Noncutters don't get it.

[asbel_garcia123]

So many people that don't even cut tell me that it's not good to do that, that I should stop, like I'm trying to be a stupid little attention seeker. I'M SO FED UP WITH NONCUTTERS! They judge so much! Saying I cut for stupid reasons! Well SCREW them! Just freaking SCREW them! I'm sick of it and it doesn't make me feel ANY better! Does anyone agree with me????

[CharlieHorse]

I do not agree with you because you are saying that all non-cutters are like this.
I do not cut, but I recognize the pain and struggle that cutters have. I know the feelings behind the wounds. I don't judge cutters. I don't think they're attention whores.

[1_21Guns]

Yes, although I don't entirely agree with you. Like Charlie said not every person that doesn't cut doesn't get it, but self harm (like all addictions and such) is something where most people have to have been there to really get it. Peoples childish and unhelpful responses are just their reaction to not understanding because they're scared and they don't know how to respond.

[asbel_garcia123]

THANK YOU! Someone understands at least

[Luminous]

Don't make assumptions that every single non cutter is like that, full of hate. I have only cut once, and vowed to stop, so I consider myself a noncutter. I understand, and I am sympathetic, for people who cut. I know you are going through so much pain and hurt and trauma and everything else. Just because someone does not have the same experiences as you doesn't mean they can't understand and help. Everyone has gone through bad times, terrible times. Anyone who says you are cutting for stupid reasons is sadly misinformed about cutting and why people do it and even why it is fairly common. Do not judge everyone who does not cut based off of the maybe one or two or three people who says you are cutting for stupid reasons- they may even be trying to keep suspicion away from them because they cut too.

[asbel_garcia123]

Thank you so much. I'm sorry I judged so quickly. I just hate when people judge me like that so I made stupid assumptions that aren't true

[sqishy]

Don't make assumptions that every single non cutter is like that, full of hate. I have only cut once, and vowed to stop, so I consider myself a noncutter. I understand, and I am sympathetic, for people who cut. I know you are going through so much pain and hurt and trauma and everything else. Just because someone does not have the same experiences as you doesn't mean they can't understand and help. Everyone has gone through bad times, terrible times. Anyone who says you are cutting for stupid reasons is sadly misinformed about cutting and why people do it and even why it is fairly common. Do not judge everyone who does not cut based off of the maybe one or two or three people who says you are cutting for stupid reasons- they may even be trying to keep suspicion away from them because they cut too.

The same thoughts on this I have.

[Katiya]

I understand you but not every noncutter is like that. Many are but not all

[ksdnfkfr]

This is why it is best not let many people who have not experienced it in on it, because they are not likely to understand.