i MIGHT have found someone... HELP!

[irogers707]

I say "might" because I have been played before in the past. One reason I think this might not be to good to be true is because we talked for 10 hours straight tonight on Skype. He is close by and says he wants to meet this weekend. I planned the whole day too. We would go to the beach and walk around, and come back to my place and have a Pulp Fiction movie night. He's REALLY sweet but there is always that voice in the back of my head saying "he's playing you" "he's gonna flake" "he's gonna just block me out and never talk to me again" and "he's just doing this to hurt me" Idk what to do about these thoughts. I only have them because I have been stabbed in the back a couple times so I'm hesitant to open my heart to love I guess. Please help me choose my next move.

[ksdnfkfr]

Just take it slow and careful.
That is what those thoughts are telling you.
You have learned from your mistakes to be
more shrewd. The problem is not crossing the
line from being cautious to being paranoid.

[Living For Love]

If he really wants to meet you in real life, I guess that means he is indeed interested in you. Just treat him like a friend you know for a long time, don't be nervous, act in a calm and natural way. As you already had other experiences, you know better than us when to see if he's just playing with you or not. Make him feel comfortable around you. Good luck.

[irogers707]

UPDATE!
He told me he loved me tonight. I told him I loved him too. Is this to early? Three days of talking? Mind you when we talk its usually for 4-10 hours at a time on Skype, and most of the day texting.

[Living For Love]

UPDATE!
He told me he loved me tonight. I told him I loved him too. Is this to early? Three days of talking? Mind you when we talk its usually for 4-10 hours at a time on Skype, and most of the day texting.

That's amazing, congratulations. It's never too soon to tell someone you love him considering you already know eachother pretty well. You just need to keep in touch with him, get to know him even better, and then you two could start a serious relationship.

[irogers707]

That's amazing, congratulations. It's never too soon to tell someone you love him considering you already know eachother pretty well. You just need to keep in touch with him, get to know him even better, and then you two could start a serious relationship.

He's coming over today (first time meeting him in person) we're gonna watch super troopers and just chill :-)