I dont know what to call it

[TheLivingLie]

ok, so in year 6 i asked out a girl and she said yes and we went cinema once and had a sleepover (nothing special) and she kissed me. so without going into a mass of detail, i never dumped her, she never dumped me, we r still in contact, she goes to a different school. i was wondering if we were still going out. i know its an awkward question but i have no idea and it would be even more awkward if i asked her. thanks

[Living For Love]

I can't see what stops you two from hanging out with eachother. If you fancy her, spend some time with her, let her know that you think she is a good friend. She might be interested in you as well, as you two could have a serious relationship.

[TheLivingLie]

I can't see what stops you two from hanging out with eachother. If you fancy her, spend some time with her, let her know that you think she is a good friend. She might be interested in you as well, as you two could have a serious relationship.

only problem is, i have sent her like 4 emails, and she hasn't replied. i sent them like a month ago. i check my emails everyday but nothing. im not so sure if i should text her. i dont want to sound like im being awkward...

[Living For Love]

only problem is, i have sent her like 4 emails, and she hasn't replied. i sent them like a month ago. i check my emails everyday but nothing. im not so sure if i should text her. i dont want to sound like im being awkward...

Starting a conversation with someone isn't being awkward. She probably doesn't use her e-mail a lot. Text her asking how is she going, something like that, simple and effective. You just need to be careful about something: you need to see if that "kiss" and sleepover was just something ordinary or if it meant something more. She could have just kissed you due to the "emotion of the moment" and now she just forgeted it. Or she might be interested in you and probably just a bit shy, and without opportunities to text you. Anyway, just text her, nothing stops you from trying to be her friend.

[TheLivingLie]

Starting a conversation with someone isn't being awkward. She probably doesn't use her e-mail a lot. Text her asking how is she going, something like that, simple and effective. You just need to be careful about something: you need to see if that "kiss" and sleepover was just something ordinary or if it meant something more. She could have just kissed you due to the "emotion of the moment" and now she just forgeted it. Or she might be interested in you and probably just a bit shy, and without opportunities to text you. Anyway, just text her, nothing stops you from trying to be her friend.

the kiss was at a sleepover, in year 6 (3 years ago) and there where like 4 other people there too. she kissed me when the others where asleep. i will try texting her.

oh, and she used to email me a lot, asking if i wanted to see movies and stuff

[Living For Love]

oh, and she used to email me a lot, asking if i wanted to see movies and stuff

Yes, but she used to e-mail you before or after the kiss?

[TheLivingLie]

Yes, but she used to e-mail you before or after the kiss?

both

[NeuroTiger]

Try to SMS her. You need to know if she still likes you.
But don't jump to the point very quickly.
Start the conversation about her school and things. Then the day after, try to see if she still likes you.
But please, keep your calm; it's vital.

[TheBigUnit]

ask her if she wants to go out again, its hard keeping relationships when youre in two different schools

[TheLivingLie]

try texting her. no reply. she usually always has her phone.......

[Wyatt 13]

Dude text and ask her to hang out again.

[sqishy]

Talk or text that you want to spend more time with her.

[kylem1229]

Just try and get a hold of her, see if she wants to meet you some where, watch a movie, go for dinner, etc.

[Luminous]

Year 6 was 3 years ago?? Honestly, I would just ask her, but I doubt you are in a relationship.

[highschool]

not to be a debby downer, but i think you're done...

[TheLivingLie]

not to be a debby downer, but i think you're done...

i can't help thinking the same, i think we r just friends now. she sent me this on the 25th of June:
hey how are ya? i feel rubbish.
any new girlfriends yet?
Im bored. entertain me!

also, I had this friend and we go way back. she lives in norway now and in year 5, i told her about her and her and her friends have been saying she's fake, so when she did a talent competition, i got the video and showed her and this is what she said:

....and i cant make any promises with that videoi might just Have to send it to everyone i know........

im sure youre not going to die, even i didnt die and your experienced, you should be fine!!!

and:

oh so THATS your girlfriend. shes really pretty isnt she? i might just to HAVE to share it; im sorry. ;P

:wub: :confused: ...

[Living For Love]

i can't help thinking the same, i think we r just friends now. she sent me this on the 25th of June:
hey how are ya? i feel rubbish.
any new girlfriends yet?
Im bored. entertain me!

also, I had this friend and we go way back. she lives in norway now and in year 5, i told her about her and her and her friends have been saying she's fake, so when she did a talent competition, i got the video and showed her and this is what she said:

....and i cant make any promises with that videoi might just Have to send it to everyone i know........

im sure youre not going to die, even i didnt die and your experienced, you should be fine!!!

and:

oh so THATS your girlfriend. shes really pretty isnt she? i might just to HAVE to share it; im sorry. ;P

:wub: :confused: ...


Well, the fact that she asks if you have any girlfriend shows that she might not be THAT interested in you, but I still think you should be close to her. Do you know if there is someone in her life in whom she might be interested in? It seems to me that she is trying to tell you she doesn't want to have a relationship with you, but, on the other hand, she doesn't want to leave you sad and heart-broken. She already knows you like her, so she is trying to deal with the situation in the most sensible way, for you not to get hurt. Keep her as a friend, but if you see she is not indeed in love with you, it's better just to move on.

[TheLivingLie]

Well, the fact that she asks if you have any girlfriend shows that she might not be THAT interested in you, but I still think you should be close to her. Do you know if there is someone in her life in whom she might be interested in? It seems to me that she is trying to tell you she doesn't want to have a relationship with you, but, on the other hand, she doesn't want to leave you sad and heart-broken. She already knows you like her, so she is trying to deal with the situation in the most sensible way, for you not to get hurt. Keep her as a friend, but if you see she is not indeed in love with you, it's better just to move on.

yeah, i guess. 2 years ago she was hanging around with this other guy, she told me they were friends, and then they had an argument and broke their friendship. well, the girl that she was talking about in some of the emails lives in Norway and we are very close (not in distance, in friendship) and are parents are too, but i guess we r probably just friends too...