Am I gay,bi,or straight? Time to clarify a often asked question.

[joelthezombie15]

So I see the whole what sexuality am I question all the time and I feel that maybe I can clarify.

No specific trait makes you gay or bi or straight (besides dating/marrying the same sex) the only person that can tell you what you are is you because gay and bi and straight means different things to different people and the only person you need to listen to is yourself. If you think you are gay, you are gay, if you think you're bi, you're bi. No one can say "oh you're gay because of x y and z."
like I am fascinated with penises, I find them to be beautiful, but I dont see my self as gay just because I admire one part of a gender. But that could be different for some one else. And also remember no matter what your family and friends say, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi or anything. Be who you want and don't let anyone label you, label yourself.

I just thought maybe that could help some of you out.

[ksdnfkfr]

That is good advice. I have long since decided to wait until I am at least 18 before trying a permanent label or coming out. Some people are dead certain of their sexuality early on. But probably more of us are confused during puberty and really need to ride it out and see where we finally end up. Right now I say my sexuality is somewhere around gay or bi or so I think.

[joelthezombie15]

That is good advice. I have long since decided to wait until I am at least 18 before trying a permanent label or coming out. Some people are dead certain of their sexuality early on. But probably more of us are confused during puberty and really need to ride it out and see where we finally end up. Right now I say my sexuality is somewhere around gay or bi or so I think.
male brains dont stop maturing until the age of 23, maybe wait longer even if you want to do that.

[ksdnfkfr]

Exactly. That's why I'm not going to start thinking about it again until I'm at least 18, and them may decide to put it on the back burner again. Plus I'll learn that I can be a complete person and enjoy life just as much without a label or making official public declarations. Not that I'm saying anything against those who have done so. I am only speaking for myself.

[Amazerful]

I've never thought about this subject that way, thats an interesting way to think about it, but it doesn't help in all situations