Finally happened

[kylem]

It finally happened, I was into a intense j/o session and finally came when my younger bro came into my room. He saw me as I just finished squirting and wanted to know what was happening. He's 10 and he doesn't know about masturbation. So I explained to him what I was doing and he was kinda freaked out about it. He walked out of my room and that was that. So do I talk to him more about it and show him, help him and get him to try it? I don't know what I should do after he seen me doing it. I also told him not to tell anyone but not to sure if he'll keep a secret.:what:

[MatthewC]

you might want to explain a little more to him because it was your first time cumming so he might go tell his friends or it might slip out to your parents

[Kameraden]

I'd go back and clear it up with him again.

[Drewtsit]

don't worry too much about it..soon, he'll be doing it as well...

[nklarke]

It's the first time you came or first time that your brother see you?

I think you can explain to him, but nothing more. When he'll be ready, he'll be the first asking you.

[FameMonster]

Sounds like you already explained to him what you could. Don't push it, especially on a 10 y/o. Just give him the basics; explain to him what you were doing is normal for boys when they hit a certain point in puberty and make yourself available if he has any questions now or later on as he gets older.

This is probably a good point to have a talk with him about knocking before entering your room.

[ksdnfkfr]

It finally happened, I was into a intense j/o session and finally came when my younger bro came into my room. He saw me as I just finished squirting and wanted to know what was happening.

Why wasn't he taught to knock?

He's 10 and he doesn't know about masturbation. So I explained to him what I was doing and he was kinda freaked out about it. He walked out of my room and that was that.

Exactly, that was that.


So do I talk to him more about it and show him, help him and get him to try it? I don't know what I should do after he seen me doing it. I also told him not to tell anyone but not to sure if he'll keep a secret.:what:

No you should not start masturbating with a 10 year old under any circumstances. Just let it go.

[Second Chance]

Just so I understand what happened, was this your first ejaculation ever, or was this the first time someone walked in on you jacking off?

I agree with the poster above that you definitely should not be jacking off with your ten year old brother because that will lead to all sorts of problems. You can talk to him about puberty, but don't introduce him to sexuality because that is way too young. I would think your brother is a fifth or sixth grader at most, and that is way too young to be introduced to sexuality. The problem is kids that age if introduced to sexuality too young will become addicted to it without understanding anything about self control or responsibility when it comes to sexuality. Face it; a grade schooler just doesn't have the same decision making capacity as a teenager when it comes to sexuality.

If you want a jerking buddy, then find someone your own age and not your brother. The problem is that hormones will make you do a lot of stupid stuff, and you could really mess up your brother especially since you're older and he probably looks up to you. He might just agree to jacking off with you just to fit in without realizing what he is doing or making an informed decision. Keep your explanation to him rated G, and when he turns 12/13, then you can go into detail. Sexuality and family members never mix period.

[Barney Stinson]

Every guy masturbates, just explain that to him, tell him that you are available if he has any questions about puberty, and you should be fine!

[kylem]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

[Hermes]

He is obviously too young to understand. To someone prepubescent it must seems a little strange, Why would you play with your cock so your sperm squirts out? Aren't you supposed to put it in a girl when you want a baby?

You can explain that you get horny, that it fells like you need to do it, that it is fun and that cumming feels amazing but until he gets horny himself I don't think he'll get it.

For now, all you can do is convince him that it is something older guys do that is natural and common but also something private so not the sort of thing to bring up while eating dinner.

[Second Chance]

You also might want to bring up the issue of privacy and the importance of knocking on doors before going in. Your brother is going to be curious for a while which is why you should answers his questions but discourage him from getting sexual until he's older.

[ksdnfkfr]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

It was the part where you wrote, "show him, help him and get him to try it?"
that concerned me. Usually boys get "the talk" when they are about 12. I mean did you need those kinds of instructions when you were only 10? I wouldn't bring it up again in the meantime unless I had to, and then say something like it is a private thing teenagers do... and knock before coming in from now on.

[Stuey1]

Don't tell him how to do it etc.., and why he's too young

[Thomas01]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.


It's normal to want to tell your brother all the facts, but as the others have said, he is too young. Like he knows that you do it, and if a question comes up, then he will ask if he wants.

In regards to him not telling people, there really isn't much you can do to avoid it besides telling him that it's something to do in private and alone. Just say it's your own business.

[Blablabla36489]

I think he doesn't know (as many other kids) that keeping it as a secret means something to you. You should ignore that and don't go back to that topic. :)

[Throwaway24]

I would talk to him about it and do what ever you feel u can do. If you want to wake with him then go for it but if not don't. U need to tell him it is normal and that he will do it soon. As his big bro it is ur role. better u then a random friend

[volleyball172]

if he wants to know more or ask for help i think he will. id probably just leave it alone and not pressure him into it. then he might tell someone.

[johnsmith2]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

That sounds good. I wish I had it explained to me when I was younger (I was an early bloomer and could cum at 10, and didn't know what I was doing). Sitting down and talking with him, might calm his nerves a bit

[sqishy]

Sounds like you already explained to him what you could. Don't push it, especially on a 10 y/o. Just give him the basics; explain to him what you were doing is normal for boys when they hit a certain point in puberty and make yourself available if he has any questions now or later on as he gets older.

This is probably a good point to have a talk with him about knocking before entering your room.

Yep. He'll be into it in about 2 years anyways :P.

