sick of being treated badly cause im bi!

[kangaroo]

I have recently come out as bi so now everyone at school and in my family knows. this isn't a problem, what is a problem is boys in school and friends who act as though its discusting to every do anything with another guy and then they come up and touch my penis or try and make me touch theirs.. one even kissed me the other day and I had no say in the matter. the only reason I didn't punch him was because he was a really nice guy and I think he is just fighting his true feelings too.. but it is as though because I like boys as well they can have me do whatever they want with me and I will just take it. has anyone else experienced this when they came out with boys thinking they could get bjs or hjs just because you like boys? thanks guys it is getting really annoying, not to the point where I need to tell my parents or anything but I feel it needs to stop now before it gets worse.

[Socketblaze]

I'm bi as well and where I from they act like You have some highly contagious disease or something if you're like that. Which is why I'm still in the closet! But no I don't think I'll have any of that happen to me anytime soon! Not in my town anyway

[Pizzahead]

Just let them know that just because your bi doensnt mean that want to do that stuff with Just anyone.

[johnsmith1]

I have recently come out as bi so now everyone at school and in my family knows. this isn't a problem, what is a problem is boys in school and friends who act as though its discusting to every do anything with another guy and then they come up and touch my penis or try and make me touch theirs.. one even kissed me the other day and I had no say in the matter. the only reason I didn't punch him was because he was a really nice guy and I think he is just fighting his true feelings too.. but it is as though because I like boys as well they can have me do whatever they want with me and I will just take it. has anyone else experienced this when they came out with boys thinking they could get bjs or hjs just because you like boys? thanks guys it is getting really annoying, not to the point where I need to tell my parents or anything but I feel it needs to stop now before it gets worse.

A lot of what they are doing is a form of intimidation. I have suffered a form of bullying (though more to do with my weight) so know the situation can't be fun. You may find that after a while it may level off after some of the idiots have "had a laugh" - Don't let them think it bothers you and most will give up after a while. For those that continue to pester you, treat it like any other form of bullying and report it.

[Ariesboy]

i seriously think those guys either want to bully you because they are dicks or because they are in the closet themselves. either way they are not handeling it right and you should set them straight. btw i doint blame them for flirting with you like that, you are pretty hot :)

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[ksdnfkfr]

They are too immature to deal with it or to conduct themselves properly. That is why I am going to wait until I am in college.

[sqishy]

I have recently come out as bi so now everyone at school and in my family knows. this isn't a problem, what is a problem is boys in school and friends who act as though its discusting to every do anything with another guy and then they come up and touch my penis or try and make me touch theirs.. one even kissed me the other day and I had no say in the matter. the only reason I didn't punch him was because he was a really nice guy and I think he is just fighting his true feelings too.. but it is as though because I like boys as well they can have me do whatever they want with me and I will just take it. has anyone else experienced this when they came out with boys thinking they could get bjs or hjs just because you like boys? thanks guys it is getting really annoying, not to the point where I need to tell my parents or anything but I feel it needs to stop now before it gets worse.

Some people like to test other's nerves, thinking they can hit someone's 'weak spot'. You seem to be holding up fine though. Ignore those who keep at it and be strong. Their actions only cause damage when you let them get to you. Best of luck. *hugs*

I am on the verge of coming out in school, and I know some resistance is gonna happen. Life is not so unless you have a challenge or so to keep you going.

[PinkFloyd]

i seriously think those guys either want to bully you because they are dicks or because they are in the closet themselves. either way they are not handeling it right and you should set them straight. btw i doint blame them for flirting with you like that, you are pretty hot :)

I gotta agree with this. Well I would re phrase the last part.. lol :P

[Cygnus]

I would seriously have punched someone if I were in your place, thats technically very freaking wrong bullying, if you don't like it don't let them, either tell someone or freaking punch them if they really cross the line.

[teen.jpg]

You know some pretty sick fucks ... Stand your ground, try to pay them no mind. But if things get worse take action.

As for other guys finding you disgusting, I can relate to that. It sincerely pisses me off. Even my best friend thinks that way, so we never talk about it. They just don't understand.

[teen.jpg]

btw i doint blame them for flirting with you like that, you are pretty hot :)

Oh gosh :rolleyes:

[Lovelife090994]

I'd be pissed, but I only hit if you hit first... Sorry dude. I am bisexual myself and not everyone gets it. What's so hard to get?
By the way, years ago for me, back in 8th grade, a guy would often mess with me and touch my butt. He has long since apologized since I was teased for people thinking I was gay just because I wouldn't date.

Oddly now, he is buff, manly, cute, and as a bad-boy El Salvadorian I did have a crush on hime. Now he has a girlfriend though.

[Ariesboy]

Oh gosh :rolleyes:

Haha what? ;)

[teen.jpg]

I'd be pissed, but I only hit if you hit first... Sorry dude. I am bisexual myself and not everyone gets it. What's so hard to get?
By the way, years ago for me, back in 8th grade, a guy would often mess with me and touch my butt. He has long since apologized since I was teased for people thinking I was gay just because I wouldn't date.

