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tmassey
October 25th, 2013, 10:08 AM
Right. One of my closest mates, im pretty sure is bi sexual, and although he's got a gf and everything, we were at a party and we were drunk and he started trying to kiss me . I walked away but I feel really bad. Like we're really close, and hug all the time and mess around and stuff but I feel like I've upset him by not letting him kiss me. What's the best way to sort it out?

Harley Quinn
October 25th, 2013, 10:13 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Throwaway24
October 25th, 2013, 10:15 AM
I would talk to him about it. See how much he remembers and how he feels about u. tell him how u feel and maybe if he is really upset try and make it up to him with a hug or a drink or something. Don't let it linger or it will get worse as time goes on

Ariesboy
October 25th, 2013, 10:18 AM
Well it all depends on you. If you didnt wanna kiss him then you should talk to him about it. Its possible that it was because he was drunk. But if you guys are close, you should be able to talk to him about anything. Especially this. D

johnsmith2
October 25th, 2013, 01:28 PM
First off, figure out what your feelings are for him, and what the boundaries are. At that point, talk to him. If your friendship is strong enough, it should hold and continue in the way that you want it to!

Living For Love
October 26th, 2013, 04:23 AM
As he was drunk, he didn't know what he was doing. Just explain him the situation. He can't force you to kiss him, tell him that although you like him you don't feel comfortable enough to do that. He should understand.

ksdnfkfr
October 26th, 2013, 04:35 AM
"You were drunk" is all the reason you need to give him.
It is best to push away anyone when they are
drunk so that they do not end up doing something
you or they might regret later. You were protecting
your friendship and did the right thing.