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turtlescantwrite
October 27th, 2013, 04:23 PM
Recently this guy has been trying to be my boyfriend, but Im reeally not interested. He gets in my personal space, invites me to all these things that I never go to, and was obsessed with my cousin before me. Ive told him Im not interested, and i dont feel comfortable around him. I dunno what to do! its gotten to the point where if were in class, everyone tells him to "make a move bro".

Derryck
October 27th, 2013, 04:27 PM
Go over his head. Ever thought of getting the principle at your back?

Joey.
October 27th, 2013, 04:27 PM
A person who doesn't know when to stop! ..Lovely
Well, you could take the fastest approach,
Just let him know, you are no way shape or form interested in him.

Or you can take the lieing approach (which i do not support doing, but it is effective)
Just say that you have a boyfriend, and your in a happy relationship.

Guys like him that can't take no for a answer are very hard to deal with
If it gets to extreme and he is harassing you after you have let him know
I would seek help from the office (if in school)

Goodluck! :)

turtlescantwrite
October 27th, 2013, 04:36 PM
I never thought of that, thank you^_^ Its getting a little excessive.

Derryck
October 27th, 2013, 04:38 PM
I never thought of that, thank you^_^ Its getting a little excessive.

Anytime.

Melodic
October 27th, 2013, 05:05 PM
I've literally dealt with this a couple years ago. The best thing to do is just to keep showing him you're not at all interested, ignore him completely and don't even say a word, and everytime he asks you to do something, say no. He will have to give up sometime and realize it isn't hard to get. Also, I'd suggest to tell all your classmates and friends to stop encouraging him, it only makes it worse. If none of this works, then get the teachers involved. I'd wouldn't do that until it's the worse case possible though.