Homecoming need help!

[Extreme586]

So my school sort of has this weird trend going where girls are suddenly asking guys out to homecoming. I received a note at the end of today and got asked by a girl. I sort of know her but not really and she's pretty and everything. It's just that I'm gay and have never even gone to a homecoming before or prom before.

Haven't answered yet but plan to tomorrow since I got it as a note at the end of the day. Please help, what should I do? I don't want to hurt feelings and plan on saying yes but I so dreeeeeead going. It's in a week. #stressed

[Biscuithead13]

Go ahead and go! Im gay but had a fun time taking a girl, I actually asked her out! You only live once so I so just go and enjoy yourself and have fun! You can still be good friends, I took one of my best friends!

[Alex_3869]

What I've learned on here is to never do what you are not comfortable with. If you are uncomfortable with it, don't do it.
However, it could be a blast. I'm not going to homecoming, but it would be fun to go with someone and hang out and have fun, just if you do go, don't let her make you uncomfortable and don't do anything out of your comfort zone if you don't want to.

[Extreme586]

I'll admit I'm really uncomfortable, but at the same time if it could make someone else happy even though it means nothing to me, why not? It's just scary because I'm so awkward with everyone anymore at my school and suddenly seeing everyone at a dance might make me depressed or w/e. But if I go it will be to make her night because after all she asked me so I don't want to be a jerk. Oh well, guess I'll just bite the bullet.

[steellord321]

I think it's not uncommon for even openly gay guys to take girls to dances. That way they can have a good time if there's no guy to go with. Of course, since she doesn't know this about you she may expect intimacy. Or she might not. Just be prepared for a few outcomes if you say yes.

[Living For Love]

When a boy and a girl go to the homecoming it doesn't necessarily mean they are a couple, right? Just go, have a good time with her, you'll make her happy, so that's fine, just don't act like you're not minimally interested in her, you need to make sure she is confortable with you, and at the end you will gain her trust and could be good friends.

[satarra3180]

You should definitely go. I had a couple friends who were gay who went and had the best time because they did not have to worry about impressing any girls. You'll be happy you went.

[habbohop]

So my school sort of has this weird trend going where girls are suddenly asking guys out to homecoming. I received a note at the end of today and got asked by a girl. I sort of know her but not really and she's pretty and everything. It's just that I'm gay and have never even gone to a homecoming before or prom before.

Haven't answered yet but plan to tomorrow since I got it as a note at the end of the day. Please help, what should I do? I don't want to hurt feelings and plan on saying yes but I so dreeeeeead going. It's in a week. #stressed

Go to it with her! Go enjoy yourself at homecoming, you can just go as friends, and if she does try anything just tell her you only think of her as a friend!