first french kiss was 13 and I'm still dating that same boy im 16 now and we started dating when I was 11.

The Art Of French Kissing:
First start out kissing as regular no tounge no nibbling
Then after a 1 minuet or so you can begin to start slowly adding some tongue but dont stick your tongue harshly in the other person mouth. Slowly and subtly.
Nibble not bite on the bottom of lip if you want to thats optional
It feels very awkward at first because you have never felt another persons tongue so theres going to be like a tingle.