Your first BJ?

[Unicornprincess]

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? How old were you? Were you nervous? Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did?

I ask because I have been seeing this guy for like 2 weeks and he seems to keep hinting at it.. I have never done it and its not like I don't want to because I'm very curious but I'm just not sure if I'm ready! What if its too big or I just freak out?? Anyway, I'm still going to wait a bit to see how he feels about me but I'm super curious to know what you girls think! You have helped me so much so far! Thank you! <3

[satarra3180]

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? How old were you? Were you nervous? Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did?

I ask because I have been seeing this guy for like 2 weeks and he seems to keep hinting at it.. I have never done it and its not like I don't want to because I'm very curious but I'm just not sure if I'm ready! What if its too big or I just freak out?? Anyway, I'm still going to wait a bit to see how he feels about me but I'm super curious to know what you girls think! You have helped me so much so far! Thank you! <3

Definitely wait until you know if he's worth it but I dont think there is really a specific amount of time. I knew the first guy I did it with for awhile but thats just because we were friends before we hooked up. Dont worry about it being too big...just do what feels comfortable for you and if he really likes you he will be ok with that. Maybe give him just a handjob first so you get used to it.

[Sandra Main]

Definitely wait until you know if he's worth it but I dont think there is really a specific amount of time. I knew the first guy I did it with for awhile but thats just because we were friends before we hooked up. Dont worry about it being too big...just do what feels comfortable for you and if he really likes you he will be ok with that. Maybe give him just a handjob first so you get used to it.

This sounds like very good advice.

[Jennboh]

For my first bj, I had known the boy for several years because we had gone to school together since like 3rd grade. I was 13(he was 12) and yeah I was really nervous. I knew he was gonna cum because his body tensed up and he started thrusting in my mouth. And when he did cum it was amazing. I did not expect that much to shoot out!

[Mob Boss]

Well, I, personally, have been friends with and known a good bit of guys. However, I've never had anyone's junk area in or around my mouth area. I guess it ultimately depends on the person. For me It took me like exactly.... Never months and 0 weeks, but then again I'm a prude weirdo. Two weeks seems extremely, extremely short to know someone in, let alone to allow them to penetrate your mouth. :eek:
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I think to be even remotely comfortable with someone to do that, you should be with them for longer than two weeks. Just because he's hinting does not mean you should automatically be submissive to his commands if you're not comfortable nor ready. It doesn't sound as though you are, to be honest. You sound really anxious and uncomfortable. That should be something you want to do with and for someone, not an obligation because he keeps saying "b" and "j' words together really fast so you only hear "bj" . If you're not ready, I'm sure he has hands and an imagination to service himself, that you can hint at.
In any case, be cautious and careful.

[ellawood]

know him about a year was going out for about 5 months and he was nearly 15 I was just 14 a bit nervous and yes I could kinda know she. he was a bout to cum

[Theekshana]

I've known him since I can remember and he was much older to me. I was 11 then. I had given a few HJ's and tasted too, so i knew what it would be like when he cums. It was strange and exciting.

[Luminous]

I've never had a boyfriend or given a bj. Rather glad about that (:

[Mob Boss]

Xxprincess why do you have to comment on things you have no idea about maybe you need to give a bj and you will be more humble

This makes no sense whatsoever. Because she hasn't experienced that and, presumably, doesn't want to warrants humbling? You've added a hell of a lot of information and great advice to this thread, might I add. I mean, bravo for picking out one member who happens to be young and proud that she doesn't feel the need to have any sort of sexual contact to "humble" herself. She can comment on whatever she likes as this is a teen help and advice forum. *gestures with hand across banner at the top of the page* I think her advice was worth more than yours; which you ironically dedicated your entire post to how she shouldn't comment on that which she knows nothing about yet nothing you said was even remotely helpful to the op nor question at hand. Your hypocrisy is ridiculous.

[Amazerful]

Never

[emily-candace]

I agree with XXPrincess and Evelyn Totally. I am not ready for it yet either.

[melissa13]

Gave my first the first time we were alone together, loved the feelings it stirred inside me, he came alot, kinda gagged but i still loved doing it.

[ninja789]

i had been dating him for just over a month and i was 13

[highschool]

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? How old were you? Were you nervous? Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did?

I was 13 and he was 16. We'd been dating for like a week( he was totally using me). I was extremely nervous. Though i'd never done it before, I could tell he was moaning a lot.
I ask because I have been seeing this guy for like 2 weeks and he seems to keep hinting at it.. I have never done it and its not like I don't want to because I'm very curious but I'm just not sure if I'm ready! What if its too big or I just freak out?? Anyway, I'm still going to wait a bit to see how he feels about me but I'm super curious to know what you girls think! You have helped me so much so far! Thank you! <3

Yeah definitely don't let him push you into doing anything you're not ready for( i learned this the hard way) But if it happens, let him know its your first time and he'll guide you.

