View Full Version : My boyfriend is gonna flip...
AmyPeak
October 23rd, 2013, 12:56 PM
So I've been with my boyfriend (He's 16 - I'm 15) for about 3 months now now and around 2 weeks ago me, my boyfriend and his best friend (He's 16) got drunk at my boyfriends house. On that night my boyfriend fell asleep and I was absolutely wasted (drunk), what his bestfriend ended up doing is fucking my brains out all night in his bed whilst my boyfriend was asleep downstairs. Every day after school since them my boyfriends bestfriend has ordered me to come to his house to let him fuck me or he'll tell my boyfriend what happened and ive just got back from his house.. Yeah my pussy is killing me.. Aswell as my legs and I've left my underwear there... If your wonsering how II didn't realise id left them is cos I carry an extra pair with me and I put them on instead... The bad news is my boyfriend is going there tonight and he will know it's my underwear... What do I do?!
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Miserabilia
October 23rd, 2013, 01:33 PM
wow that is totaly ridicioulous if he's blackmailing you for sex.
Tell someone, even if your bf finds out thats just crazy
Abyssal Echo
October 23rd, 2013, 02:05 PM
I agree with Cheesee that him blackmailing you for sex is ridicioulous. I don't know what the age of consent is where you live not that it matters because you were drunk and could not consent. in my opinion its him that needs to worry if you are going to tell someone. Personally I would talk to your parents about it. and tell your bf what happened.
Camazotz
October 23rd, 2013, 02:38 PM
Tell your boyfriend what happened. Technically this is a rape case, both the first time (you were drunk) and every time after he pressured you through blackmail. If you're not comfortable going to the authorities, you have to tell somebody.
1_21Guns
October 23rd, 2013, 02:41 PM
I agree with the others, you're 15 so technically still a minor and below the legal age. Things in the law are a little hazy around that area but no matter what you're not old enough to consent so as Mattie said he should be the worried one not you. Come clean, just tell your boyfriend believe me it's not worth it, I know him finding out probably seems like the worst thing in the world but it's not, not compared to what it'll do to your life if you either let this continue or he doesn't hear it from you first.
Living For Love
October 23rd, 2013, 02:51 PM
Tell your bf what happened that night, you were all drunk and it was an accident, and tell him what his best friend is doing to you. You two need to do something about it, and back off for a while from that sex starved idiot.
Bellissimo
October 23rd, 2013, 03:52 PM
Why does everyone have a problem with the boy and not with the topicstarter?
You are 15 and allready `waisted''? THe way you tell it using terms as `fuck your brains out'' seems to me you dont make a huge problem of it.
And why don`t you just tell him that you fucked his friend and that he is blackmailing you? Probably because you know he will end things with you.. I think that`s kinda sad,but that`s just my opinion.
sqishy
October 23rd, 2013, 04:43 PM
I agree with the others, you're 15 so technically still a minor and below the legal age. Things in the law are a little hazy around that area but no matter what you're not old enough to consent so as Mattie said he should be the worried one not you. Come clean, just tell your boyfriend believe me it's not worth it, I know him finding out probably seems like the worst thing in the world but it's not, not compared to what it'll do to your life if you either let this continue or he doesn't hear it from you first.
This ^.
irogers707
October 24th, 2013, 03:36 PM
I'm just gonna put this bluntly... You got raped. Call the cops
Luminous
October 24th, 2013, 03:45 PM
Tell your boyfriend honestly. If he's a good boyfriend he'll understand. The phrase 'my boyfriend is gonna flip' worries me that you're not in a good relationship since you sound scared and like you don't trust your boyfriend.. If you want to call the police you can, both of you were drunk the first time so I'm not sure how that would go over, but the blackmailing part afterwards could get him into trouble.
johnsmith2
October 24th, 2013, 04:38 PM
Tell your boyfriend. If he's good, he'll stand by you. He may leave you. Either way this will all come out. What his friend is doing to you is wrong, and he will continue to take advantage for as long as he can.
NeverFazed
October 24th, 2013, 04:47 PM
you've been going out with him 3 months, whos gives a fuck!!.He's just one of many boyfriends ..its Definitely not worth being Blackmailed for sex..in a way its almost Rape.
Waleedbt
October 24th, 2013, 05:34 PM
You should tell him, i mean its your guys fault for getting drunk, and then he took the oppurtunity, and honestly you should leave him anyways, trust me if thats how his best friend acts. Well ... Its not a good sign to be with some who is friends with such people.