[Josh from SoCal]

OK, more or less the consensus is to not get into it too much with him. If this was really recent and it seems he is still kinda thinking about it, just take him aside privately and tell him it is a teenager thing and that it's private. Moms and dads know about it and are OK with it but it's not something he will even really understand until he is a little older. And yea, be sure he knows you are there to answer questions at any time, no matter whether it's now or later on. You will always be there to honestly answer his questions and that you would NEVER do anything to embarrass him or make him feel bad about stuff like that. So, when he starts to mature some, he knows he can talk to you comfortably about stuff. At this point, you don't want to freak him out, scare him, or encourage him to do anything. And mostly, you want him to know he can trust you implicitly on this subject.

[riverboy]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

This is what I would do.

[jaysmith]

Just tell him its normal and everyone does it! but its something people keep to theirselves and they dont tell others that they do it!

and say that if he wants to know more to come and ask you!

[sdude]

Let him come to you if he wants to ask...and just explain the basics, that every guy does it but half of his friends will lie and say they don't...but they do!

[Hermes]

You also might want to bring up the issue of privacy and the importance of knocking on doors before going in. Your brother is going to be curious for a while which is why you should answers his questions but discourage him from getting sexual until he's older.

One way or another you should definitely have a convention for private time. Whether that is using a lock, knocking on a closed door and waiting to be invited in, using a closed door to mean "private time" and one that is open or not quite closed to mean "available" or just certain times being private.

Of course private does not necessarily mean secretive and it is between the two of you (and anyone else who may walk in) what is normal and confortable. If you don't want any more walking in on you then you can reasonably ask for private time, talk about how people will know and also that you'll be angry if that is ignored.

On the other hand if it doesn't bother you to get walked in on you should still adopt a convention so people are forewarned. That way if someone choses to ignore the signs, gets an eye full and is offended by it they only have themselves to blame.

[ComfortableInChaos]

Yeah, I'd just tell him that a lot of guys do it when they're about your age and that it's just a part of life and that it's just what guys do. Just make sure everything's clear and he understands.

[wirelessbrain]

Congratulation, you just corrupted his innocence, but his gonna have it know it the hard way in the future anyway so might as well as corrupt him now

[fast8]

Yea i would talk to him more about it so he would understand its ok

[nklarke]

Congratulation, you just corrupted his innocence, but his gonna have it know it the hard way in the future anyway so might as well as corrupt him now

Corrupted his innocence :P

[hockeyfan]

I'd go back and clear it up with him again.

Ya, clear the air

[Catholic Guy]

What you should do is just be normal and then if he asks anything you can tell him or demonstrate, you don't need to do anything without him asking otherwise he could feel uncomfortable and he is still young so I'm sure if he wants to he will ask, you could just tell him that if he needs to talk to you or wants to ask you anything then you are always free to talk to him

[Zakky Boy]

Maybe just ask him if he has any questions. If he doesn't, just leave it, he'll be doing it soon enough later on and figure out for himsefl

[Michael_6]

I would do exactly what u said in ur original post and eventually he would understand and want to have some fun with u

[shinodas]

hey kyle, do you know the tv show roseanne? its this old tv show i LOVE and i watched it as a kid, and i still re-watch some episodes and i remember in one episode, Dan explains DJ (his son) a little bit about masturbation, you can check the episode on youtube just search "Roseanne Homeward Bound"
or if you search "Dan Explains Masturbation To Dj" you get just that part, though the whole thing is funny!

SO yeah, I would definitely mention that people DONT talk about it, even though others are aware of it

[Catholic Guy]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

That all seems like a good idea, but I think you should tell him what you were doing and then just say if he's got any questions that he can always talk to you and other than that just leave it

[JIntrepid]

lol man there's like no secret to keep. all guys do it lol

[thatboykevin]

hes too young to know

[From Chris]

It finally happened, I was into a intense j/o session and finally came when my younger bro came into my room. He saw me as I just finished squirting and wanted to know what was happening. He's 10 and he doesn't know about masturbation. So I explained to him what I was doing and he was kinda freaked out about it. He walked out of my room and that was that. So do I talk to him more about it and show him, help him and get him to try it? I don't know what I should do after he seen me doing it. I also told him not to tell anyone but not to sure if he'll keep a secret.:what:

I would explain to him why you do it and and why he shouldn't tell people like your parents that you do it, unless of course you want them to know! He's just curious~ :)

-From Chris

[JoeB93772]

That's what I figured I would do because I really wasn't into actually doing it with him and showing him. Like I masturbate lots but this is the first time he caught me doing it, and cumming at the same time. What I'll probably do is just explain to him what I was doing and that it's just a part of growing up. I can tell him it's something most guys do and it's totally normal and if he wants to try it when he's ready its cool. I just won't actually do it with him, but explain what it's all about and how to do it. I kind of would prefer explaining masturbation to him because i'm his older bro rather then some random friend and thanks for your help.

the same exact thing happend to me but with an older cousin and he just walked out of the room like nothing happend so i ran out and told him not to tell anyone and he already knew what it was and to this day its still a secret

[KoolKid96]

Probably after explaining then I would get to know how he feels about what he just saw. Like at least to make sure nothing is harmed, then tell him you'd understand in a year or two

[ausley]

Just tell him its not something to talk about at the dinner table and its personal then just leave it at that. Hell understand himself once he grows older and finds about it in his own way. I mean unless your relationship with eachother is close enough for easy awkward conversation. :)

[Gabrieel]

But he can't cum at this age... right? I think you should talk to him try in two or three years.

[Ozymandias]

Kyle,

I think none of us here can understand the sensitivity and impact of this matter better than you. Hence, instead of advising you on what to say to your brother, I suggest you put yourself in his place and think about what sort of response from your elder brother (you caught playing with this willy) can really fix this.

Good luck.