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Superman1215
October 17th, 2013, 08:55 PM
Hey there everyone, just found this forum searching for a place to reach out, so I hope this is the right place.
I have a little strange situation going on. I'm 19, my girlfriend is 16. She lives with her mom, who is single. My g/f's dad left her mom when she got pregnant.
So, her mom is okay with us having sex, as long as we used condoms etc. She sat me down and gave me the talk about 3 weeks into our relationship. She's like, 38 or something, and definitely attractive.
I hope its cool to talk sexually here; I don't want to get in trouble with the mods but I need to be open and talk honestly about what's going on. Okay so, I spend the night a lot, and on weekends, my g/f and I usually sleep in and fool around in the morning.
Her mom like, ALWAYS, pops in right as we're in the middle of doing stuff. And seems to like to hang around and talk to us. We're under the covers and stuff, but pretty much fully naked and its pretty obvious what's going on. She'll like, lean on the door and try to get us into a conversation.
And this happens during other times of the day, whenever we have the door closed. She's caught my g/f naked a bunch of times, like standing up in front of her bed and come through the door, and there's nothing for my g/f to do but yell "get out!" and run for the bed.
I mean, I don't know if I'm crazy but I swear its like she's trying to catch us.
I have some other stories/info that I'll post after I get some answers, I just don't want to unload everything at once.
Does anybody else have this happen? Do you think I'm crazy? We've both talked about it, and her mom always jokes about my g/f's guy friends calling her a milf and whatnot. I know this probably seems like total bs but I swear to god its true.
I just... I don't know what to do about it. I feel conflicted, because her mom is pretty attractive and good looking, and I almost think I like it? I don't know, its weird. I've never had to deal with something like this before.
Thanks everyone.
Cygnus
October 17th, 2013, 10:06 PM
She wants a threesome... oh wait, its not porn.
She probably hasn't gotten used to you having sex with her daughter and maybe feels the need to look so you can be "supervised"? Thats my theory.
Superman1215
October 17th, 2013, 10:54 PM
She wants a threesome... oh wait, its not porn.
She probably hasn't gotten used to you having sex with her daughter and maybe feels the need to look so you can be "supervised"? Thats my theory.
We've been together for over a year... and it still happens.
And its nuts because her mom will wake up in the morning and like, pop in in her pajamas, which is a t-shirt and her underwear.
I mean, my g/f and I have kind of turned it into a game where, if we ARE caught like that and I'm inside her, I'll try to keep going while her mom is in the room. Its kind of an erotic little thing I guess we do, my g/f thinks its awesome and totally gets off on doing it.
Like, a couple weeks ago, our usual Saturday routine... my g/f was on her side, on the outside edge of the bed, and I was doing her from behind, and her mom walks in. T-shirt and panties; just hangs out asking us what we planned on doing for the day.
She was there for like 3 full minutes talking to us while my g/f and I were "connected."
CharlieHorse
October 17th, 2013, 11:24 PM
maybe she wants to make sure you are good at sex. :P
idk maybe you should ask your girl if she's always like that. Maybe she'll talk to her mom about it. It would be awkward i think if you talked to her about it.
Amazerful
October 17th, 2013, 11:26 PM
She is obviously doing it on purpose, probably hoping to get invited to participate eventually. Single moms do get lonely, its not normal for a mother to just walk around in front of her daughters boyfriend when she is in her underwear and a shirt. Even if that is her 'pajamas'
NeuroTiger
October 17th, 2013, 11:48 PM
Try to let her in...lol
Maybe the problem would be solved ;)
Who knows? ;)
Superman1215
October 18th, 2013, 01:26 AM
She is obviously doing it on purpose, probably hoping to get invited to participate eventually. Single moms do get lonely, its not normal for a mother to just walk around in front of her daughters boyfriend when she is in her underwear and a shirt. Even if that is her 'pajamas'
I've thought about that. I mean, that just seems like a crazy step to actually take....
My g/f and I talk dirty sometimes, and I kind of brought it up, her mom coming in on us all the time.... and I was like "what if she literally caught us without us knowing, and stood there watching? Would you want me to stop?" and she was like "no", and I kind of went further with it, almost to participation 'n whatnot.
I donno its just crazy. I guess I just need to vent about it and talk it out haha
badthoughts
October 18th, 2013, 02:05 AM
Hey there everyone, just found this forum searching for a place to reach out, so I hope this is the right place.
You have come to the right place. Bask in the warm glow of our acceptance, and enjoy the breadth of our collective wisdom.
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I hope its cool to talk sexually here...I have some other stories/info that I'll post
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No storytelling. Of course it's cool to talk sexually, all the cool people do it, but you can't break out into an erotica story.
Oh, and my thoughts on the whole "mom watching us" fetish thing: that's fucked up, but whatever, to each their own. But your little participation comment - that's really fucked up. Do not have a threesome with your gf and her mom. IT'S HER MOM. Just no.
sqishy
October 18th, 2013, 02:21 PM
It could be that she is genuinely curious to see how things are going and she wants to sort of keep things supervised. But you deserve privacy, she has had enough time to see that she can trust you both.
