I need an answer preferably female answer but i'll take whatever i can

[EncriptedTeenager]

Im in love with my girlfriend without no doubt in my mind... and i have sex with her but.. sometimes i have sexual dreams of other girls that i know "like as if my dreams tap into my memory of friends and gets creative making sexual sense that for some reason arouse me "when i remember them of course..." dose this mean i want to do sexual things with them instead of my girlfriend.?? "like i would never do anything with them if i had the opportunity because im loyal but i mean dose this mean... sex with my girlfriend is not enough?! like my mind when im turned on kicks into overdrive and starts setting my mind into thinking.. its okay to receive pictures of girls half naked or naked all together.. and i don't take it personally in the fact i'd fuck them but i mean its like the feeling of watching porn its arousing... do i need help??? :confused:

[johnsmith1]

There's nothing wrong in dreaming (or even thinking of) other girls when you're in a relationship (just don't tell her!). You only cross the line if you actively do something with another girl

[EncriptedTeenager]

i would never do anything with another girl in person i could not bear it, but its just the fact that i get super excited if a girl wants to be naughty over pictures and stuff.

[Berad]

Alot of guys think of sexual relations with another person, even married men. That's just how guys are in this day, extremely sexual oriented.
But as long as you're faithful to your significant other, I'd say you're fine. As far as pornography and such, same thing. I'm not saying it's good, but it's not bad. Does that make sense?

Oh and you probably shouldn't be flirting with other girls, receiving pictures, etc. That's considered cheating in most ways. It's not the same situation as pornography if you know the person.

[Forsakenbymyself]

i would never do anything with another girl in person i could not bear it, but its just the fact that i get super excited if a girl wants to be naughty over pictures and stuff.

Basically, dreams are the "place" where our Subconscious is free to express itself.
Basically, all the the information your brain stores (most of it, you don't even take notice of) is unleashed while the Conscious part of you is asleep.
In fact, even though you consciously do not desire sex with a girl other than your fiancee, your Subconscious sexual pulse still gets aroused and stores this arousement as data in your brain. Eventually, it comes out in the form of "dreams".

It's perfectly normal.