Advice here...

[Tony X]

im 16, so for since school started this year I have had the feeling that a guy in my school likes me (i'm a guy - bi) im closet bi. i mean people only know me as straight.

I'm very attracted to him and i've had a feeling he's gay so I try to stare at his eyes when we walk pass each other in opposite directions. I catch him starting at my eyes back. Sometimes I stare as his crotch and I look up and his eyes are locked on mine and usually when i get up for example a chair, i catch him staring at my crotch and then looking at my eyes.

Few days ago, I was walking to my table and he was on the way and obviously i played my little game but i caught him with a boner and it was showing perfectly through his pants (saw the outline) then i knew he was looking at me back so i looked up to his eyes and as i was walking he did this little awkward move so i could keep going to my table (he was on my way). he's done many things next to me, like put his hand inside his pants (we were both alone) and his whole underwear was showing and he knew i was looking.

anyway, sorry for the story. this is just one of those feelings humans get and i'm pretty sure it's no coinsidence.

so i sent him a friend request on snapchat but it still pending..

ive been thinking about confronting him on snapchat like saying "i know your'e gay" but I KNOW thats a shitty idea because hes one of the most popular kids at school, he gets so many girls and stuff but Im pretty sure he's bi at least.

my question is.. should i keep what im doing and maybe it'll go farther than that who knows.. should i make it more obvious that im attracted to him (crotch stare etc - eyes stare) or should i confront him in snapchat?

thank you for who ever is reading htis and helps out!!

:):):)

[kylem1229]

Man, this is a hard thing right here. Hes popular, and he gets a lot of girls. But there is also a chance he is gay. Its really hard for me to try and help in this situation, but ill try.

Just keep playing it like you do for now for a little bit. Then, this might be a bad idea, but try and find a time to ask him if he is bi or not. Its really one of the only things you can do. (Im probably overthinking a lot of simpler ideas, which I cant think of at this moment)

[Living For Love]

It's a good idea to atart a conversation with him in Snapchat. Just ask him how is he doing, his hobbies, etc, and try make him tell you his sexuality, but don't ask him directly. At school, instead of only stare at eacohter, you could say "Hi!", it will make him more confident.

[Joey.]

I say, to keep it going to see how far things get.
Who knows, he may actually have feelings for you.
Snapchat is a good idea.
Try to get onto the topic without being to forward.
Ask him about his relationship status maybe?
And make sure you emphasize your single :)