Am I a third wheel?

[Heyman]

Sup people.........

So about 2 months ago, my 2 best friends started dating, in the beginning they were ok around me, but now its almost as if they are pushing me away. Before they were dating, I chatted to them a lot on BBM often times one of them starting the convosation........I haven't chatted to them in a month and a half. I have given them their space from the beginning, but I'm not sure what to do anymore.......

[Derryck]

Maybe you're over thinking this. If it hurts that much, ask them about it. Be weary of the risks though.

[kylem1229]

Not necessarily the third wheel, they are dating each other, meaning they want to spend time with eachother alot. Its really common, talk to them about it. See if they would like to invite you to a bowling game or football. But remember, they are dating. They want to be with eachother

[Heyman]

Yeah, I get that, but like in the past month, I have only seen them from a didtance at school and nothing else, whenever I'm around them, they ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS give me the cold sholder

[Derryck]

Yeah, I get that, but like in the past month, I have only seen them from a didtance at school and nothing else, whenever I'm around them, they ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS give me the cold sholder

This is a sign that they are trying to ignore you. I would ask about it. Tell them that you REFUSE to be the third wheel.

[Katiya]

Ask them about it and if they wish to be left alone. If they do then let em go until they breakup. They may come back. Dating is preoccupyin. Let them get over their honey moon lol

[Living For Love]

You need to understand their side. Now that they are a couple, they want to spend some time together. It doesn't mean they don't want to be your friends, just back off a bit for a while, and wait for them to call you to hang out with them. They don't seem to sensible about it, though, but just see where it leads.

[Amazerful]

I think that you are avoiding being the third wheel by giving them space, just because your friends got in a relationship is not a proper excuse for them to forget about you. If I were you I'd find new people to hang out with, don't wait for them to come back to you. I guess they didn't value their friendship with you as much as you did

[sqishy]

Maybe you're over thinking this. If it hurts that much, ask them about it. Be weary of the risks though.

Good advice.