wonderingmind
October 23rd, 2013, 01:38 AM
i was with my ex for 6 years. we broke up just last year. i tried my heart out to get him to see who i really was. instead he said he wanted a girl with money. so the girl mother gave her up to him for a responsibility until she deploy. her mom paid him to take care of her and everybody at my college and around the city knew the deal. she basically paid him with sex and money to make the relationship seem real so she can stay. the girl just turned 19 my ex is about to be 23. from november until now, nothing has changed. his life has gotten worser. i remember calling and texting everyday to try and fix things because i cared and i had to put up with so much drama with disrespect. he use to talk about me and disrespect me so poorly over the phone because she had money. everywhere he went to the girl was beside him, the only space he had was in the bathroom and she came in there also. she can't drive so as time went on including today, she get sex from him and he take her around as exchange. it became a strain on him. so i left him alone after he begged me to leave him alone and stop texting him. i felt pretty bad because i felt like i should have been the girl who spent time around him 24/7 attached to him like she was. she bought him the new game such as the gta5, black op, she buys him clothes, pay his bills with rent, and she nearly spend her whole check on him. when i started talking to other guys, he later found out. he went crazy. he left me for a girl for a living situation. i asked him was it worth it, he said no. the girl spent money on him and went everywhere she could have went with him. everywhere you see him, you see her. he couldnt hang out with his friends anymore. everything was a hault for him in life when she moved in. she started drama and he defended me, and all she ever talked about was sex to me and how good she can make him feel. last year she was not drinking nor smoking, now she smoking and drinking. she smoke just because he smoking. during the relationship, i tried like hell and i kept getting dissappointments. he told me that she was a mistake and a lesson learned and he needed space. he also said he could not have 2 attached people at that time. she stay around him all day, she dont even visit her family. all they do is sit at the house. she constantly taken pictures of him and her especially him. one picture she took was when he was sleeping in bed. the rest of the pictures she taken was before they exit the house to go to an event. before they go to the movies they have to take a picture. before they go out to eat, they have to ttake a picture. when hes cooking, she have to take a picture of him. when hes praying he have to take a picture, when they go other places;before they walk out the door she have to take a picture and upload it to the internet. he made her look completely crazy and single. he showed me her page and an estimate of pictures she has is over 90. the only space he had was at work. i couldnt call him nor text him because she checked his phone so much. so he facebook'd his family.she knew if we talked or what we talked about without even listening. everywhere i hope she be alone, she was there. he didnt even hang around his friends alone anymore. when he goes to work he have to take her to work and pick her up. she even work the same shift he do.