Living For Love
October 18th, 2013, 03:12 PM
Why don't you talk to your girlfriend so that she could tell her why she does that? If it makes you unconfortable, I think she should stop, I mean, it's something really private, between you two only, it seems so awkward having her there just watching...
highschool
October 18th, 2013, 06:17 PM
that's so weird. I would talk to her
Superman1215
October 20th, 2013, 08:29 PM
Why don't you talk to your girlfriend so that she could tell her why she does that? If it makes you unconfortable, I think she should stop, I mean, it's something really private, between you two only, it seems so awkward having her there just watching...
It doesn't make us uncomfortable; more its just like an annoyance when we're already in the middle of fooling around and stuff. It doesn't seem to bother my g/f any more than that.
For me, its just... its odd, and different. But anyway, I have a semi-update story I guess now too.
I hope I don't offend you guys for speaking graphically about anything. Yesterday we did our usual Saturday morning wake-up session (which is her on her right side, and me behind her, the way we usually sleep). We ended up having all of our clothes off, together, this time. A little while after we actually started having sex, her mom popped into my g/f's room. We were under the covers so we didn't have to scramble, but we obviously didn't have shirts on since you could see our bare shoulders.
Her mom hung out, and as she was talking to us, I felt myself ready to finish... and since I was already in her, I couldn't really pull out and make it not obvious (we usually act sleepy and kind of just lay there when her mom comes in). My g/f was kind of slightly moving her hips, and I ended up having an orgasm while her mom was talking to her.
Today we went and bought a Plan B thing, because I didn't have a condom on at the time. We usually stop halfway through after my g/f has her orgasm, for me to put a condom on, but this time we obviously were caught off guard.
We both laughed about it after the fact, because her mom was standing there in her t-shirt and panties talking about the weather and going apple picking with my g/f's grandmother, which we did that afternoon.
That was a first though, and it was totally crazy. It was one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, and we both (my g/f and I) basically blamed it on having her mom in the room and being "caught" like that and me not wearing a condom. Thankfully my g/f was totally fine with it; she takes birth control and knows the Plan B thing works so we're not really worried.
Living For Love
October 21st, 2013, 09:11 AM
It doesn't make us uncomfortable; more its just like an annoyance when we're already in the middle of fooling around and stuff. It doesn't seem to bother my g/f any more than that.
For me, its just... its odd, and different. But anyway, I have a semi-update story I guess now too.
I hope I don't offend you guys for speaking graphically about anything. Yesterday we did our usual Saturday morning wake-up session (which is her on her right side, and me behind her, the way we usually sleep). We ended up having all of our clothes off, together, this time. A little while after we actually started having sex, her mom popped into my g/f's room. We were under the covers so we didn't have to scramble, but we obviously didn't have shirts on since you could see our bare shoulders.
Her mom hung out, and as she was talking to us, I felt myself ready to finish... and since I was already in her, I couldn't really pull out and make it not obvious (we usually act sleepy and kind of just lay there when her mom comes in). My g/f was kind of slightly moving her hips, and I ended up having an orgasm while her mom was talking to her.
Today we went and bought a Plan B thing, because I didn't have a condom on at the time. We usually stop halfway through after my g/f has her orgasm, for me to put a condom on, but this time we obviously were caught off guard.
We both laughed about it after the fact, because her mom was standing there in her t-shirt and panties talking about the weather and going apple picking with my g/f's grandmother, which we did that afternoon.
That was a first though, and it was totally crazy. It was one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, and we both (my g/f and I) basically blamed it on having her mom in the room and being "caught" like that and me not wearing a condom. Thankfully my g/f was totally fine with it; she takes birth control and knows the Plan B thing works so we're not really worried.
Well, I guees if you two love each other, and think that the situation you're living is funny, although a bit odd, then you're just fine. It would be worse if her mother forbidden you to have sex with her daughter. Think positive, be responsible, and enjoy it!
TheBigUnit
October 21st, 2013, 09:29 AM
It looks like your gf's mom needs a bf herself, really it would be terribly awkward if u have sex with her mom you'll regret it
Superman1215
October 25th, 2013, 01:03 AM
It looks like your gf's mom needs a bf herself, really it would be terribly awkward if u have sex with her mom you'll regret it
It almost sounds like youve done this before man haha.
Is it bad that we get kind of turned on by it? My g/f and I talked about it the other night, we kind of want to see how far we can take it, just cuz it makes us laugh so much.
TheBigUnit
October 25th, 2013, 08:35 AM
It almost sounds like youve done this before man haha.
Is it bad that we get kind of turned on by it? My g/f and I talked about it the other night, we kind of want to see how far we can take it, just cuz it makes us laugh so much.
haha nahh, i mean sure go for it but like i dont know how far youll go with your gf, if you think you'll get engaged and married etc to your gf i wouldnt do it with her mom then haha
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