Younger Brother

[Ricky.h]

So my younger brother (14) us sexually active, he was caught once, and got in trouble so our parents forbid him for doing it, but of course he does it anyway.
I loan him money when he needs to buy condoms
And cover for him, so he doesn't get caught

So my question is
Is anyone else like that for their younger brothers?
What are your thoughts ?

[airjordan97]

I think it's fine. A brotherly bond is something that can never be broken. You are the older brother and you are his romodel, if you are sexually active, he will want to also. But if you aren't and he is idk then. I think what you are doing isn't bad, I have a brother too who isn't sexually active (I know that for a fact). What I'm getting at is you an awesome brother and going out of your way to keep him safe from std's. :)

[theatreguy]

I don't have a brother at all, but I think if I had a younger bro, I would cover for him.

But then I may not have to, because my mom is really cool and awesome about things like that.

[Swagging god]

If my younger brother ( 18) wants to start having sex I'll cover for him and he can use my house to do it....I'll even buy him condoms.......I'd be proud if he would ask me to help him loose his virginity and cover for him........what u r doing is great glad u have that bond

[PinkFloyd]

Yeah, if my little brother who's turning 14 in a few months started to have sex, I would insist on buying condoms for him because of how important it is.

[slicnick844]

Wish I had an older brother like you just remember he looks up to you.

[Beemo]

I think it's fine. A brotherly bond is something that can never be broken. You are the older brother and you are his romodel, if you are sexually active, he will want to also. But if you aren't and he is idk then. I think what you are doing isn't bad, I have a brother too who isn't sexually active (I know that for a fact). What I'm getting at is you an awesome brother and going out of your way to keep him safe from std's. :)
Exactly

[Jay98]

Thats awesome! Thats what a big brother is supposed to do. If my younger bro was getting ass id hook him up with rubbers so he can SAFELY get laid. Your a good big brother!

[Yolo2000]

I'd honestly advise my younger brother ( if I had one) not to have sex at that age. I've got morals for that type of stuff. There's too many risks besides

[Second Chance]

Since your parents made it pretty clear that they don't want your brother to be having sex, then I don't think it is a great idea that you are covering for him. It is one thing if your parents didn't care about you guys having sex because in that case getting him condoms is a good idea so that he doesn't have problems. But, because your parents have made a decision you have to support them.

Once you guys turn 18 and are on your own supporting yourselves, then you all can have sex with whoever you want. Since your parents are responsible for you guys totally, then its not fair to them for you all to have sex and possibly have issues. What I mean is that if your brother knocks up a girl (assuming he's straight), then chances are you'll be doing some babysitting sooner rather than later. If your brother messes up, then its a family problem especially since he's only 14 and doesn't have the ability to deal with the consequences of having sex.

You're in a tough position because on one side your brother trust you, but on the other he is basically using you for rubbers and to get him out of trouble. If he really gets into trouble and you knew about it at a point when your parents could have done something, then a lot of blame is going to fall on you. The basic point is that at 14 most guys will plug into anything and probably are not the most responsible with birth control meaning that there could be trouble especially if your brother goes from person to person.

[Nick M]

I wouldn't cover for him like that... It's great that you guys have that kind of bond, but he's way too young to be sexually active. There are way too many consequences. What if something goes wrong and he gets a girl pregnant? Do you know what kind of guilt you would feel?

[TommyTom]

I think thats fine :) I dont have a younger brother so i cant say anything about that tho :P

[Throwaway24]

At lease he is being safe. I think it's cool and will help him the long run

[johnsmith2]

It's good that you're looking out for him like that

[kylem1229]

I would buy probably buy condoms for him. Im not sure about revealing or not though. I would probably keep it to myself, but wouldnt cover up for him

[Beemo]

I think it's fine. A brotherly bond is something that can never be broken. You are the older brother and you are his romodel, if you are sexually active, he will want to also. But if you aren't and he is idk then. I think what you are doing isn't bad, I have a brother too who isn't sexually active (I know that for a fact). What I'm getting at is you an awesome brother and going out of your way to keep him safe from std's. :) same here

[darthearth]

I would do the same for my brother. I think that's great of you.

[Josh from SoCal]

Wow. Ummm, well, first yea, it's great that you are providing him with condoms. (Hopefully he's using them and not bypassing them at the moment of decision.) I have an older brother who is at college now but if I had wanted condoms and didn't have them, he would have gotten them for me. Of course he would have lectured me worse than my parents but he wouldn't rat me out.

If I was in your position, I'd be sure he had condoms, make him swear eye to eye that he is and will use them, then tell him that I wouldn't run to tell our parents. BUT.... if they asked me directly if he was having sex, I'd tell him I wouldn't lie to them about it.

I agree with several others that at 14, his dick works fine but his brain not so much. And if he gets a girl pregnant, he will NOT be in ANY position to deal with the consequences regardless of what path is taken. The problem very well could be a colossal problem for two families and a future-destroyer for him and his girl.

[ComfortableInChaos]

Yeah, I would do it for him. At least he's not getting a girl pregnant. It'd be worse for him to have a girl pregnant when he's 14 than have your parents ground him for two weeks.

[nklarke]

Well, it's a very difficult question. You're between 2 walls, your parents and your brother.

I think that 1 thing is like your brother want to have some experimentation, have sex a few times to see how it's, etc but being sexual active, having sex several times per week is very different. The % of getting his girlfriend pregnant are quit high even with condoms (the condom could break, also he could get HIV/AID with oral sex, etc) and if something happens for sure your parents will know you helped him.

So, I think you should talk to your brother and maybe j/o with him more often so he doesn't have many energies left to have sex outside.

[hockeyfan]

I don't have a little bro; but I don't see any red flags. Get him to pay u back. Do NOT blackmail him.

[Alexwellace]

I think what your doing is great, its exactly what my brother did for me. I am 14 and sexually active, and while my parents haven't found out, I doubt they'd overly approve. But my Brother knows and covers for me when I sleep over at hers, saying that I am over at his house (He moved out, he is 21). Not only that, but for my Birthday (He found out about me and her the day before) he bought me a whole basket of condoms, lube and 'pleasure enhancer' as a joke. Not sure why he thought I'd need pleasure enhancer (Isn't that just Viagra? Hadn't used any Aha) though.

I have a close relationship with my brother and am really thankful for what he's doing (He's only making up for the times I've hidden his Fags and 'Lady magazines' he left under his pillow on cleaning day...) and while I would have every intension to use condoms, I'm not sure I'd trust myself to get them if I was drunk and didn't have any to hand. So what your doing is fine as long as your OK with it, but your still not as good as my brother. He lets me and my GF use his Jaccuzzi :P

[riverboy]

I think thats fine :) I dont have a younger brother so i cant say anything about that tho :P

same