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Castle of Glass
October 22nd, 2013, 08:25 PM
Sooo.... some of you may or may not know that on friday i let it slip to one of my wrestling teammates(lets call him Mark) that i self harm. But yesterday i made a mistake, and today i had to get it wrapped up to hide it and protect against infections. so i asked mark to wrap my arms up, BUT Mark's friend(lets call him bill) followed us to our coach's office to wrap him up. and he didn't leave though we both asked him to. Soooo, Bill ended up seeing it and now he knows about my SH also. Fuck my life. 2 people know. i wanted to keep that number at zero.

EpicTaco
October 22nd, 2013, 08:43 PM
excuse my ignorance, but what is a SH? Nonetheless, the trick is to keep them isolated. Make sure they both don't talk. To stop others from knowing, you have to be forceful, even if it means being a dick about it. If it makes you feel this way, be stern on it. Force him out if you have to.

Castle of Glass
October 22nd, 2013, 08:52 PM
excuse my ignorance, but what is a SH? Nonetheless, the trick is to keep them isolated. Make sure they both don't talk. To stop others from knowing, you have to be forceful, even if it means being a dick about it. If it makes you feel this way, be stern on it. Force him out if you have to.

reread it. Oh i could force him out, but then he would see. as i has hiding my arm under my work out clothes. TBH, he would have found out either way. but oh well. atleast he can wrap it well.

EpicTaco
October 22nd, 2013, 08:57 PM
reread it. Oh i could force him out, but then he would see. as i has hiding my arm under my work out clothes. TBH, he would have found out either way. but oh well. atleast he can wrap it well.

Okay, I'm not really understanding this, what is a SH?

Castle of Glass
October 22nd, 2013, 09:00 PM
Okay, I'm not really understanding this, what is a SH?

self harm...... Self injury. cutting.

Mynick
October 23rd, 2013, 07:59 AM
Uhm, talk with them, but not when they are together. You need to make sure they won't tell anyone. It's a scary situation i know, but i belive you can manage it.

sqishy
October 23rd, 2013, 04:10 PM
Uhm, talk with them, but not when they are together. You need to make sure they won't tell anyone. It's a scary situation i know, but i belive you can manage it.

Good advice.

EpicTaco
October 23rd, 2013, 04:19 PM
Ah, I understand SH and why people do it. I don't think people who do it are inferior in any way.

Castle of Glass
October 23rd, 2013, 07:22 PM
Soo, just an update. asked both of them not to tell, and they both said that they won't, unless i try to kill myself.

Katiya
October 23rd, 2013, 07:51 PM
That sounds fair enough.

Mynick
October 24th, 2013, 06:12 AM
Fair deal i would say.

sqishy
October 24th, 2013, 04:47 PM
Soo, just an update. asked both of them not to tell, and they both said that they won't, unless i try to kill myself.

Situation stabilised, hopefully :)