[Sammie69Cox]

I was 12 when I did it the first time and he was really older then me and I was really nervous, but I had known him basically my whole life. I knew he was about to cum because he told me and it wasn't to bad at first it was a little salty, but it didn't take to bad after a little while.

[Savvynah]

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? How old were you? Were you nervous? Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did?

I was 13 and he was 16. We'd been dating for like a week( he was totally using me). I was extremely nervous. Though i'd never done it before, I could tell he was moaning a lot.
I ask because I have been seeing this guy for like 2 weeks and he seems to keep hinting at it.. I have never done it and its not like I don't want to because I'm very curious but I'm just not sure if I'm ready! What if its too big or I just freak out?? Anyway, I'm still going to wait a bit to see how he feels about me but I'm super curious to know what you girls think! You have helped me so much so far! Thank you! <3

Yeah definitely don't let him push you into doing anything you're not ready for( i learned this the hard way) But if it happens, let him know its your first time and he'll guide you.

If youve been dating him two weeks and he wants you to do stuff thjats waaaay too early.

[Alexx99]

I was 13 and so was he. We are good friends who have known each other since like early elementary school. I was just a little nervous. He didn't cum while I was giving him the bj because we were just warming up before sex lol.

[Saraaaarrgh]

Was quite young the first time. Didnt really knw wot i was doin but did enjoy it lol

[Sammie69Cox]

Was quite young the first time. Didnt really knw wot i was doin but did enjoy it lol

how young? :3

[highschool]

If youve been dating him two weeks and he wants you to do stuff thjats waaaay too early.

yeah I know, but sadly when I realized he was just using me, it was too late.

[HillaryLovesIt]

I was 13, he was 17, I only knew him a couple of days. I wasn't nervous. He was moaning louder and louder. It surprised me at first because I didn't know that it shot out that hard and fast but I liked it a lot. I like the taste and feel of it.

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? How old were you? Were you nervous? Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did?

I ask because I have been seeing this guy for like 2 weeks and he seems to keep hinting at it.. I have never done it and its not like I don't want to because I'm very curious but I'm just not sure if I'm ready! What if its too big or I just freak out?? Anyway, I'm still going to wait a bit to see how he feels about me but I'm super curious to know what you girls think! You have helped me so much so far! Thank you! <3

[heyChelsea]

I just recently gave my first one, I've known him about 5 years but we've only dated about 6 months, I had given him a few handjobs before this though, he told me he was going to cum and I stopped and he came on his stomach, I kinda licked a little bit off, it was okay, lol

[Wildsassygirl]

How long did you know the boy before you gave him a blowjob? 5 years How old were you? 11 my bf was 12 Were you nervous? No, I had seen my sis n mom do it to guys. Did you know when he was about to cum and what was it like when he did? yes n yes

[Jennycool]

Yeah, how young were you and how old are you now?

[Paige Elizabeth]

My first bj will be given when I'm married. That is all.

[Savvynah]

yeah I know, but sadly when I realized he was just using me, it was too late.


:( guys are jerks!

[schoolgirlz]

I was 13 and he was like 15,16,17, i don't remeber but I know he didn't actually but it took my friends to show me that.

[LifeOfLove]

I was 17 the first time I did it. Honestly, if you have to ask somebody else if you should/if you are ready to, then no you should not, and you are not ready.

At the point when you can confidently say for yourself that you are in fact ready, and you know it's okay, then you know. If you don't know, then you probably shouldn't.

For what it's worth, even a few months is a short period of time. I had been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years before we did, and I was confident things weren't ending soon. That was a year ago, we're still together. I don't regret it at all, I also do not regret waiting.

[satarra3180]

:( guys are jerks!

Amen to that!

[butterflykisses69]

we had known each other for almost a month and had just started dating, I was 13, a little bit nervous, and I knew he was gonna cum because he warned me, and i thoroughly enjoyedd it

[Sandra Main]

I knew him for 6 months before i gave him a handjob.
A week after that i sucked on penis.
yes i was very nervous didn't know how to
or what to expect. I knew he was about to ejaculate cause his penis was throbbing in my
mouth. Yes i enjoyed it. I was12 he was 13

[Wildsassygirl]

I was 10 1/2 n he was 12, we knew each other for like a year. We played around a lot and I had seen my older sis do it to her bf so he let me and he loved it.

[Gemma11]

I was 14 at the time he was 16 we had been dating for 2 years. I had already given him a hand job but I was still really nervous. This was after dating him for 2 YEARS! 2 week seems like rushing it. If he can't wait he doesn't deserve it.

