asking a guy out

[irogers707]

Okay,
This may not be a big problem for some people but it seems to be a big one for me. How do I go about asking a guy out? I know the whole "be confident" cliche but it never seems to work. The closest to a real date I have been on was me making dinner for a guy. He liked it but after that we never really talked again. So, fellow gay guys, please help me!! How do I get a guy to keep going out with me?

[johnsmith2]

I'd say the whole cliché of just being you would be more important. Just be open, honest and say it.

[irogers707]

I'd say the whole cliché of just being you would be more important. Just be open, honest and say it.

In not really an interesting person. Plus I hate bragging about myself. I'm just a quiet person.

[johnsmith2]

In not really an interesting person. Plus I hate bragging about myself. I'm just a quiet person.

There's nothing wrong in being quiet. You would be amazed that people will like you for just being you.

[irogers707]

There's nothing wrong in being quiet. You would be amazed that people will like you for just being you.

It's just painful how awkward I am. I mean if I really just said what I like to do it would go like this

Guy: so what do you like to do?
Me: ummm...jack off, and watch Netflix

You can see where that would be weird lol

[Living For Love]

Pretend you're talking to someone you know very well, the other person may also be in the same situation as you.