This is coming from a guy whos best friends with someone for 15, nearly 16 years of friendship, i chose right lol , we also act the same. Point is, hes probably like him.
Amazerful
October 24th, 2013, 05:55 PM
Blackmailing you for sex was wrong, you could've just told him the truth right after and avoided all this
CharlieHorse
October 24th, 2013, 06:49 PM
Tell your parents, or another trusted adult like a teacher or something.
Maybe get the police involved, as your bf's friend is a scum bastard for taking advantage of you and should be put behind bars.
kylem
October 24th, 2013, 06:50 PM
Dump the loser! If he's doing stuff like blackmailing you because of what happened, he could do worse stuff later to you. Not what I would call a good boyfriend.:confused:
CharlieHorse
October 24th, 2013, 06:52 PM
Dump the loser! If he's doing stuff like blackmailing you because of what happened, he could do worse stuff later to you. Not what I would call a good boyfriend.:confused:
it's not the bf that's doing that. It's the bf's friend.
EpicTaco
October 24th, 2013, 06:58 PM
I'm not sure at this point, but you should have told him the day after it happened. Don't go on like this, it's never worth it and he WILL find out eventually.
kylem
October 24th, 2013, 07:00 PM
it's not the bf that's doing that. It's the bf's friend.
Sorry, I totally messed that up. Then the friends a total loser and your boyfriend should beat the shit out of him for taking advantage and blackmailing you. That's what I would do even if he was a good friend. Then I would dump him as a friend.
badthoughts
October 24th, 2013, 10:51 PM
Why does everyone have a problem with the boy and not with the topic starter?
^^^Most sensible post in this thread.
There is no rape here. Not even borderline. This girl is just making some horrible decisions.
First, she spent all night "getting [her] brains fucked out" by another guy while her boyfriend was in the same house. She could have been cuddled up beside her bf, but instead she chose to "get wasted" then she proceeded to have sex with someone else.
Second, she is choosing to open her legs everyday for this guy who isn't her boyfriend. No one is making her. She is choosing to do it, everyday. Granted, she is choosing it because she dreads the thought of her bf knowing that she's screwing some other guy, which started in her bf's own bed of all places, but still she is choosing.
There is no gun to her head, no knife to her throat, no force of any kind; it's just her saying "ok, I'll keep having sex with this guy so he doesn't tell my boyfriend." That is the lamest excuse for being an unfaithful, cheating girlfriend that I have ever heard.
I don't feel sorry for her one bit. Here's my advice for the little lady:
First, fucking grow a pair and own up to your actions. Quit being a pussy about it and tell your bf you cheated on him. I'd leave out the part about doing it in his bed, though.
Second, tell the dude your screwing that he can fuck off. Something tells me that you like it, though, and my million-dollar guess is that you're going to keep letting him hit it.
Third, and this one is my best advice to you, keep your legs shut.
Bellissimo
October 25th, 2013, 03:50 AM
^^^Most sensible post in this thread.
There is no rape here. Not even borderline. This girl is just making some horrible decisions.
First, she spent all night "getting [her] brains fucked out" by another guy while her boyfriend was in the same house. She could have been cuddled up beside her bf, but instead she chose to "get wasted" then she proceeded to have sex with someone else.
Second, she is choosing to open her legs everyday for this guy who isn't her boyfriend. No one is making her. She is choosing to do it, everyday. Granted, she is choosing it because she dreads the thought of her bf knowing that she's screwing some other guy, which started in her bf's own bed of all places, but still she is choosing.
There is no gun to her head, no knife to her throat, no force of any kind; it's just her saying "ok, I'll keep having sex with this guy so he doesn't tell my boyfriend." That is the lamest excuse for being an unfaithful, cheating girlfriend that I have ever heard.
I don't feel sorry for her one bit. Here's my advice for the little lady:
First, fucking grow a pair and own up to your actions. Quit being a pussy about it and tell your bf you cheated on him. I'd leave out the part about doing it in his bed, though.
Second, tell the dude your screwing that he can fuck off. Something tells me that you like it, though, and my million-dollar guess is that you're going to keep letting him hit it.
Third, and this one is my best advice to you, keep your legs shut.
Indeed.
I really don't understand everyone here all support the TS.
You know what? Your boyfriend deserve a lot better then you. You are just an ordinary slut who choose the easy way by fucking him everyday and don't tell your boyfriend. Disguisting.
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