i need help

[footballlover77]

ok well i dont know who to talk to i cant talk to my friends or my family but i think i can tell VT last night it was another regular night with my girlfriends of 2 years she came over while parents were out to eat and my brother was suppose to be keeping an eye on us but he immendianlty left as soon as my parents did so that left me and my girlfriend so were watching a pay per view movie and were all cuddled up under this big quilt when she said im going to go change into something a little more combterable so i said ok then when she got back she had her purse so we get all cuddled up again and she pulls a comdom out out of her purse and she got a smirk on her face and she started to rub my penis and it felt so good but i wanted to stop then she got the quilt off me and pulled off my pants she started to give me head when i pushed her away and said this is'nt right but she started to get naked and she started rubbing her body and i could stand it so anymore so i let her suck me up then we had intercourse she changed so much that night she was acting like a girl from a porn moive that curses alot and says stuff they usally dont say and i hated it all it felt good but now she wants to come over again friday and im nervous about what might happen again so my questions are
1) i love her so much we have never had a fight or disagrrement but i dont want to do what we did last night im not ready for sex but she thinks i am i dont want to end us over this but we might have to cause im not ready what should i do

[Gumleaf]

puberty for boys - relationships and dating

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Tell her you aren't comfortable, and that you want to wait.

[Atonement]

If you don't like it tell her. Ask her to slow down and take it easy. Just talk to her about it.

[byee]

Wow! i'll assume this is a true story.

First, no means no, regardless of the gender saying it. I'm sorry she didn't respect you (and herself) enough to listen.

Sex is a very personal thing, it's not just about the availability of it or the desire of ONE person, it's a joint decision. That means BOTH of you need to be ready. And, the one who's not always, always wins.

For whatever reason you might have, if you're not ready for a repaet performance, tell her very clearly that you're not, BEFORE she arrives with condom in hand. Her needs/wishes are not more important than yours.

[Gavin]

I thought that no stories are allowed and such correct me if i'm wrong