Oddly now, he is buff, manly, cute, and as a bad-boy El Salvadorian I did have a crush on hime. Now he has a girlfriend though.

Oh my god. There was some guy I hated on 7th grade who used to mess with me like that (touch my ass, and my thigh) for kicks. For dam shits and giggles. I literally hated him.

Only for me to start liking him the next year, getting brutally rejected and ignored for half a year.

Such a fun story :)

[Lovelife090994]

Oh my god. There was some guy I hated on 7th grade who used to mess with me like that (touch my ass, and my thigh) for kicks. For dam shits and giggles. I literally hated him.

Only for me to start liking him the next year, getting brutally rejected and ignored for half a year.

Such a fun story :)

Okay, now that sounds rough too!

[charliebaltimore]

I have recently come out as bi so now everyone at school and in my family knows. this isn't a problem, what is a problem is boys in school and friends who act as though its discusting to every do anything with another guy and then they come up and touch my penis or try and make me touch theirs.. one even kissed me the other day and I had no say in the matter. the only reason I didn't punch him was because he was a really nice guy and I think he is just fighting his true feelings too.. but it is as though because I like boys as well they can have me do whatever they want with me and I will just take it. has anyone else experienced this when they came out with boys thinking they could get bjs or hjs just because you like boys? thanks guys it is getting really annoying, not to the point where I need to tell my parents or anything but I feel it needs to stop now before it gets worse.

this kind of reaction is common amongst the LGBT members i know (including myself). I've always just ignored it tbh, im just that kinda guy that won't retaliate to many things. Im a little too blaise when it comes to people passing comments about my sexuality. I simply play up to my stereotypes, cus it either infatuates them (cus they're questioning) or freaks them out cus they were only having a laugh. I'm from Scotland and most people are really accepting nowadays. Most people in Secondary Schools don't think much of it, it's the older generation that hates out guts - even my own dad.

Just remember, no matter how much they annoy you, or what they say to you, you have done nothing wrong. You didn't ask to be bi, but you are and you've made peace with it. Be happy about your sexuality. Have pride in yourself and pity those that frown upon you. There's always gunna be people around you that have a need to get under your skin; all you gutta do is get under theirs first... if ye know what i mean ;)

hahaha, keep your head up pal and get in touch if you want a chat xxx

[steellord321]

Well that's clearly wrong and stupid as hell. If it's so disgusting *why are they kissing you and grabbing at your dick!?* Could throw that right back at them.

[GamerBoy]

Jeez they sound like major jerks...... never happend to me but try and say something to the principle or whoever. Good luk. the LGBT community needs to stick together through to the end.

[Dunce]

People are mostly jerks when it comes to being bi, because they don't understand it. In fact, it took me ages to consider myself bi because I had preconceptions about it. I just don't tell people really, if someone asks me then I'd tell them, but I kind of take a strange pleasure in keeping people in the dark about my sexuality, because people are always wondering haha.
But to be honest, I still don't really like saying I'm bisexual because there are a lot of misconceptions about it and I don't want people to put me in a box. Ever since I started thinking of myself as bi no one has asked me about it, but if they did I wouldn't know what to say, maybe sigh a lot and say "Ugh.. i dunno.. its complicated". but if I trusted them I'd just say bi.
My point in that weird piece of info is that being bi is your business, and people just don't understand it, you'll be ok :)

[Joey.]

People in my school does this all the time!
The make such gay actions,
but then call other people gay?
It makes you think if they are really?
I'm still very well in the closet,
But people do that to me a good bit.
I just ignore it, not worth feeding into :)

[SawyerSauce]

I have recently come out as bi so now everyone at school and in my family knows. this isn't a problem, what is a problem is boys in school and friends who act as though its discusting to every do anything with another guy and then they come up and touch my penis or try and make me touch theirs.. one even kissed me the other day and I had no say in the matter. the only reason I didn't punch him was because he was a really nice guy and I think he is just fighting his true feelings too.. but it is as though because I like boys as well they can have me do whatever they want with me and I will just take it. has anyone else experienced this when they came out with boys thinking they could get bjs or hjs just because you like boys? thanks guys it is getting really annoying, not to the point where I need to tell my parents or anything but I feel it needs to stop now before it gets worse.

That is sexual harassment. You need to report those people who did that to you. There is nothing wrong or unnatural with being bi. What they are doing is wrong and unnatural. Things like that can lead to worse sexual harassment and even rape or sexual abuse. I would encourage you to tell an adult.

[Throwaway24]

I found it is because there are a lot of different people in the world. There are some that want to experiment and are open about it, Some that want to but can't find away to ask, some that aren't curios, people that want to make u feel comfortable., people that want to make u feel comfortable. but are rubbish at it and people that want to make u feel like dirt. The only way to sort people out is to talk to them. If that really doesn't work a good punch in the face or a knee in the private area is always a good way to get ur message across. The human race is an annoying one full of problems and mysteries and it is because of that people who aren't in the social norm get treated badly or like dirt. I know that is really deep but I hope it has sort of helpped