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Anon.e.mous
October 17th, 2013, 11:09 AM
I am 15 tomorrow and have had discharge for a few years and breast buds since like 10/11 years old. I have hair down there a tiny bit on my legs and here and there under my arms. I also the other day had lower back pain for 2 days or so. When i was 12 i had a very painful stabbing pain low down on my stomach that made it really hard to walk too. Also this will sound horrible but I 'fingered' with a pen last week cos i heard someone else had done it and that it was nice, well when i next saw it the pen had a bit of dischargey blood on the end inside it.

When will my period come cos i don't have droopey boobs but i guess i have a tiny bit but nothing to really 'hold-up'

What was with the pen is that the wall of the vagina getting filled with blood?

please reply with advice and answers to my questions please! :what:

Amazerful
October 19th, 2013, 02:23 AM
To be honest, your period will come when it feels like it, I didn't get mine until I was like almost 14. You dont have to have boobs to get a period, your period has nothing to do with boobs. From what you said I can only assume that you are a late bloomer, seems like you still have a lot of puberty to go through.

highschool
October 19th, 2013, 09:29 AM
like amazerful said, it'll come when it's ready. but it's probably sooner than later

Brighteyes
October 19th, 2013, 10:48 AM
As both Kiara and Sarah have said, your body will determine when your periods will begin...And you most certainly do not need boobs so as your periods can start.

All us girls are entirely unique, our bodies developing at different times with regards to age.

I sadly experienced puberty fairly early with my boobs somewhat developed by the time I was ten, and I had my first period when I was just about twelve years old.

Am more than sure both the other girls will agree with me in saying, enjoy and make the most of your period free time whilst you can...By the sound of what you have described you may very soon understand what we mean by that.

Luminous
October 19th, 2013, 11:01 AM
You may have a few months yet. Breast buds are enough to start your period, I only had breast buds when mine started, and then my breasts started growing extremely fast. It may come sooner rather than later but I would expect at least another 2-3 months. Don't worry about masturbating with a pen, it's no big deal. You just got a little discharge on it, it washes off. Your vagina won't fill with blood without it coming out. I know you probably hear this a lot and hate it, but you really need to enjoy not having it while you can. I got my period when I was 12 and wish it was later. I had hoped and hoped to get my period. The first and second times it was light and easy and painless and I felt so grown up, but after that they became painful. There is a lot of stress involved (the chance you may become pregnant, or it is late, you are conflicted about wearing tampons but want to swim, etc etc etc), and it can get in the way a ton. Plus you may even still continue to get discharge for a while. I stopped getting dark discharge when I started my period, and now it's all clear, but it's still there. I started puberty at 8 years old and wish I hadn't. Please don't stress over it too much, it will happen, you should have no worries.

Sandra Main
October 19th, 2013, 12:47 PM
I have started my period at age 11 and still
have breast buds. Almost flat lol
But we are all different and develop differently.
I think that its normal.

Emily15_xoxo
October 20th, 2013, 04:18 AM
perhaps the pen popped your cherry? :/ not really sure. if it did, it is a one time occurrence

Anon.e.mous
October 25th, 2013, 02:58 PM
You may have a few months yet. Breast buds are enough to start your period, I only had breast buds when mine started, and then my breasts started growing extremely fast. It may come sooner rather than later but I would expect at least another 2-3 months. Don't worry about masturbating with a pen, it's no big deal. You just got a little discharge on it, it washes off. Your vagina won't fill with blood without it coming out. I know you probably hear this a lot and hate it, but you really need to enjoy not having it while you can. I got my period when I was 12 and wish it was later. I had hoped and hoped to get my period. The first and second times it was light and easy and painless and I felt so grown up, but after that they became painful. There is a lot of stress involved (the chance you may become pregnant, or it is late, you are conflicted about wearing tampons but want to swim, etc etc etc), and it can get in the way a ton. Plus you may even still continue to get discharge for a while. I stopped getting dark discharge when I started my period, and now it's all clear, but it's still there. I started puberty at 8 years old and wish I hadn't. Please don't stress over it too much, it will happen, you should have no worries.

what was the blood in my pen-the lining of the walls layering with blood ?

Luminous
October 25th, 2013, 09:07 PM
what was the blood in my pen-the lining of the walls layering with blood ?

It says that one of the very first things in my previous answer (:

Anon.e.mous
November 2nd, 2013, 10:39 AM
you said it was a bit of discharge but if it had blood in it that can't be normal, and this didn't hurt so it can't be a scratch or something?

btw thanks guys for helping me out with your answers :)