My girlfriend kissed my bestfriend while she was drunk..

[DDAx]

This might be big but hear me out please!

Okay, So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months now and yesterday she was at a friends party. At this party she kissed my bestriend while she was drunk.

She told me this face to face today. She said that 'I regret it but I kissed your bestfriend last night while I was drunk' after this I walked away and went home. (This was a waste of £3 for the bus fair -.-)

So... First off, she seems flirty with him before this incident.. I noticed this but I didn't think it would be anything on our relationship.
Secondly, My best friend always seems to put me down whenever me and my girlfriend are together. When he does this my girlfriend always laughs..

I haven't talked to her since because I don't really know what to say. Like anyone would in this situation, I feel distraught and betrayed. I love her a lot but I don't know what to do..

Am I overreacting? What am I supposed to do? What am I supposed to say to both my gf and my best friend?

[Miserabilia]

it depends on the way the tale is told if you know what I mean. The way your saying it makes it sound like theyre backstabbing you, but I cant be sure since i wasnt there lol.
Just ask her if she really doesnt have feelings for him, people can reveal alot when theyre drunk

[Living For Love]

You need to notice that your girlfriend did tell you about the kiss, I guess that means she really regreted it. She could have just not tell you anything, but she was honest. Nevertheless, you need to ask her if she was really drunk and if she doesn't feel anything for your best friend.
And I guess you also need to have a serious conversation with him, because it's really not nice to put you down and humiliate you in front of your own girlfriend. Talk to him about it, and if he doesn't react well, tell him to back off for a while.

[Luminous]

If she's flirty with more than just him, don't worry about that. He could be jealous but that doesn't mean she likes him. Remember, they were drunk when they kissed. If she's really only flirty with him, sit her down and say "I know what's going on." She may say how sorry she is and admit it, and if not, ask if her she honestly likes __ and if they've been going out at all. I think if they were not going out behind your back it was a very brave thing of her to tell you she kissed your best friend and you should respect that.

[highschool]

normally I would say, " she was drunk, it was an honest mistake" but the way they're acting says otherwise. Honestly just forgive her and see how it goes, you don't have any concrete evidence that they're into eachother.

[Katiya]

Just let it go. Things will go how they go regardless of what you do. If she decided she does like him then she would go to him anyway. If she likes you she will stay with you. This is a age of experimenting and finding out what you want. People bounce all over and sometimes come back to the person they originally liked.

It could be she was just drunk and she did say she regrets it. That says something that she told you that.

[Loner_97]

First of all you girlfriend admitted about the kiss. And so what if she laughs at jokes? And Maybe trusting is your only option, and you did say you love her.. so trust her. Trust your best friend, he wouldn't do anything to hurt you. Friends don't do that. If you ever have doubts in your relationship... just remind yourself why you are in love with her...
Don't complicate a small mistake.

[Joey.]

Sounds like a sticky situation!
Well, she was honest about kissing him.
But if she was flirty with him before this incident?
The guy seems like he is trying to impress her
by being the "bad boy" type.

But then again, maybe your just being protective..
When you see your girlfriend being friendly with him
you might misinterpret it for being flirty.
And as of him making jokes,
Does he do it when your by yourself too?
he may just do it because thats what "guys do".
Maybe when he puts you down (jokingly I hope)
Do it back. (Jokingly, not bullyingly)
Or he also could be doing it so it's
not awkward for him being the third wheel.

Your best bet is to talk with her, about your concerns.
Let her know that you have alot of feelings for her,
and see if she has the same.
Hopefully, with her being honest about the kiss,
I'm sure she will let you know how she feels.

Look on the brightside, She was honest
and honesty is Everything in a relationship.

[ashdyn]

I really fucking hate when people use being drunk as an excuse. I'm sorry but being drunk is not an excuse for cheating.

I'm not saying dump her, especially if you really care about her, but you should think long and hard if you want to stay with someone that broke like the only rule you have to follow when being in a committed relationship with someone. No one is perfect though...so if you really like her give her a second chance based on the fact that she was honest with you. If anything I'd be suspicious of your friend more than her at this point especially if he knows she told you already and hasn't said anything to you.

About the flirtiness and the way he jokes about you around her...I wouldn't read into this too much. Sometimes that's just how people interact. Like when my friends bring their gf's around I like to bring up embarrassing things they've done and the girls usually laugh about it, we all do really. I don't do this so that I can steal their girls but I think it makes the girl a little more comfortable being in the group. Meeting a bunch of new people can be scary especially if they're all a tight knit group of friends and you're the new gf. He might just be trying to make her comfortable and she might just be gravitating towards him because of that. Forreal though it's not cool that she did that and he did that though...I'd be fucking pissed if I was you not posting for help online so props to you for remaining calm lol

[NeuroTiger]

Tricky situation.
Try to have a clear and calm conversation with your gf asking her if she likes your friend and see if she's really sorry about the incident.

[Cece14]

No, talk to your best friend about it