Dating a person with a child?

[Amazerful]

Teen pregnancy is horribly common these days so I wanted to know:

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child?

2. why or why not?

My Answer

1. Would you ever date a person who already has a child? No

2. why or why not? I just dont like responsibility that probably comes with a person like that and the relationship probably won't last

[Blood]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Yes, I would, but only if there wasn't any baby mama drama and he was completely separated from the mother.

2. why or why not? Personal preference I guess. If I honestly liked him/her and vice versa I would date him/her. The child would not play any role in that decision.

[conniption]

I'd only date the guy if he was responsible and took good care of his child, and if the mother of the baby didn't stir up drama.

[ryanwong87]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? yes

2. why or why not? i think teenagers with or without a baby the same because im not scared of the responsibility taking care of child

[Living For Love]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? No.

2. why or why not? I wouldn't feel comfortable around a child who belonged to another guy.

[Luminous]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Yes

2. why or why not? If I really liked the parent (and the child). Also, the parents can't be together- my 'girlfriend' could be relying on the kid's dad for support, but nothing more than that.

[SawyerSauce]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Yes.

2. why or why not? I would have a three year old child now if I didn't miscarry. I love kids. I don't mind responsibility.

[Derryck]

I would not. Teen mothers fall under the "lower class" category and therefore I want nothing to do with them. :no:

[Waleedbt]

I will not, ive never met one that has a child though. Its because its hard to be with someone who doesnt think ahead, future. Plus, the thinking of a girl that has a child just repels me.

[Cygnus]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? No

2. why or why not? I think a girl at teenage age with a child wouldn't have time to do anything and could be irresponsible.

[kylem1229]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? no

2. why or why not? Many reasons.
1. Im never gonna get married
2. They're irresponsible
3. They arent gonna really have a good job
4. They're gonna depend on my money, which i probably dont have enough

[highschool]

Teen pregnancy is horribly common these days so I wanted to know: um I don't think it's horribly common at all. I don't know anyone who's gotten pregnant as a teenager.

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child?. probably not

2. why or why not?They're most likely irresponsible. But Never say never

[Amazerful]

I will not, ive never met one that has a child though. Its because its hard to be with someone who doesnt think ahead, future. Plus, the thinking of a girl that has a child just repels me.

I can relate to that feeling

[LouBerry]

No. NONONONONONONONO.

Not that I'm against it when you're older, but at our age? Hell no.

[Theekshana]

I would not. Teen mothers fall under the "lower class" category and therefore I want nothing to do with them. :no:

don't you think its harsh to say that. things go wrong sometimes. it has nothing to do with class!

I will not, ive never met one that has a child though. Its because its hard to be with someone who doesnt think ahead, future. Plus, the thinking of a girl that has a child just repels me.

maybe, they thought ahead and had protection but for some bad luck had the child.

I've got a question for you 2. have u had sex with girls as yet? what would happen if the protection you use fails and the girl gets pregnant?

Guys love to have sex with girls, but don't think twice before saying nasty stuff at girls when things go wrong. sigh!

i see this happening a lot in my country where premarital sex is still a big taboo.

[Miri]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Probably not, but you never know, right?

2. why or why not? I am honestly not prepared for the responsibility, and I think it would be a constant point of conflict in the relationship.


I would not. Teen mothers fall under the "lower class" category and therefore I want nothing to do with them. :no:

That's a bit insensitive, don't you think?

[Derryck]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Probably not, but you never know, right?

2. why or why not? I am honestly not prepared for the responsibility, and I think it would be a constant point of conflict in the relationship.




That's a bit insensitive, don't you think?

Nope. means they were stupid enough to let their hormones do the thinking for them.

[Castle of Glass]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? maybe

2. why or why not? depends on the parent tbh. if the parent is irresponsible, then hell no. but if they are mature for their age and have support, then why shouldn't I?

[xXl0sth0peXx]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? - Absolutely.

2. why or why not? - Who am I to judge you on your past? Just because you have a kid doesn't make you a bad person or anything. As long as you don't throw the responsibility of caring for your kid on me right away, I'm down. I absolutely love kids too, which helps I guess. If you're gonna date me so I can pay for your kid though, it won't happen.

[Waleedbt]

maybe, they thought ahead and had protection but for some bad luck had the child.

I've got a question for you 2. have u had sex with girls as yet? what would happen if the protection you use fails and the girl gets pregnant?

Guys love to have sex with girls, but don't think twice before saying nasty stuff at girls when things go wrong. sigh!

i see this happening a lot in my country where premarital sex is still a big taboo.

Im sorry, i have a hard time to catch up if i have a notification, its too small lol.

Okay, so for your Question.

No, i have not yet, nor that I "Love to have sex with girls" , i'm raised in a good family, very protective, i'm away from my family now, studying in Canada, so i can do anything, parents will never know, but i just don't seem to get to do it. I don't even hug girls. I just respect them.. yeah, i'm probably weird, but i just think people can only mess up a few times in their lives, and im just too young, its just wrong to be sexually active at the age of 14 ( which is how it is now ) , i mean i'm not going to deny.. if i wanted to do it with one that i like, maybe? BUT only if she is okay with it, and we know that it is SAFE! but then again, i will think through it, and most likely talk to my Host family about it beforehand, i talk to them about everything.

Plus, i NEVER said any nasty stuff about any girl. don't accuse me of this, i just said, she and him have to be cautious, something have went wrong somehow that she ended up like that, and lets see this. How many teen moms you know? have you ever heard a happy ending to them? have you ever noticed how messed up they are? you can definitely see why they are in this situation, go see " teen mom " or search youtube for some girls just talking about their lives changing, you'll notice what they have in common. I am still not trashing them, im just saying... well parents have gone wrong at some point, or maybe.. its the boyfriend? or maybe... its just a guy they met or know at some point.

Question 2: ( sorry had to edit to put this is, forgot it)
what would happen if the protection you use fails and the girl gets pregnant?

If i had sex, well, i'm probably going to be very cautious. Okay now if she did get pregnant, well, i'm more than likely will marry her, and NO! never say that " maybe you dont like the girl? " if i don't then i would not be doing any of this with her in the first place, and that also mean she also likes me to do it too, so i dont really go with love from one side. Now even thinking about this, kinda terrifies me haha.

Im a middle eastern, so yeah .. its Taboo too, BUT! we are very open minded which is what people are not understanding.

Now think about this, would you like your "Daughter, or Son" ( sometime in the future if you have one) to be a " teen with a child? " ?

Im sorry for the long post, but if you're here to diss on me thinking that all guys want sex, well some people want a good life before anything! to be secure.

[Amazerful]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Probably not, but you never know, right?

2. why or why not? I am honestly not prepared for the responsibility, and I think it would be a constant point of conflict in the relationship.

would you think your parents would care?

[Cece14]

1. Would you ever date a person (a teenager) who already has a child? Um, no

2. why or why not? Because, I dont wanna date someone who had a kid with a girl and then left her, so, I would know if that happened to me, if he would leave me or not.