Aaand I'm confused again.

[SarahSoprano]

So I certainly like girls. That's for sure. I always have since I was little.

I do like guys as well, but I identify as lesbian...here's where it gets confusing.

I'm starting to think that I'm bi, but it's like I'm trying to stick to lesbian.

I've always been told that all boys ever think about is sex, food, and more sex. My dad told me that and he was completely serious. I don't want to be with someone who only wants me for sex. Or because I cook. I legit believed that. Maybe that was a turn away for me?

I've also heard from the LGBT community and everywhere else that bisexuals are just confused and questioning; it's not a real sexuality.

I know that I like girls more than guys. I'd love to be with another girl, but...maybe being with a guy isn't as bad as I've been told.

I guess I'm just afraid of being accused as confused if I say I'm bi. Maybe I could possibly be pansexual. Maybe I'm just friggin queer and that's that. I don't know.

[Derryck]

Not all guys are like that! There are really nice guys out there. Don't listen to your dad. I don't care for sex. I'm more into cuddling. Please, just don't start thinking that all guys are like that. We're not all bad.

[sqishy]

Not all guys are like that! There are really nice guys out there. Don't listen to your dad. I don't care for sex. I'm more into cuddling. Please, just don't start thinking that all guys are like that. We're not all bad.

This ^.
Don't be swayed by other's opinions. Bisexuality is not a form of confusion, and even if it were, there's no need to get rushed to find a label for your sexuality. Go with what you feel describes you.

[Joey.]

Not all guys think about sex, food and more sex.
Ofcourse there is guys out there like that,
You just need to be a good judgement in character.
But if you like girls and guys,
you're not confused are you?
You know what you like, so therefore, you're not confused!
Goodluck :)

[Throwaway24]

I would say ur bi and not all guys just talk about sex. I have seen posts on this forum where girls always want sex. Everyone is different but if I were u I would scrap labels and just try and be with someone u would want to be with, boy or girl

[Alex_3869]

Some of us have actual emotions and don't care as mush about the sex, or the food ;). While some of it is true, stereotypes aren't the norm. As for your sexuality. I used to think bi sexuality was not a thing. Then, when I came here and learned more about I realized that it is a 'real' thing, and that these people are genuine. So, if you can see yourself with a guy when you get older, perfect. If you can see yourself with a girl when you get older, perfect. Be genuine and be who you are, and don't let anyone else influence who you love. After all it is never a choice.

Aaannnd, as I always say on just about every advice I give on sexuality, labeling yourself comes with time... some of us are just lucky enough to know earlier than others. call yourself whatever you want to call yourself. Bi, curious, or whatever you want. Call yourself a zebra for all I care, just don't feel pressured to do so. Best wishes!