Sex with friends?................... what? 0__0

[Derryck]

I'm sorry my friend but that is just.............. like................. wow. just........ wow. like......... why?

[kylem1229]

Sex with Friends? Thats pretty much just basic guy-girl sex, just like having sex during marriage. I dont know whats wrong with it...

[Derryck]

Sex with Friends? Thats pretty much just basic guy-girl sex, just like having sex during marriage. I dont know whats wrong with it...

You don't LOVE the individual. Unless there were feelings between you two but you couldn't get together for some reason. What is sex without attraction?

[kylem1229]

A lot of friends love each other, thats how you get best friends, and become in relationships/marriage. Also some just do it for the pleasure, which is the general direction people are going now adays

[Derryck]

A lot of friends love each other, thats how you get best friends, and become in relationships/marriage. Also some just do it for the pleasure, which is the general direction people are going now adays

My morals and my dick are going at it again! :stretcher:

[darthearth]

I have sex with friends and it's great. Some of us just don't need love, it's very casual. Why do you have to be in "love"?

[Derryck]

I have sex with friends and it's great. Some of us just don't need love, its very casual. Why do you have to be in "love"?

I use "love" and "attraction" interchangeably if that helps. :frenchblank:

[Harley Quinn]

Sex and love are two very different things and there doesn't even need to be love to have sex with someone, some people just like friends with benefits and some don't. It can cause so many problems though, mainly someone developing feelings for each other which can then make that friendship rather awkward. It only works with friends if they is no feeling. While personally, I wouldn't do it because I do think that sex should have at least a little bit of an element of love, people are people and if that's what they want to do why judge them for it.

[darthearth]

I use "love" and "attraction" interchangeably if that helps. :frenchblank:

Oh, well we are definitely sexually attracted to each other, otherwise, we probably wouldn't do it.

[Derryck]

Oh, well we are definitely sexually attracted to each other, otherwise, we probably wouldn't do it.

Then why don't you hook up? :confused:

[darthearth]

Then why don't you hook up? :confused:


What do you mean by "hook up"? We do get together.

[Derryck]

What do you mean by "hook up"? We do get together.

So it goes friends, "drilling", then gf? How meany girlfriends do you have? 0__o

[Trenton_]

What do you mean by "hook up"? We do get together.

its a range of stuff from making out to intercourse

[ellawood]

what's wrong with that

[Derryck]

what's wrong with that

Unless there is some sort of attraction between you two, like....... why?

[darthearth]

So it goes friends, "drilling", then gf? How meany girlfriends do you have? 0__o

I have 3 male friends that I get together with. But keep in mind the rules. We can't go much further with this. Remember never to assume heterosexuality. I don't consider any to be a "boyfriend", just friends with benefits. :-)

[ellawood]

Unless there is some sort of attraction between you two, like....... why?

yeah obviously an attraction my friends have had sex with friends

[Derryck]

yeah obviously an attraction my friends have had sex with friends

So why don't you get together?

[ellawood]

So why don't you get together?

just that can be friends with benefits personally I have had sex only with my bf but some people are good friends but don't want to get together but they want to have sex so that's why

Sex and love are two very different things and there doesn't even need to be love to have sex with someone, some people just like friends with benefits and some don't. It can cause so many problems though, mainly someone developing feelings for each other which can then make that friendship rather awkward. It only works with friends if they is no feeling. While personally, I wouldn't do it because I do think that sex should have at least a little bit of an element of love, people are people and if that's what they want to do why judge them for it.

this sounds like me thank you for explaing this to everyone properly :)

[Amazerful]

It usually ruins friendships

[darthearth]

I feel like I need to add here that although I don't think "love" is necessary to enjoy sexual activity with others and have this activity forever viewed as a positive thing in one's life, I do feel like eventually most people will settle into a relationship with someone, even myself. But that can be in the future, it should create no problem for sexual activity now.