[lenka11]

never done :)

[haileyb]

Mine was with my boyfriend of about 5 months at the time we were both 15, when he was ready to cum he pulled it out and came on to my chest/stomach.

No one can really tell you when you're ready, if you aren't 100% sure you are ready then it's probably best not to do it. 2 weeks is a very short time to know someone to give them a BJ.

[jenna123]

i gave it to my boyfriend at the time and i was 15. We had been dating for 2 months already so i knew him more a less well. I knew he was going to cum because he told me.

[Rhiannon97]

When I was 9 my 14 year old sister and her boyfriend thought it would be funny to make me give him a bj. i didn't really know what was going on at the time and i freaked when he came in my mouth.
The next time I gave one was to my boyfriend when I was 11 after we saw a bj in a movie. When he first took his dick out for a bj I freaked out but I cooled my nervs and gave him a bj a few hours later. he didn't cum but he just got really hard in my mouth. I still enjoyed it though.

[SweetFab]

I was 11, about to turn 12. He did cum, but just a bit. The taste of cum was kinda weird at first lol

[Sarah1996]

My first I was 13 and he was 16. I wasn't really nervous at all and I really did enjoy it. He enjoyed it too, lol. As I was sucking his dick before he came, He stood up and basically thrusted in and out between my lips.. Was different but still enjoyed it. He shot his load into my mouth after. It was unexpecting but yet very enjoyable. And yeah I did swallow after.

[hoboliz]

I think I've answered this before, but I was 11. He was older, like 16 I think. I'd lived next door to him my whole life. But there's no time limit on when it's OK. If you're OK with blowing him before you even get his name, that's your call. If your answer is never, that's also OK. The important part is that it is your decision, and no one else's.

[jessicaann]

I was 12, he was 12. Not a love connection. Just something we both wanted to try. I don't like it on my face or in my mouth , but totally love giving bjs and seeing a guy ready to cum. That'smotive enough for me. Still for my own pleasure its gonna be a girl.

[sailorgurl]

i was 10 and i walked in on my older cousin giving head to her bf, she taught me how to do it on him but i didnt like it because i was too young and he was too big, so you should wait until your ready

[anyone50]

very first time I was 8 and didn't even know it was called a BJ and yes he came which at the time I thought he had peed in my mouth

[Pensive]

very first time I was 8 and didn't even know it was called a BJ and yes he came which at the time I thought he had peed in my mouth

If you had no idea then he must have right? How does an 8 yr old end up sucking a penis :/?!

[KellyNC]

I was 15 and had been dating my bf (who was about the same age) at the time for a few months. For us that was a pretty good amount of time, especially since he returned the favor with oral, it gave us some pleasure and released some of that sexual tension. That being said there is no one size fits all situation other than one where your both comfortable and doing it for the right reasons.

[insecure2211]

I was really uncomfortable. We were in the library then the bus bell rang. Saved by the bell! lol

[Amber98]

I was 13 and he was 15. when i noticed he was about to cum i started giving him a handjob so he came on my breast. he said it was the best blowjob hes ever gotten up to today as we're still friends. :)

[insecure2211]

I was 13 and he was 15. when i noticed he was about to cum i started giving him a handjob so he came on my breast. he said it was the best blowjob hes ever gotten up to today as we're still friends. :)

Were your breasts and nipples exposed for that? Was he gentlenanmy enough to wipe up his little mess? How big was that cock? How big are your boobs? hehe

[Amber98]

Were your breasts and nipples exposed for that? Was he gentlenanmy enough to wipe up his little mess? How big was that cock? How big are your boobs? hehe

yes they were! my breasts got very aroused as he was massaging them before i went down on him. funnily enough i used his shirt to wipe his cum lol! i think it was 6 inches big so even though it was my first time i could deepthroat his gun. and my boobs are A to B cups. how about your experience? his size? where he came? your boobs size? xx

[insecure2211]

Aww I was 15 he 16 i think. lol we were trying something new and experimenting about with the bases. Anyway we were in the library after school tucked away in a corner. It was cute with no hair obviously shaved for the occasion. I'm a 32B didnt come though. We did another day at his dorm and he did in my mouth :) Love the warm wet feeling

[Amber98]

Aww I was 15 he 16 i think. lol we were trying something new and experimenting about with the bases. Anyway we were in the library after school tucked away in a corner. It was cute with no hair obviously shaved for the occasion. I'm a 32B didnt come though. We did another day at his dorm and he did in my mouth :) Love the warm wet feeling

Sounds exciting! how big was he? you forgot to mention :P

[insecure2211]

5 or 6 at most. he was asian haha.

[Emerald Dream]

This has turned into a storytelling thread, and is definitely not allowed. :locked: