Help, what to do in this situation?

[BannedDPS]

Before I start, I just wanna say I don't feel I'm rushing myself.

So I'm 16, always been single, and always have wanted to be in a relationship. I've tried with everyone I've had a crush on (Which is 6 people since freshman year, I'm a junior now) but I've been rejected from all of them. And lately all my friends have been getting into relationships, getting a yes when they ask someone to homecoming, etc. And I'm starting to feel like its my turn, but that's only part of the problem.

So I have this friend that I think I'm starting to like. I'm not sure if she likes me or not but lately she's been just a tiny bit on the flirtatious side (I think). But I know she likes one of my friends and I think he likes her. Another friend of mine talked him into asking her out but I'm not sure if he'll do it. I'm not sure what to do.

Then there's this freshman in my math class who I've caught looking at me multiple times, and one time I walked near her, and she fixed her hair. On another occassion I was passing out tests and when I got to her she seemed to get excited and nervous. Again, I'm not sure what to do.

Any advice for this? I'm pretty much lost and have no idea what I should do.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Build a friendship then proceed to ask her out if you like her and you feel she likes you.


on a side note, the reasons you have given us seem to be similar in standard to those given by 1 notorious poster in this one forum.

[Living For Love]

If you think the first girl likes another guy who also might like her, I would suggest not going too much further with that.
Try to start a conversation with the second girl, see if you have common interests, build a relationship with her and then ask her out, something simple, so that she doesn't feel unconfortable.

[highschool]

leave the first girl alone. there's a 90% chance she'll end up with the other guy

the second girl is a different case. If you like her( and don't just start liking her because she likes you) then pursue her and just flirt with her a little. she's a freshman and is probably really shy, so you'll have to take initiative