couples: who has stopped using condoms?

[Superman1215]

Hey everyone, so I'm just kind of curious to see what people think or what's kind of normal for couples to stop using condoms?

I've been with my g/f for just about a year, and the other day we did it without a condom for the first time; it was somewhat accidental, I explain in another thread.

Anyway, I've just been wondering if there are couples our age who have stopped using condoms? I'm 19, and my g/f is 16. We've always used one up until yesterday morning, and did it again without one last night. We both really liked it, so I'm assuming its going to be a normal thing now.

Just curious who else has come to this point with their g/f?

[Paladino]

If you aint going to be using condoms then make sure she is on some sort of contraception, most couples either have contraception or condoms.

[Amazerful]

Well thats not safe

[highschool]

atleast have her use b.c. if not, she might get pregnant, and when her parents find out, you might end up in jail

[kylem1229]

That would be the worst decision you can do. Condoms are the most effective besides not having anything. Pills and stuff like that dont always work.

If you still choose not to use condoms, be prepared to possibly have a baby. You will have to have a full time job and be able to support it.

[Camazotz]

Yeah, I got to that point when I dated my girlfriend. It goes against what everyone tells you, but the truth is, female birth control pills are over 99% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly, and we'd also use the withdrawal method, which is 96% effective when used correctly (which I did). We would also experiment with spermicides on occasion.

Now, I'm not going to encourage people to not use condoms. They're an excellent choice for protecting against STI's and pregnancy. If you're having sex with someone that you don't know very well or or who has prior sexual experience, using a condom is very much necessary. But they're not 100% effective, even when used correctly, so don't judge people if they choose a different method.

It was a personal decision between my ex-girlfriend and I, and it worked just fine for us. We wanted to educate ourselves first-hand about different methods and how to use them, and decided on our favorite combination.

[chrisawesome]

I've stopped using condoms but I usually do the vaginal pokes, :yeah: first so there is a less chance of ejaculating in her. I would recommend doing vaginal sex with the condom first, giving her an orgasm, take off the condom and then ending with a blow job or anal and ejaculating in or on other areas but the vagina.

"Sex is much better without latex, but you'd better be a pull out stud!"

[Cece14]

I agree with HIghSchool b.c is the way to go

[Jason98]

Hey everyone, so I'm just kind of curious to see what people think or what's kind of normal for couples to stop using condoms?

I've been with my g/f for just about a year, and the other day we did it without a condom for the first time; it was somewhat accidental, I explain in another thread.

Anyway, I've just been wondering if there are couples our age who have stopped using condoms? I'm 19, and my g/f is 16. We've always used one up until yesterday morning, and did it again without one last night. We both really liked it, so I'm assuming its going to be a normal thing now.

Just curious who else has come to this point with their g/f?

What type of bc you use is basically up to you and your partner and what your comfortable with.
Me personally, I pretty much go bare when im with a g/f.
Now if its just a hook up and I don't really know the person, then ill wear a condom.

[Superman1215]

atleast have her use b.c. if not, she might get pregnant, and when her parents find out, you might end up in jail


Oh she's on birth control. Her periods were super painful for her, so her doctor has her on the highest dose of whatever it is that she takes.

We are being safe, absolutely. I've been tested, and I'm clean for everything. We also have the Plan B thing if we need it.

[Superman1215]

What type of bc you use is basically up to you and your partner and what your comfortable with.
Me personally, I only went bare on a regular basis with an ex gf. We both decided to go that route cuz she was on the pill and we were both really into each other.
That being said, currently unless I know the person Im fucking really well and I know shes clean and on the pill,,,I wear a condom But I much prefer going with out a condom.



This is basically the situation here; we're super exclusive, and just crazy in love with each other. She actually likes it, its become a turn-on for her which is cool by me haha