Like a guy but need to cover it up

[billybigfish]

So basically, I really like this guy who goes to my school (he's two years younger than me) and every time I see him, I get thoughts of grabbing him in private places, squeezing his bum, kissing him, just stuff like that, and I really don't want everyone (including himself) to notice, but the thing is, I know that if I don't do something, I will end up doing that stuff without even thinking about it because I like him that much, so, how do I stop myself from doing that? (He's straight but very... I dont know... I guess you could say open minded, but I'm not 100% sure that he is actually straight)

[ksdnfkfr]

The only practical thing someone
can do in that kind of situation is
to maintain self control. If that is
beyond your ability, then I suppose
you will need counseling.

[Living For Love]

Try not to think too much about it, or if you do, try to think about something else. You just need to have some self control, everyone has crushes and people can just manage to keep calm.

[Joey.]

You have to maintain self control..
and if you can't remove yourself away from
the scene so nothing happens ;)

[Tarannosaurus]

I've been in situations like this, obsessing over people is unhealthy. It happens, but you just have to be brutally honest with yourself: nothing's going to happen. Try to exercise self control and find distractions. Take up a new hobby or something. If he turns out to be gay/bi later then maybe go for it and see what happens. But if he's straight you don't want to be wasting your time.

[Luminous]

Think about other things. Convince yourself you don't like him. Practice good self control. Put something you really really want in front of you and see how long you can stare at it without taking it. I don't know if that will do anything but it might help.

[ashdyn]

Get to know him better. If you guys are able to get close without you losing control of yourself then soon you'll know him well enough to know if he'll be receptive to having a guy come onto him.

I know that can be confusing sometimes though cause like I'm really open and generally don't mind gay people. I also gay-around with my friends. This has led to some misread signals in the past lol

But you said he seems open....so worst case scenario is at least he won't freak out when you tell him you like him. He'll just tell you he's not into that. After that there's really nothing else you can do besides daydream and jack off about him lol

hope everything works out!

[Miri]

Try to distract yourself, more and more self control will come with practice. Obsessing over someone isn't the most ideal situation to be it, so I would suggest either trying to talk to this guy, or just try to ignore it until it goes away. And I wouldn't suggest trying to grab his privates.