Prom advice

[Lucius Zackery]

Hi guys,

I have a difficult situation in my hands and I would be grateful if I could get some advice about this.

I'm a guy, and there's this girl I've liked for a couple of years now. She's rejected me before but we've maintained a friendly relationship. I'm in my senior year now, and prom's coming up. I've been hesitating about asking her, and haven't really done much about it (it's been about a month since the date for prom was publicized). The other day though, my best friend contacted me and told me that he actually was talking to my crush about me. Apparently, she said she really wanted to go with me as well, but after a couple of weeks she was sure that I wasn't going to ask her.

The tricky part here is this. A couple of other guys asked her out as well, and, according to my friend she rejected them with the excuse that she decided she would be going without a date. She told my friend that if I asked her at this point, she probably would say no to me, as it would be disrespectful to all the other guys if she went with me because she already made it clear that she would be going alone.
Please do advise, thank you! :)

[TheGlowingCactus]

Hey there Lucius!

In my opinion, you should totally go for it. There's two ways it could go really - She could accept you and you both could have a great night together, because after all you only get one shot at the prom.

Even if she did reject you, life moves on bro! Nothing much is going to happen to you after that so you've got absolutely nothing to lose - Go for it and see what happens bro. Perhaps she rejected the other guys because she's waiting for you?

It's life bro, play it how you want! :)
Have a great prom, too.

[Living For Love]

Hey there Lucius!

In my opinion, you should totally go for it. There's two ways it could go really - She could accept you and you both could have a great night together, because after all you only get one shot at the prom.

Even if she did reject you, life moves on bro! Nothing much is going to happen to you after that so you've got absolutely nothing to lose - Go for it and see what happens bro. Perhaps she rejected the other guys because she's waiting for you?

It's life bro, play it how you want! :)
Have a great prom, too.

Totally agree! She seems not to have totally forget about you, and she might feel a bit guilty because she rejected you before. I think you should go for it, but remember, it's just a prom, don't be too intrusive.

[Amazerful]

Take a chance and ask her anyway, you have nothing to loose.

[Cygnus]

What I would do would be asking her out anyways, because on the first place going to prom with her doesn't mean being in a relationship, you can go as friends. In the second place I would do it too because who knows, what if she does say yes? It sure is worth trying.

[Cece14]

Totally ask her before its too late

[TheBigUnit]

Hi guys,

I have a difficult situation in my hands and I would be grateful if I could get some advice about this.

I'm a guy, and there's this girl I've liked for a couple of years now. She's rejected me before but we've maintained a friendly relationship. I'm in my senior year now, and prom's coming up. I've been hesitating about asking her, and haven't really done much about it (it's been about a month since the date for prom was publicized). The other day though, my best friend contacted me and told me that he actually was talking to my crush about me. Apparently, she said she really wanted to go with me as well, but after a couple of weeks she was sure that I wasn't going to ask her.

The tricky part here is this. A couple of other guys asked her out as well, and, according to my friend she rejected them with the excuse that she decided she would be going without a date. She told my friend that if I asked her at this point, she probably would say no to me, as it would be disrespectful to all the other guys if she went with me because she already made it clear that she would be going alone.
Please do advise, thank you! :)

Damn it man, do itttttt, its pretty early to post the date for prom isnt it? when is your prom?? seriously make up some cute way to ask her then go for it, ask friends for help, dont worry about it at all,

[Lucius Zackery]

I'll think about it...thanks guys :P

[highschool]

she's only saying that to your friend because she thinks you won't be asking her and she's feeling a bit guilty. if you ask her, she'll probably say yes. if not, you can hang at the dance as "friends" but she'll probably let you make a move on her

[Lucius Zackery]

she's only saying that to your friend because she thinks you won't be asking her and she's feeling a bit guilty. if you ask her, she'll probably say yes. if not, you can hang at the dance as "friends" but she'll probably let you make a move on her

Thank you for the interesting perspective. :)

[AdrianField]

Doesn't hurt to try. Whatever dude you can always ask her to dance for the rest of the night.