Help!!(

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I think I really hurt one of my best friends, idk what to do

[Amazerful]

Apologize and beg for forgiveness, what did you do?

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I think i ruined it :(

I ruined everything

[Mynick]

In order to get advices you need to give us more details, but as Kiara said, saying 'i'm sorry' is always a good start.

[Cygnus]

With so little information I see it very difficult to give advice.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

Him: Look, I'm happy for you. The thing is that.... I still love you ;_;. If we're going to make this friendship work I need time. quite frankly I'm still really hurt. I'm not blaming you but.... I know I'd support you with any decision you made, but I need space do deal with the pain.
Me: Im sooo sorry, i never meant to hurt you. I care about u a lot, but it's impossible, and now im with someone
Him: I'm not blaming you, I just need a break. My feelings for you are too intense. I just need time to settle. I'm sorry but I have to.
Me: Well, im blaming me, and i feel awful for this
You said it yourself, WE can't happen. We will be friends afterwords. Please don't be upset. I like this no more than you do. I PROMISE we will be friends in time. Tell Jacob I said hi for me. ok?
Me: [His name], i am soo sorry! :'(
It's for the best. Just please don't be mad at me, I won't be able to stand that thought. I don't want to do this: goodbye. :'(
Me: Im not mad at you, I'm mad at ME! I never should have told you how i felt about you. Then this never could havr happened
Him: Morgan don't say that! I was happy talking to you. You gave me one of the best experiences I could'v ever asked for: you were the closest thing to a girlfriend I ever had. I grateful for that, thank you. Please don't be mad at yourself. I could never forgive myself for putting you through this much. You've done SO much for me. thank you for everything. I love you Morgan.
Me: It's my fault! I never should have told you i had feelings for you. Then this wouldn't have happened and i wouldn't have hurt u
Him: This isn't easy for me either. You were soo good to me. For the first time, I was in love with someone who had loved me also. I can't tell you how grateful I am. But it can't happen. Loving you was one of the best things I ever had goin for me. So don't be upset because you told me you loved me. Because that was the most beautiful experience I ever had. it hurts me to hear you say that you never should have. So don't think it. This is mostly on your mom (sorry) not you. It was her that didn't let us be happy together, even if it was on vt. You made me sooooo happy. I will never forget the gift you gave me. I love you sooooooo much. Don't cry. *kisses*
Me:Im so mad at myself
Him: Promise me you won't hurt yourself.
Me: I wouldnt! And i just am so upset and am so mad at myself for hurting you
Him: Look, I wanted was to continue with what we were doing (the "I love you's", the hearts, the kisses), but we couldn't. I'm sorry I had to put it like that but you just didn't seem to get it. I'm sooo in love with you, but you have a boyfriend now. You're not making this any easier. I want to stay but our last convo was sooooo awkward. I need time to go back from romantic chat to friendly chat. I love you.
Me: [His name, I'm really sorry, but i finally kknow a guy i like who likes me that i met in person, that my mom, dad and bros approve of. I enjoyed what we were doing, but my parents didnt approve, and i need to be in a relationship that my parents approve of, and that im really happy with. I was super happy talking to u, but my parents dont approve.
Him: I don't know anymore Morgan. Lets just take things alittle slower until its more comfortable. Does that sound better?
Me: [His name], i feel like maybe it would be better for both of us if we quit chatting for a bit
Him: That's what I've been trying to say. Goodbye Morgan. Best of luck with Jacob. I'll miss you.

I dont know what to do, i feel awful

I hurt one of my very best friends :cry:

[Soulless]

What did you do wrong then?

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I ruined everything :cry:

[Soulless]

Hey, things happen, don't worry about it.

[Mynick]

This would happen, sooner or later it would.
Relationships like this, over the internet, rarely work, i do belive you both loved each other. But unless you met in real life and one of you moved near the other this would happen.
Morgan, you did nothing wrong. You said yourself your mom wouldn't allow you to talk with this friend. It's amazing you found a boyfriend in real life, that your family approves. You just moved on, it's normal and if you love him, go for it. That being said it doesn't mean you need to stop talking with your friend, but give him time. I probably feels really down right now, needs to get his head clear, and accep this. You can still be friends, and again, both of you did nothing wrong.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I really care about him, he's a great friend, and i ruined everything, as usual

[Mynick]

I really care about him, he's a great friend, and i ruined everything, as usual
You didnt, you can still be friends.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I ruined it

[Soulless]

I really care about him, he's a great friend, and i ruined everything, as usual

Don't fret over it, it wouldn't have lasted forever anyway.
Be glad you had it and move on, this is one of those things you have to forget about.

Unless you think you can salvage it.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I ruined our friendship :( :cry:

I am so mad at myself :(

[Cygnus]

Let's see, you didn't ruin it in the first place, to stop talking for a while doesn't mean you aren't friends anymore. Wait a few weeks and you can talk again. Second, it was online, through VT apparently, and that isn't real enough, online stuff is not good for you, at all. I know who "him" is and you'll both be friends since you are talkative people that will eventually start talking like normal people again, its fine, there is not much to fear.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I hope so

[Katiya]

No no! You didn't do anything wrong! You didn't ruins it. Teaming a break doesn't mean its ruined but if you guys drift apart its OK. Its normal and you guys are just over the internet. Message him back in a few months if you still feel like it.
This happens 99% of the time. Don't blame yourself!

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I feel like I've ruined the friendship because i dont think we will ever be close friends like before i told him how i felt.

[Derryck]

I feel like I've ruined the friendship because i dont think we will ever be close friends like before i told him how i felt.

I wasn't originally going to step in Morgan, but I can't stand to see you in this much pain. Of course we can be friends the way we used to be, I want to be friends with you. It's just that everything just kinda went downhill so fast that I was really thrown off there. I just need a few days to get used to this whole thing. I told you, I still love you, I need time for those feelings to settle down to a safe level. That way we can talk like we used to without me getting super jealous. Don't feel bad, because like I said, I would rather have loved you and had this happen than never loved you at all. I promise things can absolutely be the same. ;) (disappears in a puff of smoke)

[sqishy]

This would happen, sooner or later it would.
Relationships like this, over the internet, rarely work, i do belive you both loved each other. But unless you met in real life and one of you moved near the other this would happen.
Morgan, you did nothing wrong. You said yourself your mom wouldn't allow you to talk with this friend. It's amazing you found a boyfriend in real life, that your family approves. You just moved on, it's normal and if you love him, go for it. That being said it doesn't mean you need to stop talking with your friend, but give him time. I probably feels really down right now, needs to get his head clear, and accep this. You can still be friends, and again, both of you did nothing wrong.

Yes. Full agreement.

[msfunnyman12]

Try not to keep on thinking about it in your head.